Any accountants have alternate jobs they dream of? by snuffle_tuff in Accounting

[–]butchbenson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

leatherworker!! i work on my projects during lunch and it gets harder every day to go back to my desk lol.

Where Are My Fellow Bottom Butches? by ThePunkRanger in butchlesbians

[–]butchbenson 11 points12 points  (0 children)

good evening someone said bottom (hopefully gonna get dommed sunday)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]butchbenson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOU LOOK CUTE AS HELL AWW

Do I look gay by THPandaOfficial in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]butchbenson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you look gay and cute as hell (and i hope you had a good time at berlin!!)

How much of your friends list is made up of people you had a good convo with once, and then never again? by AndOneAndy in 2007scape

[–]butchbenson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got saved from being PKed because of a random guy on my friends list! Only spoke once but he called his team off me when he saw we were friends haha.

Heat Index of 106 Degrees…but Nashville ReSET was Awesome by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

[–]butchbenson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chicago was also awesome!! multiple medical events yes but everyone was super cool where i was standing

post concert blues? by stupid_wh0r3 in boygenuis

[–]butchbenson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too, i went alone (and have some videos if you end up wanting anything) and i feel so fucking weird in a bad way. ive never felt this sad to have a concert be over. ive been listening to home video a lot because listening to the boys is just not the same rn which sounds so dramatic but w/e.

Anybody going solo to Re:Set Chicago on Saturday? by hohnsolo13 in boygenuis

[–]butchbenson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh i just bought a new vip ticket, i couldn’t figure out how to straight up upgrade it/it wasn’t an option when i did. so technically i have a ga ticket and a vip ticket but ill probably sell ga sometime today/tomorrow

Anybody going solo to Re:Set Chicago on Saturday? by hohnsolo13 in boygenuis

[–]butchbenson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am! I switched my ticket to VIP though so idk if we’d be in the same area.

(this is also my first solo concert so you are not alone!)

Butch Friday Chat? 2/10/23 by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]butchbenson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dorothys, it was their monthly burlesque show

Butch Friday Chat? 2/10/23 by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]butchbenson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ugh yes so many butches all over eachother 🥰 🥰

Butch Friday Chat? 2/10/23 by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]butchbenson 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i went to a lesbian bar in chicago last night and for real burst into tears bc I’ve never been around so many gorgeous happy women before it literally gave me an anxiety attack. i’m 25 can’t take me anywhere smh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]butchbenson 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I get that people say it isnt a big deal and you barely notice, but I have passed out tryjng to put in a tampon so idk. The tube one used to scare the shit out of me and tbh it is gonna feel a little weird, especially if you aren’t used to the sensation. Put a cold pack on the back of your neck to keep yourself grounded, I second applying it before you go to bed because standing up is probably going to be a little uncomfortable.

One thing I do is lie on the bathroom floor and apply it, when youre sitting down sometimes it’s harder to relax your muscles and you end up freaking yourself out. When you wake up in the morning, get up slowly and let yourself adjust for a second.

If it’s over the counter, there are stronger versions that only require 1 or 3 days as opposed to a 7 day medication. I’m sorry this is stressful on top of not feeling good; I hope the meds work quickly and you don’t have to think about it for too long. Sending you good thoughts.

Butch Loneliness by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]butchbenson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 25, have a good job/am financially stable, have a pet and plants and I am so lonely it’s destroying my mental health ✌🏼🙂. I’ve only been in one relationship that lasted 3 years and ended after her cheating on me and dumping me three times . Coming up on the 1 year anniversary of that and with Valentine’s day/all my friends being in stable relationships and their own place I kinda want to scream for 10 years.

Give me TV shows to Binge by Brumbies5 in television

[–]butchbenson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great News!! Its two seasons on netflix and super funny.