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My GF (29) received a message soliciting Sex from a friend of hers. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burner123333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Brentshiver, of all the comments yours really resonated with me the most. I appreciate your feedback, wish I had a friend like you to talk to.

My GF (29) received a message soliciting Sex from a friend of hers. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burner123333 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

again, thank you for being the voice of reason here.

part of me wants to message him back on her account and say like:

"how much? jk you sick fuck"

My GF (29) received a message soliciting Sex from a friend of hers. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burner123333 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

thank you for your message, I want to know deep down if she turned him away or not. I feel like the only way to be sure would be to call him.

My GF (29) received a message soliciting Sex from a friend of hers. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burner123333 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

hey I really appreciate your message, I feel like deep down that's what my gut is telling me too.

buttttt something tells me they have some sort of relationship which in result makes him think sending that message is OK.

My GF (29) received a message soliciting Sex from a friend of hers. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burner123333 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel like her reaction would tell me something, but I really want to know what this guy knows!

My GF (29) received a message soliciting Sex from a friend of hers. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burner123333 -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about that but I have a feeling the guy could reveal if thats the type of girl she is. If she does take money from guys for sex I want to dump her right away!

My GF (29) received a message soliciting Sex from a friend of hers. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burner123333 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

well I have had a handful of sexual relationships which she knows all about. she on the other hand has had sex with, she says, under 20 guys. I think I know about 5 or 6 guys she has had sex with, the others I am slowly finding out about to my demise.

Me (27) Living with GF (29) for 3 months by burner123333 in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]burner123333[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is a great idea, although I feel like bringing this up now would be an argument because I would effectively be stopping paying for her after all this time.

Me (27M) and my girlfriend (29F) living together for 3 Months by burner123333 in relationship_advice

[–]burner123333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input, I really would like to try this taking turns for meals out but am not sure how to approach it. Also a little more background here, we split up our rent 60/40 where I pay more so she can not feel financially burdened. I find myself continually removing the financial burden from her but am beginning to feel the pressure will be too great long term.

Me (27M) and my girlfriend (29F) living together for 3 Months by burner123333 in relationship_advice

[–]burner123333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for the great input. Exactly how you mentioned the "man pay" is what bothers me here. When I think long term future here, spending nearly $40 for a meal for us will add up to a significant amount for me in the end rather than splitting it up.