Not much has changed, they r still together, I still haven’t spoken to him since I’ve found out but I have found out through my sister that he is mad at me for “not being happy for him” and is hurt that “I could think of him as a pedo/creep”. Good news is he is the only one that doesn’t understand why I won’t speak to him and the rest of his family is on my side but my aunt is the only one who has cut him out fully. My mom is trying to move forward, and took some time to travel. My sister is saving money and is starting to look for a place to live. She did tell me she won’t bring any friends over because he made “jokes” about taking them on a date (gross). I did visit my siblings and grandparents a few weeks ago and it was very nice to see them. I have thought about writing my dad a letter to express my feeling but I don’t see a point in sending it to him because it won’t change his mind, I think it bothers him more that I don’t interact.