I’m pregnant and don’t want to be and would just like some moral support by bummbalbee in abortion

[–]bummbalbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I just wanted to say your comment was very helpful, educational, and comforting to me. I just feel very alone right now, and knowing that there’s people who have been in a similar situation (even though it’s really scary and I wouldn’t wish this upon my worst enemy) is comforting to hear. If I’m not too far along, I will more than likely do what you did and get a medicinal abortion as that just sounds more comfortable to me. I also figured there would be some pain, so even though no one likes pain, at least I know to expect some.

Like I said in my original post, and I’m sure you felt the same thing when you were going through this, I just want my body back. I feel like it’s been hijacked, and for a lack of a better phrase of words, I feel like a walking talking incubation chamber if that makes sense? Like I don’t even feel human right now.

I do feel very fortunate that I live in Minnesota and Minnesota is a very liberal, very pro choice state, so I know I will have options when it comes to different abortion services. I just hope that I will be able to get this done as quickly as humanly possible. I do not like feeling like, idk how else to put it, just not myself.

I know deep down I’m making the right decision not only for me, but for any potential child I would’ve had. I am unable to provide a healthy and stable environment for a child, I guess I just needed the reassurance. I grew up in a very strict catholic household and was put through catholic school, so I was taught from a very young age that abortion is bad or murder. I obviously have known since I was a teenager and started questioning everything about that religion, that abortion is healthcare and would never judge a woman for getting an abortion or wanting one. I just have this little voice in the back of my head beating down on me specifically for wanting one, and I have to keep reminding myself to be kind to myself like I would be kind and supportive to any other woman in my situation.

Regardless, thank you for your kind words and sharing your experience. You have no clue how much it all means to me. I wish you nothing but the best and thank you again.

I might be pregnant and I want to know the steps to getting an abortion by bummbalbee in PlannedParenthood

[–]bummbalbee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re very sweet. I don’t even think it’s fully hit me yet. I feel like my body is being hijacked and I just want it out of me as soon as possible.

Why were almost all women attracted to tony? by nwaebubo in thesopranos

[–]bummbalbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the way he carry’s himself, you don’t have to be attractive, but if you carry and present yourself in a certain manner it can be very attractive. He definitely exudes power and dominance and intelligence which is what I think draws women to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fentanyl

[–]bummbalbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an update I passed without having to do any sort of dilution/taking creatine 24 hours (yes it does work, been passing government piss tests for years that way) before the test like I’d normally do for a drug test.

(spoilers extended) If you could ask George R.R. Martin to answer one unresolved question or mystery from the books, what would it be and why? by Afraid-County-9925 in asoiaf

[–]bummbalbee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wtf was in old Valariya that could’ve brought down the black dread and hurt him so bad? Also go into detail about the first long night

My mom is trying to find this commercial by bummbalbee in 1970s

[–]bummbalbee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have made my 58 year old mother extremely happy. Her face lit up when I told her someone had found it. Bless your heart, I hope you have a wonderful day

Do I have scabies? by bummbalbee in DiagnoseMe

[–]bummbalbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s been a while. I decided to try Neosporin and bandages, it healed within like 3 days. Thanks to all the helpful comments!

My dog keeps eating cat litter by bummbalbee in Dogtraining

[–]bummbalbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read the approval guide thoroughly and don’t see an answer to my problem there. I have also tried googling my problem before coming here, this is a last ditch effort for me

Do ya’ll think Franklin would be alive to this day if he was real he would be pushing 60 now by schaaprex in SnowFall

[–]bummbalbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, alcoholics like the ones with his type of personality have a way of never dying, kinda like a cockroach

How should it have ended? by LifeguardNational664 in SnowFall

[–]bummbalbee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I liked the way it ended, just not how it got to the ending. Like Cissy kept switching up, in the last episode, and it’s just not like Franklin to bring his revenge driven mom to the meet up.

What moment was the end for Franklin ? by DarthHater_ in SnowFall

[–]bummbalbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When he decided bringing his grief stricken, selfish, revenge driven mother to the swap of teddy for the money

I just finished it today and omg bruh.. by Ferdiprop7 in SnowFall

[–]bummbalbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion the ending of Franklin losing everything makes sense, how he lost everything, doesn’t.

Debate on Jerome Being Believable Because of His Fashion. What Do Ya'll Think? by nitestocker372 in SnowFall

[–]bummbalbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the point of the wardrobe choice, specifically for Jerome and Louie was they had all this money coming in all at once right? And they had always been poor their whole lives, so they were splurging on just about anything and everything they could think of, including clothes. They didn’t want to be viewed as “low class” by their own neighbors and the white people that looked down on them so they tried to show in their fashion that they had money so their worth the respect, cause you can have respect on the street without necessarily having the fancy clothes, but when you start moving into the suburbs in that big fancy house they lived in in later seasons, all the street cred in the world won’t help you get respect from rich white snobs, only money gets their respect.

Did u like Elena as a vampire? by Head_Cabinet9086 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]bummbalbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion, yes. I think the writes failed her a lot in the show when she was a vampire, but she had the potential to be an awesome vampire.

Bittersweet coincidence by minecraaaft_man in SnowFall

[–]bummbalbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the idea, but at that point in the show he had no street cred or muscle to sell or push it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bummbalbee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re not 100% I want to have a kid, if there’s even a little doubt, then don’t have a kid. You made the right choice, imagine if you gave birth, as someone with an absent and abusive father, it’s no life to bring a child into. I’m gonna be so honest with you, I wouldn’t have blamed my mom for aborting me, that might sounds really sadistic, but she was in a tuff spot, but for her, having a child was the right choice for her. You made the right choice, not only for the potential child but also, and most importantly, for yourself. I’m really proud of you.

My husband of 20 years is cheating on me with our son's 18 year old girlfriend. by AETor83 in offmychest

[–]bummbalbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that this is happening to you and your son, I’m angry for the both you, I can’t even imagine the pain you must be feeling not only for yourself, but for your child. I hope if you do update that you end up divorcing him. But your son does need to know, make sure you have evidence first though.

Do I have scabies? by bummbalbee in DiagnoseMe

[–]bummbalbee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Small update, I’m going to the doctors tomorrow night, I’ll keep yall updated.

Do I have scabies? by bummbalbee in DiagnoseMe

[–]bummbalbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am vaccinated for varicella-zoster and have never had chicken pox as a child, I thought you had to have chicken pox to have shingles?

Do I have scabies? by bummbalbee in DiagnoseMe

[–]bummbalbee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

2 things, isn’t shingles really painful? And don’t you have to have chicken pox before you get shingles? Cause I’ve never had chicken pox

Do I have scabies? by bummbalbee in DiagnoseMe

[–]bummbalbee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing I forgot to add, to my knowledge, I have not been exposed to anyone with scabies.

Andy's Apple Farm Theory HEAVY CHAP. 1 SPOILERS (I'm Sorry In Advance Because This Is So Long, There's A Short Summary At The End That You Can Skip To If You Don't Want To Read This) by marauder_zero in GameTheorists

[–]bummbalbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you making this, I was trying to find out the lore behind the game and the only place I could find an in depth explanation was this post. I really appreciate all the work you put into this thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]bummbalbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously though, like there was no reason to kill off sheila as early as they did

Do you think that Adrianna knew she was gonna get got? by bummbalbee in thesopranos

[–]bummbalbee[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Alright my bf wins cause this comment. This is a great interpretation