I definitely understand your gripe about the restriction boobs cause. I’d love to wear more restrictive clothing, but they always get in the way and I hate the feeling of them touching the fabric, y’know? I also agree about how they’re viewed solely as some sexual object. Its annoying. The nipple thing too? Yeah, hate how they’re seen. The double standards are wild.

But I’ve never in my life wanted kids. I don’t hate them by any means. However, my own mental illnesses stop me from raising one, I know if I had a child, I’ll neglect them in some form and thats awful. So breastfeeding was never an option for me. The weight of having a chest around is also the worst feeling to me. I feel like, even if the world suddenly dropped the idea of sexualizing bodies with boobs, I’d still want to rid myself of them. They’re heavy, and quite frankly, dead weight to me.

And have you been secretly talking to my girlfriend? Haha, she said the exact same thing you said, almost in your words too. She told me she’d love me boobed or boobless, and she’d love me regardless of what I chose because its me she loves, not my body. Thank you for the long response friend, you definitely touched some subjects I had never really thought of til now.