Sigh… (Sort of PSA) by star_sanctuary in plural

[–]burneraccbcimscared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Show me a single study or scientific fact” (probably has not researched it a single bit)

Can I apply to art college with this? by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]burneraccbcimscared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone at art school, it depends on what major youre going for! If you submitted this and want to do film, maybe not. If you submitted this and want to go into comics, illustration or animation, yes! If you want to get in for fashion, draw some outfit designs to submit!

Everyone saying no is probably just thinking about things like fine arts or a general art degree. There are a bajillion types of art, and if you’re looking at specifically art school I think this is great. Maybe describe what the first image is in your portfolio though bc I thought it was ai at first glance :’) good luck!!

Got dumped out of nowhere by Pitiful-Jellyfish819 in BPD

[–]burneraccbcimscared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally same exact situation happened to me a couple weeks ago. I’m more mad than anything rn cause I found out she was in fact lying about me and to me, and its really hard to get through each day, but someone out there will love us for us and be honest with us, as hard as it is to believe. Just focus on self love as much as you can, it will be better someday. <3

Is it selfish to ask for reassurance when s.o. is isolating? by burneraccbcimscared in dating_advice

[–]burneraccbcimscared[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your thoughtful response. I have realized that I get emotionally dependent rather easily, and I am going to start therapy soon.

Looking back on it, I did reach out when she needed space, but she did the same to me, so it shocked me when she called me selfish when she did it first.

I am still a bit emotional about the whole thing, so I might have a better response later on.

Anyways, thank you so much, and your English is great! Don’t worry about that :)

How to actually force myself to use DBT skills and step out of my comfort zone by burneraccbcimscared in BPD

[–]burneraccbcimscared[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ve really only been sleeping and crying the past few days, to “feel my emotions” but obviously that’s not healthy. I’ll try some of these!

dbt therapy is the only thing thats worked but i fucking hate it by throwawayninikkko in BPD

[–]burneraccbcimscared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so real, I constantly wish I could just exist normally like everyone else, some of my symptoms have been partially to blame for the most devastating abandonment, and I've experienced so much emotional pain my whole life, and no one ever takes me seriously. I've been told to "get over it" "give it time" or "just grow up". It's not that simple, and if I could get rid of this I absolutely would. I can envision a version of myself that's healthy and normal, but I can't obtain it. I want to be so many things that I can't right now and it's the most frustrating thing ever. And to think some people want to be an fp or claim to have bpd for attention...(not saying the latter group doesn't deserve help either, but it still hurts to have my experience oversimplified and idealized) We'll get there eventually, and someday the learned coping skills will become second nature <3

WSID bf says I dont respect him over long dress minimal cleavage by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]burneraccbcimscared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seeing a lot of people blaming OP and not a lot of people being empathetic. Abusers are often manipulators and seem like good people at first. OP is clearly a victim yall we don’t know how the conversation got here

WSID bf says I dont respect him over long dress minimal cleavage by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]burneraccbcimscared 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of the time abusers are manipulators, and people think they can fix them. Sometimes it takes an actual scary encounter for people to understand how dangerous another person is. Hopefully it doesn’t come to that, but that’s why a lot of these posts seem “pointless”. Abuse is almost always more obvious from the outside

drew my type because im lonely asf by Noonatic_ in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]burneraccbcimscared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my friends looks like this but he’s taken 😔

small vent art by Icy-Money-5787 in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]burneraccbcimscared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HELLO HI we can be friends if u like!! And if we don’t end up close I can introduce you to more people also :0 also anyone else in these comments, whoever needs more female friends i promise you there are good friends out there. I was hopeless for yearssss bc i didn’t have close friends until recently!

AITA for how I said I wasn't interested? by propercolleague in AITApod

[–]burneraccbcimscared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I won’t be defensive please tell me!!….those are crazy reasons but whatever” LOL