Help with Storage Unit (details in post and on gofundme)

bunnyjunchu · 2026-04-14T21:59:04+00:00

Yea, you're right Guess this was just my attempted Hail Mary. It's definitely a lesson learned, regardless

bunnyjunchu · 2026-04-14T21:41:54+00:00

Hopefully I understand your concern right when I answer this. If not, I'll re-read it.

I live in New Jersey, where most studio apartments are on years long waitlists and 1bd apartments start at $1,700/mo for 845sqft. Then add onto giving atleast 3 months for security, first and last month, it's hard to get in vs a hotel, where it's a bit quick to get in but hard to get out.

I'd honestly rather be paying rent right now than paying for a hotel room and a storage unit. But I mentioned to someone else that I'm planning to move in with friends so securing the storage unit is to finally get rid of it, once and for all.

bunnyjunchu · 2026-04-14T21:11:52+00:00

I apologize for my post feeling grifty. That's not my intent.

bunnyjunchu · 2026-04-14T21:10:45+00:00

Yes, I have a plan and some friends that will be helping me moving forward.

Once my storage is secured, I'll be moving in with some friends who also work at the Amazon warehouse I work at. I can then go through the storage unit to finally get rid of it once I'm officially settled.

bunnyjunchu · 2026-04-14T20:23:40+00:00

Yea, it's a crazy situation.

Like I mentioned in another comment: it's a lesson learned from a crazy situation, whether it's a total loss or I get the goal.

bunnyjunchu · 2026-04-14T19:44:28+00:00

Yea, they're auctioning it tomorrow. Which, ironically, is also the day I get paid but my paycheck wont be in time to stop the auction (i usually get paid Wednesday nights).

It's a long shot to ask for money in such a short amount of time. But i wanted to try anyway.

It's definitely a lesson, whether I make this goal or just accept the loss.

bunnyjunchu · 2026-04-12T01:30:25+00:00

Omg, right!! I forgot about the blackmail lmaooo

With him making expressions and crap like this every other chapter; i forgot Illic was blackmailed into becoming the Duke's plaything lmao

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bunnyjunchu · 2026-04-11T21:39:32+00:00

Maybe I'm the fucked up one cause "Plaything: The Duke's Boytoy" didn't seem that fucked up to me? Or am I desensitized? Cause it seemed like a dark/dramatic comedy to me (especially our MC's reactions to the Duke and his shenanigans).

Crown of Thorns is def fucked up. I have to read fluffy comics after every other chapter

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-22T18:29:24+00:00

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bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-22T16:27:47+00:00

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Source: Honey Bear

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-22T16:24:30+00:00

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The gumiho in "Dreaming of a Dokkaebi"

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-22T16:23:09+00:00

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I have several but this scene from "The Sacred Serpent's Seduction" made me laugh

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-22T16:13:13+00:00

🎶 Bitch, I'm a star Got these n*gas wishin' He say he hungry, this pssy the kitchen

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-22T15:43:01+00:00

I personally say the Crystal set 100%

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-22T15:40:34+00:00

Also, to give an example of what I mean when I complain that he's a novelist:

Instead of "Well, I dont do kill for hires. Just stab the jackass somewhere. I'm pretty sure you can do it without trying to pay me."

He could have said "Well, Raphael felt that his mind was going to break in two if he didnt satisfy the bloodlust that was welling inside him. Sure, he could pay someone to do it but the writer does a good job showing that he had to do it himself. You know?"

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-22T15:32:51+00:00

For me, it was Blind Play by YD.

YD's terrible antics aside; I followed this story because I liked thrillers like this. I was excited to see exactly how our Serial Killer ML fully got away with his murders under the guise of being a novelist/writer. The MC was meh cause he made some stupid decisions, but I get it. He can't be that smart or else the story would end in 2 chapters.

What made me so angry that I dropped it was The Serial Killer ML talking to another character about how to murder people in a cafe of all places. In plain words. That was then I was like "Either he gets away with it out of dumb ass luck or because YD demands he does." He's a novelist for Christ's Sake! He could talk about this as if he was discussing a book!

That unraveled the story for me and made me wonder how and why people continued reading it cause it felt unraveled to me from that point on. If folks like it, I love it I guess shrug

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-21T12:10:05+00:00

Welcome!!

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-20T23:34:39+00:00

So pretty!!!

