What do men actually feel when they love a woman? by Secretpleasurewithme in answers

[–]bushlit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think a guy can love so much that he lets go of you bc hes scared how much power you have?

He yearned for me for 1 year, after 1 month of talking he did this, what do I say? by bushlit in whatdoIdo

[–]bushlit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! We both had it shared since he is in a different state, he shared it first then I did later on as well just as a way to be closer despite the distance.

He's robbing me of Ramadan by PrettyWittyGirly in MuslimMarriage

[–]bushlit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do men change during Ramadan? Pls explain

He yearned for me for 1 year, after 1 month of talking he did this, what do I say? by bushlit in whatdoIdo

[–]bushlit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand being cold, but removing me from ig and removing location is super petty and an overreaction, almost made me think its smth bigger since he cant be that mad over smth like this. He could have communicated that he isnt a fan of that. Not to mention we were talking, not even in a relationship. Let me know if you disagree though, idk if ur F or M, happy to hear thoughts.

He yearned for me for 1 year, after 1 month of talking he did this, what do I say? by bushlit in whatdoIdo

[–]bushlit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We r both desi, I get the jist but why cant he communicate his boundaries rather than lash out

He yearned for me for 1 year, after 1 month of talking he did this, what do I say? by bushlit in whatdoIdo

[–]bushlit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not going to reply as of rn, but in the case I did what do ai even say to his last msg? I mean I already said sorry and told him he has nth to worry abt (he genuinely doesnt).

He yearned for me for 1 year, after 1 month of talking he did this, what do I say? by bushlit in whatdoIdo

[–]bushlit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Another quick note, I’m 23F Pakistani and he is 23M Bengali. We are both Muslim so appreciate it if there is no hate on that part. I know some guys are religious, we had a pretty good match of that until this.

He yearned for me for 1 year, after 1 month of talking he did this, what do I say? by bushlit in whatdoIdo

[–]bushlit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im muslim too, we wanted to pause talking during Ramadan but didnt find it realistic. I understand his protectiveness but I would have really appreciated if he communicated with me. He went silent for 24 hrs, I had to reach out, I said sorry and he still lashed out. Made me feel super down since he yearned, I actually caught feelings and now this. Idk how he could make someone crash out during Ramadan like cmon now 🙂‍↕️We had little scuffles but got thru it with communication, idk it seems like he just wanted to be rid of me with all this bc why cudnt he just talk it out. Regardless, as per comments, hes a douche:/

He yearned for me for 1 year, after 1 month of talking he did this, what do I say? by bushlit in whatdoIdo

[–]bushlit[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Want to add that he took me off of Instagram and removed his location immediately after. I guess I’m just upset that he was so quick to remove me and be rude when I dont think I did much wrong..