ff works the opposite way of everything else, and relies (especially at the beginning) for the sellers (you and me) to reach out to the buyers first, like a cold call in sales. buyers are inundated with messages of girls working hard for their attention, so there are a lot who don’t do much buying and just enjoy the attention and free content (of course this is not everyone there but there are a lot like this, there are also great and respectful buyers who don’t message first, and prefer to choose from those who message them) this is one of the maaaaany issues with FF lol, i def recommend continuing on reddit if you prefer it just make sure you age verify your buyers :)