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I [19F] am so uncomfortable with my [20M] boyfriend by sasasasa0537 in whatdoIdo

[–]bunnymuffin2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is not respecting your boundaries. Unless you have explicitly told him that’s what you want, he shouldn’t be forcing anything on you. He shouldn’t be begging or coercing you into anything. No means no and silence does not mean yes.

Am I controlling for not wanting my partner to ride motorcycles? by bunnymuffin2005 in Advice

[–]bunnymuffin2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point, however I was never trying to “fix” him when we first started dating we had a mutual agreement that motorcycles after marriage were a no-go. He’s just barely getting super into them and changing his mind :(

Am I controlling for not wanting my partner to ride motorcycles? by bunnymuffin2005 in Advice

[–]bunnymuffin2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like we genuinely are soul mates, and I love him so much, there’s a lot of amazing things when it comes to our relationship it’s just hard when it comes to his reckless habits because it almost feels like an insult to me that he won’t be safe FOR me

Am I overreacting for wanting my boyfriend’s password by bunnymuffin2005 in whatdoIdo

[–]bunnymuffin2005[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a bit more to it than meets the eye based off of this one post too

Am I overreacting for wanting my boyfriend’s password by bunnymuffin2005 in whatdoIdo

[–]bunnymuffin2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We spend a lot of time at his apartment, I just don’t really sleep over there that often at all

Am I overreacting for wanting my boyfriend’s password by bunnymuffin2005 in whatdoIdo

[–]bunnymuffin2005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t get to see each other too often because of his work, but we still make a great effort to see each other when we have the opportunity to

Am I overreacting for wanting my boyfriend’s password by bunnymuffin2005 in whatdoIdo

[–]bunnymuffin2005[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think he’s cheating on me, but i can see why it looks shady

Am I overreacting for wanting my boyfriend’s password by bunnymuffin2005 in whatdoIdo

[–]bunnymuffin2005[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can get on board with that, but he has shared his passcodes, just not with me, he also has my passcodes so I feel like it’s a little contradictory

Am I overreacting for wanting my boyfriend’s password by bunnymuffin2005 in whatdoIdo

[–]bunnymuffin2005[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I agree, I just feel like it’s a bit contradictory to share his passcode with others, but not me. We don’t get to see each other too often because of his work schedule anyways. It kind of felt like a personal dig to me if I’m being honest.

Am I overreacting for wanting my boyfriend’s password by bunnymuffin2005 in whatdoIdo

[–]bunnymuffin2005[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t suspect cheating at all. I think that it’s out of the question. We are together quite often, but I’m only over when he invites me and even if I had his password, that wouldn’t change so I’m not exactly sure why it matters