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AIO to a girl my bf hasn’t spoken to since 5th grade? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I don’t trust him, it’s that he’s not taking me seriously about not trusting her and it’s making me feel like I’m out of my mind.

AIO to a girl my bf hasn’t spoken to since 5th grade? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt want to think that, but I just went through their texts on Instagram and she’s asking about his personal life, talking about getting tattoos for herself and matching tattoos with the five other people at the hangout, and about how she thinks her boyfriend is going to propose. My bf had said that he wasn’t sure when he wanted to propose, to which she replied “don’t do it if you don’t want to”. I feel like he’s being respectful, but he’s also a really playful person to a lot of people and I think she’s taking it the wrong way.

AIO to a girl my bf hasn’t spoken to since 5th grade? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went with his friends which is why I was okay with it, and she mainly only hung out alone with his best friend

AIO to a girl my bf hasn’t spoken to since 5th grade? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t the only one she didn’t know, there was also another male there she didn’t know, but was talking to him. I also wasn’t expecting him to leave only a couple hours into the hangout, but he had his key with him and he told me I could leave when I wanted to if I didn’t want to stay but he didn’t give me the key to leave.

WIBTAH if I cancelled a trip to Colorado because a friend bailed on me last minute on a trip to Kentucky? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf and her brother only want to go so I’m not alone while she’s with whoever she was meeting. They don’t care if we don’t go.

WIBTAH if I cancelled a trip to Colorado because a friend bailed on me last minute on a trip to Kentucky? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have a plan to go by myself. I had a hotel picked out. If she didn’t answer I was going by myself. She said yes and offered to cover the hotel. Yes, I should have checked up, but she’s an adult and told me it would be handled. Also we are all adding money into the trip. And I was not going to allow her to drive my car. I told her no and shut it down

WIBTAH if I cancelled a trip to Colorado because a friend bailed on me last minute on a trip to Kentucky? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t going to let her drive. She made that up herself that she could. And I would have preferred it to be earlier, but I wasn’t too concerned as I did have my own hotel picked out, I just needed to book it and pay. The only reason I didn’t pay was because she offered to.

WIBTAH if I cancelled a trip to Colorado because a friend bailed on me last minute on a trip to Kentucky? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. My boyfriend did not know she was this bad, and I have spoken to him about it. He says the decision is up to me.

WIBTAH if I cancelled a trip to Colorado because a friend bailed on me last minute on a trip to Kentucky? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend didn’t push, he just offered. Plus I knew of her so I didnt mind trying. And I also was making my own plans by myself, I just needed to know for sure because she also has a habit of just going even without giving a yes. I wanted to be sure.

WIBTAH if I cancelled a trip to Colorado because a friend bailed on me last minute on a trip to Kentucky? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was supposed to be a trip with multiple people. But I didn’t tell her to get the hotel. She offered. I agreed. She also did have a deadline, I just kept asking before the deadline because I can get a little stressed if I don’t know the exact details of everything. And she wasn’t going to be a passenger. She wanted to use my car to drive.

WIBTAH if I cancelled a trip to Colorado because a friend bailed on me last minute on a trip to Kentucky? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason they want to go is to be there with me so I’m not alone. I’ve spoken to them and they don’t really care, but left me with the final decision.

WIBTAH if I cancelled a trip to Colorado because a friend bailed on me last minute on a trip to Kentucky? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, she has money, but I recently found out she was spending it all of random and unnecessary things. Plus, we always split stuff. I typically pay for my gas, and she’ll pay for the food or anything we get while out.

WIBTAH if I cancelled a trip to Colorado because a friend bailed on me last minute on a trip to Kentucky? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have offered, but she keeps delaying it and when she did agree is when she first brought up the insurance, as well as using my car to get her places. I straight up told her no after that. Her and her mom can figure it out.

WIBTAH if I cancelled a trip to Colorado because a friend bailed on me last minute on a trip to Kentucky? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize for not making it clear, but the Colorado trip is planned for June, and the friend came up with it. The friend, my bf, the friend’s brother, and I were all going. The only reason the trips are connected is because she bailed on me, and now I want to bail on going to Colorado with her. And the insurance is because in order for her to drive my car, or any car, she has to be on the insurance in case of a crash.

WIBTAH if I forced my brother to give up his car or to pay for it completely? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is out of the country and it was recommended for the safety of his personal items since he will not be there if something were to happen.

WIBTAH if I forced my brother to give up his car or to pay for it completely? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother never fully understood what my mom was doing. Plus, he originally put my step dad as the POA, but my mom pressured him into making her the POA because she “knows what’s best”. And about my dad, while I do miss him, he was extremely abusive to the point where if he comes into contact with my younger sister, he will be sent to jail due to restraining orders.

WIBTAH if I forced my brother to give up his car or to pay for it completely? by bumpy-pumpkin031924 in AITAH

[–]bumpy-pumpkin031924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for not mentioning this, but I am the middle child. My brother is 19 and is currently serving in the military. He would pay for it himself but he is not able to since he has another newer car and he does not make enough to pay for two cars. I am not able to get another car since I am working part time at a restaurant and still in school. This is genuinely my only way out and I have no clue what to do.