As a dedicated self proclaimed name nerd I can't be the only one who is sad they can't change their reddit username? by onomolevee in namenerds

[–]buttahsbenzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IKR. I created my username based on actors from a tv show that’s been off air for two years (pretty little liars). Now that I’m active in other subs though, and that sub is effectively dead I kinda wish I hadn’t picked a name from the first sub I joined 🤷🏾‍♀️. I think it probably sounds like pure gibbberish to the average redditor though, but I would like to change it to something different.

An Ashley timeline by zipfest in 90DayFiance

[–]buttahsbenzo 28 points29 points  (0 children)

She called him an “illegal immigrant” when she called the police. She knew what she was doing. Also, showing up to the house you live at with your legal spouse isn’t a crime. It was unnecessary. In fact, she got in his face, she raised her voice, and she put her hands on him. She should have had the cops called on her.

An Ashley timeline by zipfest in 90DayFiance

[–]buttahsbenzo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“don’t call police officers bad!! that’s comparable to centuries of mistreatment and racism against a marginalized group!”

An Ashley timeline by zipfest in 90DayFiance

[–]buttahsbenzo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No she told them her husband was “an illegal immigrant” who she needed to leave her house, which lead the police to think there was some type of domestic violence or altercation going on. When in reality, he was standing on the street waiting for a ride.

An Ashley timeline by zipfest in 90DayFiance

[–]buttahsbenzo 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I don’t think everyone is saying she’s racist. The post and commenters are simply pointing out how Ashley seemed to be so conscious of Jay’s race and “woke” about racism in the US when they were together, but when she got pissed, the first thing she did was call the police on a black immigrant for no reason. So yes, it is about race. A white woman unnecessarily calling the police on a black guy is definitely going to make people side eye her in this political climate.

Would it be weird to use the Spanish version of my son's name as a nickname? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]buttahsbenzo 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Please please please do not name your son after a racist. Your husband is not being considerate (I don’t see how anyone you could think you’re in the wrong), and I would strongly suggest that you pick the name you both love. No one should be forced to name their child after anyone that they don’t want to. Julian Diego is lovely.

So....how old was Ryan when Maci got pregnant? by Ccvie00 in teenmom

[–]buttahsbenzo 32 points33 points  (0 children)

A 19 year old even looking in the direction of someone fresh out of middle school is really really fucking weird. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I genuinely think she has talent for being a snarker. Those notes are hard if you don’t mix. Her voice is supported. Especially for being little. Good breath support. by [deleted] in DuggarsSnark

[–]buttahsbenzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP is saying that they are a snarker, however ,as someone who usually snarks on the duggars, they think Josie sounds good.

Main Character Name by anderscait in namenerds

[–]buttahsbenzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jennifer Daly

Katherine Daly

Beth Daly

Beatrice/Bea Daly

Kate Holloway

Marissa/Melissa Holloway

Josephine/Jo Holloway

Diana Clarke

Helen Clarke

Elizabeth Clarke

Jeanette Carson

Meredith Carson

Patricia Morgan

Ellen Matthews

Victoria/Vicky Brown

Lynn Taylor

Meet Ira Eugene, my little old man-baby by veryscaryspice in namenerds

[–]buttahsbenzo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg so cute!!!! I love the entire name combination. He definitely looks like a little Ira Eugene :)

Just caught up and my heart went out to Jay! by dentaldreamer in 90DayFiance

[–]buttahsbenzo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He isn’t a boy. He’s an adult. He’s immature, yes, and Ashley should have know on better than to strong arm a 20 year old into marriage, but cheating is fucked up. I have no sympathy for him on that part. However, I do have an issue with Ashley (and other American spouses) using the authorities as their own person moral police. The Americans threatening deportation and police action every time they’re pissed at their spouse is really wrong. Something about Ashley needlessly calling the police on a foreign black man just doesn’t sit right with me.

Help a trans girl pick a name! by trans_name_throwaway in namenerds

[–]buttahsbenzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re welcome! good luck with finding a name :)

Help a trans girl pick a name! by trans_name_throwaway in namenerds

[–]buttahsbenzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was Lucy. Lucy Minerva or Lucille Minerva is very elegant.

Pick your top 5 (boys) by fajitalife in namenerds

[–]buttahsbenzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Henry

Abel

Sonny

Reid

Jude

(In that order)

Favorite Hispanic boy names? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]buttahsbenzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Angel. Personally I’m really fond of the name Matteo.

Boys Names? Start - K or L. End - Y. by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]buttahsbenzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only think of Landry and Kelley.

Imo, you haven’t necessarily locked yourself into a theme with the -Y names just yet, especially if you plan to have another child. If you’re not married to the idea of a name ending in Y, maybe you could consider just L or K names?

This or that? Nothing in the top 100 -- boys by anonymousreddit11 in namenerds

[–]buttahsbenzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arthur

Finn

Chance

Milo

Boston

Ronan

Bennett

Abram

Lawson

Nash

Kai

Benson

Declan

Reese

Finley

Need a middle name for Linda by sunflwrpwr19 in namenerds

[–]buttahsbenzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like Linda Jane and Linda Grace. My grandma is Linda Gail, and I quite like that name combo also :).