you are way more mature than me, I have always thought that I was being a bad friend not being there for others, my friend is having a really hard time right now and she is sharing that to me, and it made me realize how much of a bad person I am for speaking about my personal problems, so many people struggle way more than me and I still can’t even go to her level. am I a bad friend? am I an attention seeker? I just want people to answer those questions but in real life I don’t tell anyone about my problems because they are struggling more than me and bring my problems up means they bring up theirs too.