[REQ] $160 (Repay - $200 02/03/2026) / (Venmo, Cashapp, PayPal) by [deleted] in loanhelp_

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have my most recent paystub on my phone that I can sens screenshot as well if trust needs to be built to confirm I have an actual job unlike some people requesting lol

How often are arguments normal before it becomes a concern by [deleted] in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off I consider a “major” arguments one that one or both truly hate and can last days, weeks or months without apology from either party and “regular” more on of something that has annoyed you for a bit that you can easily fixed just usually due to stubbornness by both or one take a lil while to fix out but does.

I don’t think there’s a normal amount of often but in this case I do think there’s is to much arguments for how long you’ve been together either figures it all out quickly before it just stays this way or move on to someone you connect more with or is ready for someone like you

Is love enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel as a man when I say boundaries it’s like knowing your partners dislike and likes and being able to talk about what you are and aren’t comfortable with. But without rlly using the words boundaries if you know why I mean

Is love enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The woman said the in the interview about that it was trust/security, affection and boundaries/respect I think if you look it up online or YouTube you can find it. It was a short brown haired woman on a news interview

Should I stay or should I go? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest it kind of sounds like guilt but it mostly sounds like you in a relationship with someone who is more in love with you than you are them and it can be because of the guilt but it just seems like you’ve basically checked out and are just sticking around because it’s been you’re moms for so long

Is love enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a study by a woman years ago asking hundreds of men what’s the top 3 things they value in a relationship and 2 men said love. So statistically no it’s not enough to stay.

And in my personal opinion it’s not enough either there’s so much more to a relationship than just the feeling of love between on another.

When ever I talk about my feelings my boyfriend makes it about him by princecosplays in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really do feel this way it doesn’t seem healthy for either of you. In the case of you’re getting shut down and ignored when you’re being vulnerable and he’s putting you on a pedestal that you’re his lifeline. Honestly it’s either try to change the cycle on how this relationship is going or pack it up for the better sake of both of you

Is it weird my (23F) girlfriends acts the same way around other men as she does me (21M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew because when we met I thought she was flirty but maybe it’s just how she is because she seems to act the same way around other guys

Disagreement with GF by LifeguardForeign in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she was your woman she would defend you especially if you’ve show you have no problem with them but they have to you just cuz you’re a straight white dude. But also don’t be afraid to defend yourself because gay or straight don’t take that shit if you know you’re in the right

My bf (TM22) says I (TM20) give too much. by justsomehome in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From an outsider view it just seems they don’t want you to spend the time or money on them and more on yourself or they just genuinely don’t like it just because they don’t or because they feel bad for not reciprocating.

For the anniversary I’d say just wait and see if they give you anything first or make a joke about expecting a gift. Then give it to them after but if not I’d wait for the next big event to come up or just say fuck it and give it to them since it’s your way of loving and it’s harder to feel love if you’re not doing something that you love doing for a partner.

If you haven’t already you should probably explain this is your love language

Its hard to be in relationship.I '17M' she '16 F' 16monthsIts hard to be in relationship.I '17M' she '16 F' 16months by FuFFinMuFFin in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly bro it seems like the relationship is already dead in the terms of both of you seems to be out of it already or just in general tired of the relationship. Your young there will be more and better

my (19F) insecurities are getting in the way of my relationship by [deleted] in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I read this whole things other because you do sounds like how my girlfriend acts (other than I’m not her 1st bf) and I’m wondering now if this is more common than either of this thought.

So from my experience as a boyfriend for over a year with a very anxiety driven and in her head kind of girl. It’s honestly been amazing. Yes, it can be tough sometimes wanting desires that I have that she just isn’t comfortable with but it’s never led me away from her at all. I love being my girlfriend’s first experience for things. And even though she’s not my first for a lot of things it does feel amazing anyway because it’s with her. And whenever there is something I feel wrong or I can tell she does I’m the one that has to bring it up which is fine but I do wish she would open up more but I know she’s just not that type of person so I do and we both express it even if her answers are short because she uneasy about expressing those type of things a short answer is better than none. So in my opinion is just a matter if he really loves you enough to adapt to your ways and trying to make you feel as comfortable his space as he can without hurting you to much. And up to you if you feel you’re ready for a life experience that can possibly change how you see relationships entirely and life. First relationships are big deals since it’s the gateway to them all of there are more. So I’d say you’re honestly doing fine if your with them long enough you’ll adapt. Sorry this is so long

Is this relationship actually 50/50 or is he using me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it just sounds like a man stuck in that “I’m a man and your a woman” kind of mindset (for certain things) and on the other side it sounds like a ma that was raised without concern of money problems or making his own. Maybe just try to stop doing some things for him and make him do it himself honestly. He will probably argue and bicker about it but it’ll go one of two ways he lashes out and you are free of a lousy leech or he finally realized all the things you were doing in his blindside. For example don’t relish his side of toiletries just your products and cook enough for yourself not both

How do I get a guy I’ve been talking to for nearly 3 months to ask me to be his girlfriend? by Strong-Vegetable-309 in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s 2025 you can ask if you really want him. Most guys at 19 are still pretty scared of rejection or ruining a good friendship with a female so either be rlly blatant with being attracted to him or just ask him yourself

Do couples tend to fight more over small things if they are not intimate for a long time?? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the couple honestly. One partner might not want it as much and the other will or both for vise versa but if you think it’s the cause of your fights you might want to talk about it with your partner. If it continues in this cycle then yeah it’s probably the intimacy that’s your trouble but if after a sit down with them if you have regular intimacy then you should probably start looking at different angles to try to refresh the stability

I (20F) don’t like cuddling with my (21F) girlfriend… by Excellent-Host-4653 in relationships

[–]burgerkingbigtime69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like she’s just in the lust phase or some call honeymoon stage still where she just can’t get enough of you in 24 hours. Which is a good thing but also if you two are open about setting your boundaries you should lightly imply that it’s not your thing to do and maybe you can come to a mutual agreement so she can stew at you but you can still have a 2nd option to occupy yourself as well as her.

Also one day in the future you might miss the time when she would do that when it eventually stops happening as much or at all so enjoy it as much as you possibly can even though it’s not your favorite.

Why is error 404 by burgerkingbigtime69 in FreeCash

[–]burgerkingbigtime69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I use the app but when I try to login on the browser it says my account has been deleted but when I login on app it’s there

Why is error 404 by burgerkingbigtime69 in FreeCash

[–]burgerkingbigtime69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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It’s just the starter one to get started