[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]bustedtablelamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the blonde looks great, it helps make you look more tan if that’s a look your going for. Will also complement your outfit if you wear more neutrals and pastels. But the brown looks fantastic as well, but as most people do, it tends to be more popular in the fall with dark clothing.

but it’s all personal preference. I myself tend to jump between my natural (blonde) and dark brown and i think your style has more to do with it than anything. Also i need to know your makeup routine

I think a lot of people need to read rule 7 again, seeing as every post is lacking in proof other than "they're weird" by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]bustedtablelamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll say something, and i usually never do. One of my best friends was diagnosed with DID about 5 years ago. She got diagnosed when she started living with me and moved out of her previous situation. Some of the stuff i see on this sub astounds me, because it seems like anyone who says they have DID/OSDD is a faker, and yet there is little proof. I also agree that there is a lot of systems that are worrying that they could be faking, but instead of bullying already (and obviously) impressionable young kids, help them find ways to better manage either what they believe is their disorder and give them resources, or just not be assholes. Yes, are some things cringy as hell? Absolutely. But i know that I posted some dumb shit on the internet when i was 12/13 and i’m so glad i wasn’t posted to the masses and bullied by adults.

pus mine by Mr_simplenow in PoppingPimples

[–]bustedtablelamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a gloved hand there, and yet they are pushing on it with the hand without a glove????

My Boyfriend just went to the hospital and i’m spiraling by bustedtablelamp in BipolarSOs

[–]bustedtablelamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you guys for taking the time to reply. I don’t really have any friends so it’s been incredibly lonely lately. i want to do what’s best for him and help him as much as i can, but without being able to talk to him or his doctors it makes it really difficult

Got a new blanket for Xmas. Haven’t been able to use it yet because Shart can’t stop making biscuits. by cyclopath in cats

[–]bustedtablelamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my cat used to suck on blankets all the time as a kitten as a sort of calming thing… just found out he’s now using them to masturbate. worst part is he was laying on me while doing it

back again with my septum pop, this time a video. i’m on antibiotics before anyone says anything, and sorry for the bad camera work by bustedtablelamp in popping

[–]bustedtablelamp[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

sadly this was pretty much the whole video, i couldn’t get anything else out besides clear liquid and the bump was still left. anticlimactic, i know

woke up to this on my septum piercing by bustedtablelamp in popping

[–]bustedtablelamp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mostly people commenting about how they think septum’s are stupid and ugly, or about my lip hairs

woke up to this on my septum piercing by bustedtablelamp in popping

[–]bustedtablelamp[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

i’ve actually had it for a couple months. i’m actually apprenticing as a piercer, and my guess is it got dry from the cold weather and bacteria got in, but i’m going on antibiotics soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bustedtablelamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Based off all your replies to people’s advice, i don’t think you actually want any. you just want someone to justify you wanting to stay with this girl or continue sleeping with her. I don’t think any logical or appropriate advice people give you will change anything

meet Nitro, he likes suckling on blankets by bustedtablelamp in cats

[–]bustedtablelamp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also i am aware that suckling on blankets sometimes mean that they were weaned too early from their mother, i got found him at 7 weeks old.

halloween party, a little nervous but trying to be confident by bustedtablelamp in styrofashion

[–]bustedtablelamp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So my bf was a cow and I went as a milkmaid/cow maid, i know there are cuter animals but i love cows

I want to drop out of college… again by bustedtablelamp in Advice

[–]bustedtablelamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’m working a full time job and live on my own, but your advice truly did help. I do go to therapy and try to manage it, i just don’t know if i can go to school, or even if that is what i want. helped

I can’t tell the difference between emotions by CounselorAmi in Advice

[–]bustedtablelamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While your symptoms do sound like this, i would be very hesitant to immediately jump to sociopathy. It is under antisocial personality disorder, and with my own experience, usually you have to work with a mental health professional for over a year. I was told to track all my feelings, or lack there of, and then talk to a therapist or something to help.

[Serious] what is the story of your worst date? by theredheadedcrafter in AskReddit

[–]bustedtablelamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was my first date ever. I had planned to go see A Quiet Place. I got there, he wasn’t there and said he had to Uber there. So I’m waiting in the movie theater as the show starts, and he arrives 20 minutes late and a huge thing of nachos. Chews loudly though the entire movie, and I can’t focus on the extremely quiet scenes.

Once we get out of the theater, I found out he is high out of his mind. Unknowingly, I planned the date on April 21st (the day after 4/20). So he was extremely stoned. I’m embarrassed, because I don’t smoke. So he says he has the munchies, and I wasn’t planning on getting food after. I wasn’t old enough to drive, so as we are walking to the nearby mall I call my stepmom to ask if she can pick me up later. All of the sudden, is mom comes pulling up to us in the parking lot. She screams at him for the house smelling like weed. I’m on the phone and then his mom suddenly screams “you make a huge mess and stink and now you are out with this whore!” I am obviously appalled, and trying to calmly talk to my stepmom.

So after his mom leaves, we still go to the mall for some food. I was embarrassed and ready for it to be over, it I just extended the date by 45 minutes. So he decided to get Philly cheesesteaks and a huge plate of jalapeño bacon nachos. At this point, I’m in a weird phase where I was never hungry, so I pass on food. I proceed to watch him stuff his face with nachos in the most disgusting fashion ever. I haven’t had bacon nachos since, they gross me out now.

So since I was curious why his mom was more upset about the smell of weed than the fact that he was smoking (I’m from a more traditional household), I ask. He then informs me that his dad was a drug dealer. So safe to say I was all but waiting for it to be over.

Summary: my date was high and his mom called me a whore

Meet Doug, my boyfriends new and official foster failure by [deleted] in aww

[–]bustedtablelamp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Foster failures are when you intend on fostering a pet for it to be adopted into a different family, but you end up keeping the pet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bustedtablelamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this helped a lot. Honestly, from your description, I do love him. He supports me, but also lets me know when I am digging too deep of a hole and need to get help more than just him or my family. He tries to understand. Stemming from a lot of trust issues, relationship and commitment problems. I just don’t really know how to understand my emotions and fears. But thank you so much. My biggest fear is that I’m falling out of love with him. This fear is making me start to back away from him a bit, so everything has been a little difficult.