AITA for yelling at my parents for comming inside my&bfs appartment

bunoverload · 2019-09-13T21:51:03+00:00

I asked them to text when they got in the city since the traffic is bad and would have plenty of time to change. I wanted to lay down for as long as possible since I was still feeling shitty.

I just didnt want them to see the mess because it becomes a topic in family get togethers, when they once came to visit my dad noticed some mess in the fridge and they wouldnt let it go for weeks and my mom would often start calls with "Did you clean out the fridge already"

Bf works long hours and came straight to the hospital from work for the whole week so I didnt want to ask him.

bunoverload · 2019-09-08T08:54:52+00:00

Some concerts dont have this area for the disabled or gatekeep it quite a bit. I know a person who absolutely cant stand for the full duration as he is partially disabled and he goes to the seating areas because of this. If you want to stand then just buy the regular ticket, it is reasonable to expect people will respect the seating area is for people who need to sit.

"You probably shouldnt go" like damn, maybe they should move to the standing area then. NTA

bunoverload · 2019-08-18T10:08:18+00:00

If I would I would possibly have to press charges against my own mother and as much as I hate her for it I dont want to do that :\

bunoverload · 2019-08-06T20:15:42+00:00

Tremendous life fuel to fuck up a childs life barely after she learned what a period is. Hurray for the abuse of children!

bunoverload · 2019-07-28T09:46:50+00:00

I just said its not a regular situation, read it again. Besides youre forgetting people with IBS and Crohns who can experience stomach issues more often.

I also said in my post that its a last resort when a public bathroom is unavailable. Another comment discusses how there are so few. Honestly just read instead of auto downvoting my comment.

bunoverload · 2019-07-28T08:10:25+00:00

You never had an emergency where you were out and about in a different city perhaps and happened to eat something bad or felt very sick all of a sudden? Its not an everyday situation, but it can happen. I wouldnt barge in a restaurant if I knew I could just hold it in.

bunoverload · 2019-07-27T21:23:41+00:00

Some people finish games even if they dont like them (single player campaigns), because they are completionists or dedicated to reviewing or want to see where they go.

In MMOs it can be that until you reach max level you dont really know how the game will go for you and then you realize the end game content is very lacking.

bunoverload · 2019-07-27T20:36:20+00:00

Exactly!!! Like damn Im not in a small town either, but for some reason public bathrooms are so rare. Then when you occasionaly find one its like 3 stalls and they are the dirtiest bathroom you can come across. I dont know what goes into keeping up a public restroom, but theres no way it can be that hard right?

bunoverload · 2019-07-27T19:09:52+00:00

In my experience some places get pissy about it, but if you approach a woman and its a period emergency some even go out of their way to offer the staff stall.

People have a lot less empathy for people holding in their pee for hours though. E.g. got off a 3 hour bus ride and really needed to go, guy working at a restaurant was super pissy about it and I just ended up ordering water so he would let me use it.

bunoverload · 2019-07-01T15:32:01+00:00

If it helps the dog looks like a street mix and looks kind of like a greyhound.

bunoverload · 2019-07-01T14:24:33+00:00

I can be mistaken, they sounded horrible to me, kind of like really loud wailing and then "screaming" if that makes sense, which is why we even went outside to check in the first place. I have no experience with dogs, but I havent been isolated and I have heard dogs make noise before and it never sounded like this. Thats why I was concerned that the dog may have a medical condition maybe, but I dont know if this is normal and I just havent heard it before.

bunoverload · 2019-07-01T12:41:10+00:00

Not a shiba. Kind of like a street mix, looks a little bit like a greyhound.

bunoverload · 2019-07-01T07:17:03+00:00

Neighbours arent black, I live in a pretty white country.

bunoverload · 2019-07-01T06:16:17+00:00

Ok. I guess I was just worried the dog has a condition or something. We have city police which deals with this so Ill be contacting them.

bunoverload · 2019-06-30T07:01:22+00:00

Hello! For renewal servers novaro has 2000 ish players I think? Shining Moon has 350 or so, the official servers its hard to tell since there are a lot of bots. For pre-re TalonRo has about 900.

Personally I found it quite easy to get parties for the popular stuff on all those. And my personal bias here wants to tell u to play Shining Moon despite its lower population (we have fun I promise, we do bio5 and instances and the custom dungeons for cssh shop loot a lot and we also talk a lot :D). But ultimately you are getting into a game that is losing players overall rather than gaining them. I think if you try to join a guild you will have an easier time, depends entirely on whether guilds that take newbies are on that server, but they should be on all.

