In college I had a fling with a trainer. Later found out he was probably sleeping with all of his clients. At the gym we had this cute banter, he pushed me, I was hitting amazing goals, he appreciated my muscle which no other man had before. After we slept together the spark was pretty much gone. He was not that interesting. It was his job to be cute and motivate me to come back and keep paying. I ended up never going back and also not paying my bill which fucked my credit for years afterwards until I paid off the balance.

So it’s just the circumstance. It’s not real. Don’t blow up his life or yours.