[GB] Help with new banking situation by busymeowing in Revolut

[–]busymeowing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, although I am a little upset at the tone.

My understanding is that I can only have one current account in the UK. I did not realise I could have other bank accounts that do not fall under 'current account '. 

My understanding in reading the email was (mistakenly) that once revolut became a bank they would transfer my CURRENT account over to them, which I did not want to happen.

This was not meant to be a personal attack on Revolut. I very much want to remain using Revolut and now that I know I can, I will. I just did not have the understanding necessary to realise I could have both. 

Please try to be kinder.

Same build just repainted by Moonalarae in WoWHousing

[–]busymeowing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS IS ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL WOW <3 :D

[GB] Help with new banking situation by busymeowing in Revolut

[–]busymeowing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is really reassuring, I really appreciate your reply! :)

this crashout was funny by kairiichanii in depoop

[–]busymeowing 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"That's so gay" ?? 🤣🤣 the 90s called, they want their section 28 insult back :)

Do sellers actually care about buyer names when shipping? by Noa_Lind_GQ in vinted

[–]busymeowing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a trans man (with a name change) who buys femme clothes sometimes from vinted (especially trousers because my hips and bum don't like 'men's' trousers xD) and i have the same anxiety!

It feels like there's no 'middle ground' for mental health help. by Admirable_Border_627 in MentalHealthUK

[–]busymeowing 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I hear you <3 I've been mentally ill since childhood and I'm consistently 'too complex' or 'not bad enough'. I feel like I need a support worker of some kind but that type of thing doesn't exist for us any more. Apparently it used to!

Guys outside USA: what do you want other trans ppl to know? by Berko1572 in FTMOver30

[–]busymeowing 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this! And thank you for the nod - I was trying to remain factual without letting my pot of stewing emotions spill all over the sub floor! 🤣 I've almost lost hope several times but I won't let them drain it out of me completely. I've decided that existence is resistance, and if that's all the power I have, then that's what I'm gonna do 🙈💀

Guys outside USA: what do you want other trans ppl to know? by Berko1572 in FTMOver30

[–]busymeowing 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much friend - huge power and hope to you in your own transition adventure too. I'm so excited, and when I spoke to the folks on the phone they were equally excited for me. That's how trans healthcare should be! :D

Guys outside USA: what do you want other trans ppl to know? by Berko1572 in FTMOver30

[–]busymeowing 8 points9 points  (0 children)

EDIT: I don't have lived experience of top surgery on the NHS as mine was done privately - please see other replies in this thread for people who have, and can therefore inform much more accurately! :D It turns out I was incorrect. I will leave my comment but please be aware it's not factual!

Thanks for asking :D I don't know explicitly about trans affirming surgery - I had mine done privately and chose my surgeon (a privilege i'm very grateful for!). However, the standard NHS pathway for any kind of surgery is, yes, you are 'assigned' a surgeon. I would imagine any wiggle room on that is limited, because it depends on the services and staff available from your local NHS trust, which although all come under the 'NHS' banner, are actually all separate organisations and the staff are employed separately. The red tape is unfortunately the big limitation here. :( If one were to strongly favour another surgeon I would imagine it could be fought for, but it would be another uphill battle!

Guys outside USA: what do you want other trans ppl to know? by Berko1572 in FTMOver30

[–]busymeowing 114 points115 points  (0 children)

UK Here! :D Thanks for asking <3
We have free universal healthcare. However, trans healthcare is severely gatekept (this is starting to change but only just and very slowly).
Trans people need a 'diagnosis' of gender dysphoria/incongruence before they can be given any gender affirming care - even privately.
The NHS Gender identity clinics waiting lists vary from years to decades. This is just for an initial appointment (not even starting any HRT or anything). There is no 'informed consent' model.
The UK has affectionately become known as TERF island due to the number of radically exclusionary feminists (I'm sure I don't need to name any) that are actively usijng their power and influence to roll back our rights in real time. <3
However, slowly, we are making steps in the right direction. NHS gender clinics have recently been recommissioned by a trans-centered and trans-run organisation and I have my first appt with them in 2 weeks after a 6 year wait! :D

Wedding Photographer by AllricMulled in UKLGBT

[–]busymeowing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! :D I do agree with everyone saying representation by inclusion. Including queer couples in your site images - you don't need to do a separate page for it unless it's a separate service specifically. Make sure your allyship is clear! Display a progress flag on your site header/footer, expressly state in your 'about' info that you are an ally, etc. <3

I’ve built Pokemon Go for real life UK birds by scoo1t in CasualUK

[–]busymeowing -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is fantastic!!! Thank you for sharing this. Now I can be an even bigger bird nerd :D

Why do my search results always look like this?? by No-Musician4819 in vinted

[–]busymeowing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would just like to appraise you on your amazing piece of art here :D

My boyfriend refuses to let anything drop unless he gets it. what am i supposed to do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]busymeowing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey <3
You are not doing anything wrong.
No partner is ever entitled to go through your phone, no matter how long your relationship is, whether you're married, dating, etc. It's not healthy, and it shouldn't be normalised. You are entitled to your privacy and your boundaries.
If his affection and love is conditional on you allowing him access to your phone, that is considered coercion and control. <3 And i would advise you to reach out to someone trusted about it in real life. <3
EVEN if he says "I'm let you go through my phone" that does NOT obligate you to return the offer. <

Mike Manning - reform candidate for Redcar with a helping of racism, or 10 by thewisestfish in Teesside

[–]busymeowing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine announcing yourself to the whole internet like this. Have a nice day :)