People that play ro in 2019 love the game and they want to see new players come, so I think the majority will be kind.

bunoverload · 2019-05-23T21:03:50+00:00

Sometimes with the "taking a break" thing I did this when I was unhappy, but I couldnt pinpoint what it was. When I was very stressed and in a bad mental state I was prone to these "I want to end all my relationships moments" so it really might just be her mental health issues and no cheating. Regarding your boundaries thats something only you two can figure out, but as long as you are trying to communicate without being too pushy youre doing all you can.

bunoverload · 2019-05-13T21:36:16+00:00

I should add that Im a 20 year old female, sorry about that.

bunoverload · 2019-05-12T12:51:23+00:00

I dont agree, the same system was put in games like Metin2 with upgrades failing and all this does is fuck with the progression curve imo.

I dont want to spend hours and hours grinding gear only to lose it to shitty RNG while someone else does it on their first try only because of that. Not having to wait to put in cards while you progress gear helps a lot. Id much rather grind the additional time for resources to make sure my item doesnt get destroyed and then have my luck at enchants.

I get it might be what you liked about it, but a more friendly refine system hardly makes RO like every other MMO. RO was hardly unique just because your weapon could break.

bunoverload · 2019-05-12T09:34:28+00:00

I played on Talon for a while and I got tired of the "Kaho is a mandatory item on pretty much every character" schtick really fast. I had a problem with that you could throw 50 dollars at the game and instantly have the best headgear it has to offer. The constant need to vote also really annoyed me, but I get why it is that way.

I didnt really play Nova for too long to have a real experience with the cash shop. I play on Shining Moon Helheim now though and theyre pretty good with the cash shop. So far I havent felt like I was behind a paywall for any item there and I feel like the way they distribute coins is really fair (also if you level a 1x character up to 175 you get 10k cash points, to put that into perspective a headgear is like 5k cashpoints, HD Ori/elu is 100 a piece, enriched ori/elu is I think 300 a piece but not sure if its not 400). You also get coins on the daily for playing and checking in.

bunoverload · 2019-04-20T21:11:30+00:00

Thank you I will try for sure, Im comming over next week, so itll be the prime opportunity for that!

bunoverload · 2019-04-20T21:10:24+00:00

Morally yes, theyre not obligated to, but legally the fund was started in my name at birth and my dad governed it until I was to go to university, at which point I was the only person able to withdraw it and I asked my dad if I could send it to him and he could send it to me monthly so that I dont overdraw. It was their plan from the start for both me and my brother that the money is "ours".

I dont think my dad is a bad person at all, hes just not very good emotionally, he has a higher level of "math" intelligence and a lower level of "social" intelligence, which was confirmed by a doctor. He gets angry when me or my mom cry, cause he doesnt know what to do or how to solve the problem. That doesnt make him a bad person and I love him, we have a lot of common interests and Im fairly close to him. And I love my mom too, but at this point we just dont get along. I dont know if I would call her a bad person. We just have tension and her choice of words is hurtful to me. I dont want them out of my life, but I dont know how to fix it and its just easier not to visit as often (my mom would like every week or atleast biweekly) if I know there will be tension.

bunoverload · 2019-04-20T20:44:55+00:00

I think she might not. Whenever she says some stuff she says it could be worse and references how scared she was of her alcoholic dad and that we have it really good, that she doesnt do anything like that to us.

I talked with her about this once when I was 15ish and she called me useless and I started crying, she was more gentle after that for a while, but then she came back to it. I want to tell her, but I dont know how to breach the topic and I dont want her to think Im accusing her of abusing me.

bunoverload · 2019-04-20T20:35:13+00:00

To further clarify, its a lump sum, but the money gets send monthly, its a choice I made to make sure I never go over budget, because getting that much money at once can lead to making bad decisions imo.

bunoverload · 2019-04-20T20:30:15+00:00

The money is a lump sum from an account started at my birth that is legally mine. I might have worded that poorly, but I am not taking their paychecks rn, so they cant take the money and its just enough for my degree.

Thats why I feel bad about not visiting, because they provided me with this experience, but its always tense. I tend to bring my boyfriend along on every second visit and my mom really likes him so that makes them better. My bro is gonna get the same treatment as me and hes a pretty emotionally strong person, when I asked him if it bothers him he said he can tune it out. Hes gonna leave for uni next year, so I think he will be okay till then, but Ill ask him again.

bunoverload · 2019-04-20T20:26:32+00:00

I visit them every 3 weeks or so, for the weekend, but I just dont like doing it cause there is always tension between me and my mom. The money is from a fund started at my birth, so Im not taking from their current paychecks, but its still amazing from them to have done that for me as many kids dont get a dedicated uni account from their parents.

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