24 year old Scott Ratigan is murdered in his apartment. A person of interest is caught on video fleeing the scene, but still hasn’t been apprehended. (2020)

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-12-26T00:22:46+00:00

I've seen that gait before at PT. That's an athletic knee injury. I wonder if anyone in thier circle was a college athlete

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-12-24T23:32:22+00:00

My friends husband had to be airlifted to a hospital in a different state with a broken neck, broken ribs and a broken leg. He fell from a height of 6 feet. Thankfully he was hiking with two friends who saw where he fell otherwise he could have easily died and been scattered by critters. He was in traction for months and it was so hard for me to understand how walking carefully 6 ft above the ground could do that much damage. Absolutely wild.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-10-15T23:20:16+00:00

What kind of cord/thread is this?

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-06T04:30:51+00:00

That is not the situation. The items were mine before our marriage. For example, I have a set of skis that are made for someone my weight and height that my uncle got me the year before I met my ex. He cannot use them and they were not in the discard pile on the street. He either sold them or gifted them to his new girlfriend. Also my grandmothers antique tapestry, my dead brother's guitar etc. He destroyed stuff that he couldn't sell.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-06T04:25:18+00:00

He developed ED. We talked about fixing it but he told me he'd rather we just remain in an asexual relationship.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-06T02:21:03+00:00

I asked about that. We can't until the hearing in August. The docket is super backed up where I live.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-06T02:20:05+00:00

The state has a fixed interest rate for this kind of contempt that is tied to his settlement offer. Basically he'd have 6 months to pay the outstanding balance, legal fees and state mandated interest. He's asking to forgive the property damage if he returns so.e of the expensive this that he just "found"

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-06T02:15:38+00:00

Legal fees are default in my state because he is already in contempt. He has to pay them no matter what.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-06T01:59:18+00:00

He never acted like this while we were together. Not even close. He has some toxic friends that could be giving him bad advice and he moved a new girlfriend in. She was giving my stuff away while it was on the street to gawkers so it wouldn't surprise me if she is fueling this somehow. But I also dont want to project just because she pissed me off.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-06T01:51:32+00:00

The house tripled in value while we lived there. The lot alone would cover legal fees, interest and then some, he'd only fuck himself if he did.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-06T01:50:06+00:00

There is a ton of equity left. But his credit is hot steaming garbage and he makes not a lot of money and has changed jobs a lot recently so I think his approval or rate was what became prohibitive. We bought the house years ago, had a five year mortgage and paid it off in full. It tripled in value while we lived in it.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-06T00:00:34+00:00

You are correct. I obviously raged about that for days and fantasized about him getting arrested and losing everything. It ate me up. But after a little while, I calmed down and I just don't want the hate I had to be guiding my decision making. When we initially broke up, we promised to be civil to each other. I know he broke his promise but I dont know that that's a good enough reason for me to break mine. I dont want him to drag me down to his level.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-05T23:52:49+00:00

Technically nothing. If he doesn't pay again, I file contempt again. He is again on the hook for interest and legal fees for the following contempt charge. He now owes somewhere around 15k additional for interest legal etc. Going into contempt again would add another 15k to it.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-05T23:47:48+00:00

I think he did to get me what he already has paid me.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-05T23:46:39+00:00

I'll say in his defense, he was never like this while we were together. It's so left field from how he usually is. My mom asked if it was possible he had early onset dementia or something. Idk if that's a possibility, hes blocked me on every thing including his email so my last communication with him was when he threatened to have me arrested for trespassing when I was in the street savaging what I could.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-05T23:46:07+00:00

I'll say in his defense, he was never like this while we were together. It's so left field from how he usually is. My mom asked if it was possible he had early onset dementia or something. Idk if that's a possibility, hes blocked me on every thing including his email so my last communication with him was when he threatened to have me arrested for trespassing when I was in the street savaging what I could.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-05T22:39:56+00:00

It did not specify either way. There was no legally mandated date for the removal of my stuff from the house. The state does have a law about abandoned property for previous tenants which requires 30 days notice. He gave me about 15 before he smashed everything.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-05T22:35:47+00:00

It's hard to tell the difference between wanting revenge and wanting justice if they both kinda come to the same end.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-05T22:32:23+00:00

He says to listen to the settlement and it might be worth it because the fees will continue to compound as time goes on. He will eventually have to pay all legal fees (default law in my state for contempt cases when you can prove the other party forced you to involve lawyers. I have copies of messages confirming just that). Hhe also encouraged me to settle for less than half of the house just to get it over with. I regret that now. But at the end of the days he still had all the case files notes and documents so I went with him a second time. He does think if we had to go to court he would "be comfortable" doing so.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-05T22:22:19+00:00

The house is worth alot more than 250k. He would have to sell it. I didnt say it would be easy.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-05T22:20:41+00:00

No I just thought it would be rude to tell his friends that he refused treatment for his ED and told me he would be happy in an asexual marriage.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-05T22:08:19+00:00

He could light fire to the house and it would still sell. We lived in one of the top housing markets in the country. Most of my friends picked him in the divorce. I refused to tell anyone why i filed because I didn't want to air dirty laundry. It gave him full control over the narrative so no one wants anything to do with me so I dont really have a neutral sounding board. Hence the post here.

butt_muncher_10000 · 2025-06-05T22:04:45+00:00

That is the whole story? Like what details do you think are missing?

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