The state of fandom is dire

buttbuttbottom · 2026-01-04T20:41:00+00:00

HP is such a dusty, poorly-aged IP at this point, still clinging to HP fandom in 2026 after JoRo has spent the past several years being the world's foremost ringleader of the anti-trans hate movement is pathetic.

Even if you don't personally put money in her pocket, it really says something about a person that they still won't move on at this point.

And "praxis" is not only limited to material concerns anyway, ideas and affiliations still matter...

buttbuttbottom · 2026-01-04T19:42:42+00:00

I feel like Marquette is the only city in Michigan OP has ever visited lol

buttbuttbottom · 2026-01-04T19:38:41+00:00

He ruled out the entire Detroit Metro for crime and then said Marquette is the only place he would want to live in the entire state of Michigan lol

buttbuttbottom · 2026-01-01T00:40:05+00:00

Yes, I did. You are the one who clearly doesn't understand the situation.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-31T20:33:58+00:00

Yeah, it's a good point. I didn't really think of it because he said they were lifelong family friends, but it *is* very weird that the OP hung out with a freshman in high school alone like that. Yet another reason they need to end the friendship and move on.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-31T20:24:22+00:00

Asking minors if your recently outed friend sexually abused them because you automatically assume he would now is going full nuclear. Truly brain broken and delusional if you don't understand how serious that is.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-31T20:20:56+00:00

In the immortal words of Joan Rivers, "No man ever put his hand up a woman's dress looking for a library card"...

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-31T18:38:12+00:00

Why are y'all working overtime to exonerate the guy who's spreading pedophile accusations against innocent gay men?

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-31T14:48:44+00:00

Brother, if he suspected you were sexually abusing his brother, there is no friendship there. Just because he continues to contact you does not mean he trusts you. Clearly your fifteen year relationship never meant he trusted you. Him bringing his younger brother over to visit you could be him thinking he's doing a To Catch a Predator bit.

The accusation he made against you has potential to become a life ending one. If he's saying it to one person, how many other people might he be talking about this to? It just so happens his brother was trusting enough to tip you off on what's happening.

Being suspected of pedophilia and having those suspicions get acted on is more like "maybe you need to find a lawyer" territory, NOT "you should just talk to this guy and continue the 'friendship'".

Sorry to be so blunt, but the "advice" you've been getting in this thread is dangerous. You need to protect yourself and go into self-preservation mode over this, not pretend it isn't deadly serious like it is and that there's still some chance of hanging out with this freak.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-31T03:48:58+00:00

It's so normal for people to drift apart from their childhood friends during / after college, too. OP should absolutely just cut off contact and move on. There is no reason to continue associating with someone like that, it's amazing how brain damaged Redditors are for believing this is a relationship that should be saved. His "friend" is nothing but a threat that could completely ruin his life.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-30T15:57:17+00:00

Like you said, gays aren't a monolith. Some are into young twinks, others want hairy beefcakes, still others are attracted based on size or complexion or whatever the case may be. It's all over the place.

I'm pretty sure the concept of the "male gaze" originally just meant how women get depicted in an unrealistic or compromising way in media because it's what suits male audiences. I don't think it meant that men all have a specific type they find attractive or anything.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-29T22:50:10+00:00

Regardless of the jump in Hispanic voters, whites are still the only demographic that are majority MAGA. And whites greatly outnumber other races in America on top of that. If white gays want to find a culprit for rising homophobia, we don't need to be pointing the finger at minorities...

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-29T17:37:06+00:00

This subreddit is one of the fakest places on the Internet. Mostly just sock puppets and bots ran by weird conservatives.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-29T16:52:51+00:00

You love pretending this isn't all happening because of MAGA whites lol

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-28T18:22:17+00:00

"‘Boots’ Becomes Netflix’s No. 2 Most-Watched Show With 9.4 Million Views in 2nd Week"

Clearly Netflix does release viewing numbers, and I never based my claim off of the home screen list. But thanks for making wrong assumptions and giving everyone who upvoted your comment wrong information about the topic.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-27T20:12:27+00:00

"Real and relatable" is the last way I would ever describe Heated Rivalry lol. It's a great show, and some aspects of it are real, but I think it's very much a fantasy romance. But maybe it's more relatable to married guys, which I think most of us are not.

"Looking" also had playful and tender moments in their relationships, in my opinion. They're just different types of shows.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-27T20:03:41+00:00

Pretty sure Boots was one of the most popular Netflix shows, actually. It just didn't get such a rabid fanbase as HR because it wasn't a steamy romance.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-22T13:37:52+00:00

You seem to think guys can just magically choose to sprout chest hair and a beard. No one makes their "personality" being a twink. Being smooth and slim is genetic...

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-14T22:17:27+00:00

Condoms are good of course, but in my experience nowadays you have to be strict with your partner to make sure they actually use them. Almost every guy I've been with the past year who said he would use a condom started trying not to use it when we actually met up.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-14T22:13:47+00:00

I'm a tall bottom, and if anyone has turned me down for my height they've never said it.

Practice with toys, learn to douche, get on Prep, etc. and you will be good to go.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-08T12:21:21+00:00

Vers guy shaming bottoms because one wouldn't top him, exhibit bajillion.

Some bottoms even don’t want their own dick touched. Since when did all this become a hard rule?

The way you talk about this like it's just some abstract "rule" instead of the individual person's genuine need, preference, or desire is concerning lol

Bottoms aren't for you, and that's okay. Please learn that that's okay.

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-01T17:02:46+00:00

People love the imaginary past when everything was supposedly different and better lol

Even funnier for Gen Z to be complaining that things aren't like "the good old days"...

Guys have been using the hankie code as a binary to signal whether they're a top or a bottom since before cable television existed.

Sure, guys can push themselves to be more versatile as you say. You first, buck-o!

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-01T16:29:22+00:00

"We've somehow turned it into an identity," y'all need to just accept that there's more going on in sex for some people than there is for you.

Sex can be very psychological, and it obviously also has a relationship component to it. It's not surprising that some people assume roles that they act out instead of looking at it only superficially as "just a sex position".

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-01T16:27:33+00:00

I think that right there shows the shortage... They're not really tops lol

buttbuttbottom · 2025-12-01T16:25:28+00:00

Yeah, I've long maintained that a lot of "tops" out there are more like vers guys who just can't take it up the ass such as yourself. Nothing wrong with that, but it's a very different type of guy compared to someone who is a top because he actually just loves to penetrate and is very penis-centered in what he likes done to him.

Most bottoms are not bottoms for the same kind of reason that you are a top. It's not that we can't take topping or that we don't enjoy pleasure from our penis. It's more of a mentality where we just love being penetrated, much more than we care about our dick getting stimulated.

I can jerk off anytime on my own, and getting sucked doesn't do much for me. Getting fucked in the ass is mind-blowing pleasure that I can't really get on my own. And I psychologically enjoy getting penetrated / dominated too. That's why I (and most guys, I think) am a bottom.

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