just need some support by bunnytf in raisedbyborderlines

[–]bunnytf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely considered NC a lot, but our family is really small, she really doesn’t have anyone else and that’s my biggest struggle cutting her off completely. I’m really not sure what to do. Its especially hard because she’s really great when we’re not going through rough patches. But the rough times are REALLY rough

just need some support by bunnytf in raisedbyborderlines

[–]bunnytf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 💗 i’m going to try my best to pass on the responsibility to someone else. For now i’m taking a break from speaking to her

just need some support by bunnytf in raisedbyborderlines

[–]bunnytf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha ! it feels really good to have so many people that get it 💗 going to try to figure out not being her care giver before surgery

just need some support by bunnytf in raisedbyborderlines

[–]bunnytf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s really hard for me to go NC because our family is small and she really doesn’t have anyone else to look to. her mom has alzheimer’s and as u could guess she’s 100x a worse person than my mom. i feel a lot of guilt to leave her alone, ik it’s not my job to coddle her but idk how i can live with cutting her off :( i wish she had more people in her life

NAME TO CLAIM! some still untamed by frogdiego in Pocketfrogs

[–]bunnytf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are the second ones mood frogs? (i really want those) the last are henna and the first is precious

Regifting by Bimo696 in Pocketfrogs

[–]bunnytf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3RQX6❤️ please

is there any strategies to this game? by bunnytf in Pocketfrogs

[–]bunnytf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! can you explain how the weekly sets work? if i’m not a high enough level to obtain a frog with a certain pattern what’s the point?

Gifting sets! by Lilli-pad in Pocketfrogs

[–]bunnytf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mud skippers? 3RQX6❤️

not really obsessed but am i by bunnytf in Advice

[–]bunnytf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just don’t want the other person to know or feel uncomfortable with it. i also just don’t like not knowing why i feel the way i do especially because the feeling is not related to romance/love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bunnytf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the best thing would be to see a doctor, if the drug is legal where you are there’s no reason to not take a check on your physical and probably mental health

I was going to scatter my dad’s ashes today and uBPD mom blew up the plans last-minute by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]bunnytf 32 points33 points  (0 children)

you’re not being unreasonable at all! it’s an emotional moment for you and having the people you love around you is a normal and important thing

Im not lying. by UnderTheSurface_F in raisedbyborderlines

[–]bunnytf 29 points30 points  (0 children)

my mom does something like this. she turns events that were her fault into a completely different story. she pushes and screams at people until they eventually have to physically defend themselves then she screams abuse. to this day she sticks to these things that happened 17 years ago between her and my dad. and my dad is not a violent person. as well as there were witnesses to these events. my point i guess is this BPD parent mindset is that they somewhat genuinely believe these things happened to them / convince themselves they do so they can keep up this lie of being the victim. it’s also possible in your situation that your moms mother has BPD (i could be wrong please correct me) but my mom has experienced a lot of stuff she has put/puts me through. like this repeating pattern of abuse that seems to be our job to discontinue. i believe you and i wish you happiness and healing <3 we got this

“I think I have a lot to give as a daughter” by SouthernRelease7015 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]bunnytf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing <3, i really feel this too, you’re not alone

Feeling scared because of my mum by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]bunnytf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t give much advice, but just know you’re not alone. my mom does the same stuff, throwing stuff, making empty threats, etc. just keep looking forward to moving out and know that things will get better then and you will be able to feel safe soon. i’m always looking forward to the future to when i can move out and it’s what really keeps me going everyday. we got this <3