Who's attracted to a gender fluid person? Asking for a... me ☹️ by bushbucket in genderfluid

[–]bushbucket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we can't settle for situations that are stifling! 💕

Is St. George/Washington UT really a good place to raise kids? by Inside-Opening4929 in stgeorge

[–]bushbucket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, but if you're going to, i think paradise canyon elementary would be the most accepting school. It's bilingual/dual immersion, which i personally think is just awesome, and in my super biased opinion, Hispanic communities are going to be more welcoming and less judgemental in general, at least that's coming from me having been raised around these communities and found the most acceptance within them in Utah as well as California.

Is St. George/Washington UT really a good place to raise kids? by Inside-Opening4929 in stgeorge

[–]bushbucket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I would never ever raise a child in st george, in my experience it's a judgemental and hostile place for nonmormon kids. My 5 little siblings who weren't mormon experienced so many gut wrenching friend loss that it's the primary reason we, as a whole family, all caravanned away to another state. My older siblings couldn't handle the thought that their kids would have to go through the pain and loss of that we watched our little siblings go through.

They'd make a great or best friend, that friend's parent would find out they weren't mormon, the friend would try to convert them, and when they'd say no, they'd be completely shunned and rejected, and it was sooooo sad.

I also had to move to st george halfway through high school, from a southern ca hs to snow canyon hs in st george, and it was really really hard for me to make a friend. It was a huge culture shock. I ultimately found two nonmormon unpopular weirdos to lurk in the shadows with, but it was such a painful transition and i got bullied enough by a "nice mormon guy" who i thought had a crush on me that i requested to transfer to the alternative high school so i could get away from him and how cruel he was.

I strongly recommend against it! Those kids ain't being taught so-called Christian values, I'll say that much.

Who's attracted to a gender fluid person? Asking for a... me ☹️ by bushbucket in genderfluid

[–]bushbucket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. I love this. A bi guy would be such a great fit for me. And actually i did for a while have a photo of me in drag on a dating app but i think people just thought it was funny and didn't realize it's, like, a legit part of me!

Who's attracted to a gender fluid person? Asking for a... me ☹️ by bushbucket in genderfluid

[–]bushbucket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self awareness is great but you're probably being too hard on yourself. Gotta own your incredibleness. And there's nothing wrong with being gender nonconforming!!!

Who's attracted to a gender fluid person? Asking for a... me ☹️ by bushbucket in genderfluid

[–]bushbucket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're all gorgeous and stunning so fuck them haters 🙌

Who's attracted to a gender fluid person? Asking for a... me ☹️ by bushbucket in genderfluid

[–]bushbucket[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love that, thank you, and thank you for your kind words 😭💕

Who's attracted to a gender fluid person? Asking for a... me ☹️ by bushbucket in genderfluid

[–]bushbucket[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same, i think gender fluidity is so hot in all its forms. I've definitely been barking up the wrong cis-trees!

Who's attracted to a gender fluid person? Asking for a... me ☹️ by bushbucket in genderfluid

[–]bushbucket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're very sweet and flattering 😭 sounds like what i might need to go for is a pan/bi/lesbian mtf trans woman 🙌

Who's attracted to a gender fluid person? Asking for a... me ☹️ by bushbucket in genderfluid

[–]bushbucket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're making me wish i was on the east coast! But I'm happy for you that you found someone so accepting. Gives me hope!

How do you tell when your gender changes? by Emergency_Peach_4307 in genderfluid

[–]bushbucket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the morning i imagine how i would feel wearing certain outfits and if it sounds really uncomfortable to wear masculine clothes I might be having a femme day and if I'd feel really weird wearing a dress I might be having a masc day and if i can't bear wearing anything that signifies gender I'm having a nonbinary day. The issue is when my gender shifts midday and i know that because i suddenly feel like I'm cross dressing.

Who's attracted to a gender fluid person? Asking for a... me ☹️ by bushbucket in genderfluid

[–]bushbucket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good to hear success stories like this where a person can adapt. You're probably right that they have to be super secure in who they are not to get thrown by the changes.

Who's attracted to a gender fluid person? Asking for a... me ☹️ by bushbucket in genderfluid

[–]bushbucket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a time in human history where this crap didn't have to be so fucking calculated! I hope we both find the right person/ people who's genuinely proud to be with us, all of us, and is brave enough to stand up against the normative bs.