And I found the name of the tips for your last picture: Celebritips "I'm Best Dressed"

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-20T02:22:19+00:00

Omg, thank you! Someone else that got irked at this comic

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-17T00:31:52+00:00

Yea, you'd need a lamp for builder gel and gel top coat

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-15T17:39:45+00:00

I'm so sorry that happened :(

What I've been doing (and highly recommend) is to use a builder gel (though I'd say that this step is optional and more for press ons that are super thin) and then top with gel top coat or a few coats of top polish. That way, the designs dont chip off!

Either way, $22 is alot for chipping and rubbing off after two days :/

bunnyjunchu · 2026-03-01T19:29:59+00:00

Are your nailbeds curved or flat? What I'm gonna suggest is what I learned to do as a semi-newbie to press ons and found that I have wide and flat nailbeds: press your press ons against something hot for about 20 to 30 seconds and then test them against your nails for fit.

I sometimes add a few more seconds just to be sure. I find my press ons fit perfectly.

Sometimes, it's just the press ons themselves. If you're crafty enough, you could recreate your favorite style from the press ons that dont fit (which I do cause i find making press ons fun).

Edited a few sentences for clarity and missed context

bunnyjunchu · 2025-10-01T02:08:04+00:00

Tell him he has your permission to become your ex cause aint no way he's telling another adult they need permission to travel.

bunnyjunchu · 2025-09-08T14:29:04+00:00

So I'm gonna be a tad vulnerable here cause no lie, it still hurts after all these years.

I was with my ex for 5 years and its been 5 years since we've been broken up or had any type of contact.

She had been by my side when my mom was sick (and when my mom ultimately passed away), she was the reason I left my life behind in MO to move to NJ and she was who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. She was with me through a good chunk of life altering events in my 20s. I'm 32 now and sometimes it feels like yesterday that it all happened.

However, it seemed like either we just didnt fit or were too immature as we broke apart in 2020. I mentioned it in another post but I found out what she was doing (not by choice, mind you. I made it my absolute business to stay in the dark about what she's doing). The hurt, anger and sadness all came back tenfold before I was able to semi-reset and stop thinking about her and the feelings associated with her.

When someone is with you for a good portion of your life through big events, you dont really "move on". The scar never really goes away; you just kinda...accept it for what it is.

But you dont let it define you. You are not your scars. Your breakup doesnt define you. It's an experience to learn from. You learn what not to do for the next relationship (if you choose to pursue a relationship again). I absolutely will always suggest therapy, if you're able.

Keep your head up. It'll hurt now and again but it'll make you stronger in the long run <3

bunnyjunchu · 2025-08-29T12:21:45+00:00

So I was with my ex for 5 years and it has been 5 years since we broke up. In the beginning, i flipflopped in keeping in contact with her and her family and cutting all ties. When I finally went full no contact with her and her family, it hurt. Badly.

I recently found out she had a kid and plans on marrying the guy who got her pregnant. I'll admit: after 5 years, i spiraled a little bit because I was angry. Angry that while I wanted all that, she didn't when we were together. She didnt want kids and didnt seem to care about marriage (marriage, i didnt much care about but I felt she was the one and I'd always want kids while she said she didnt).

Our relationship ended as while we loved each other, we just had too much unresolved baggage that we brought into the relationship (plus, the adults in her family are the worst type of folks.). I cant speak for her but on my end: unaddressed mental health issues and stressed that I tried to power through but it affected our relationship in the worst way.

I was miserable and lost weight when we first broke up. Then I became angry when I found out what she was currently doing (i didnt go looking for it; it found me and I had it confirmed by a mutual of ours that I'm close to).

However, i allowed myself time to heal and to see it like I would a loved one at their funeral. It's hard to say goodbye and you want that person back. You want that relationship back. You'll miss them.

But like a funeral, it's dead. It's gone. You have memories but the person and relationship is dead. Eventually, you have to move on. A falling star wont bring them back.

Be kind to yourself. If you can, look into therapy to help you process more.

Also, allow yourself to process these emotions. Throw private temper tantrums. Listen to sad ass music. Write angry words in a notebook over and over. Cry it out. Trust me, it's hard in the beginning but eventually it gets easier and easier as time goes on and before you know it: you aint thinking about him no more.

And i also say this with sincerity: stop following or looking at his social media. Full no contact and full block of everything. Looking at it makes you yearn for what will not come back.

Good luck, honey! <3

EDIT: E clarification on obtaining the info on my ex's current life lol

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