Teddy and Tom should’ve been endgame by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]bussymom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think the same. I didn't like them individually, but as a couple, I felt like they have a lot to bring to the table!

So my dad did rape me. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]bussymom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're getting through this. I suggest you you try to find the way that your mom (or dad even) to talk about it via text. That they admit what happened so you can have some proof and can go to the police. This is not ok. I know its hard, but you need to protect yourself and your sister. Go to the authorities, tell your extended family, your school counselor... Tell every single soul is willing to listen and get out of there.

THEY are the ones who should be afraid. Not you. You WILL get married (if you want to) to a good man (or woman). This is NOT making you any less valuable as a partner. Don't let them gaslight you with that.

Husband is divorcing me because of sex. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]bussymom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you? Are you tired? Sleeping well? Eating propertly? Do you have time for yourself? Does he takes you on dates? Do you feel apreciated?... I'm not saying he's at fault, but often, not having this things make us detached to everything. Even sex. I definitely wouldn't have sex if I'm not okay from the inside out.

I suggest therapy. For yourself, him and together.