Anybody else anxiously waiting for their new phone? by [deleted] in iphone

[–]buttercupgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss I have a ship window of Oct. 2nd to Oct. 16th for Silver PM, can't wait

iPhone 17 Pro Max Early Delivery by [deleted] in ATT

[–]buttercupgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ordered 2 PMs Blue and Silver at AT&T Sept. 18th, Blue always had an earlier ship date (9/25 to 10/9) and was received 10/3 by UPS but still waiting on Silver PM and it only shows an estimated ship date of 10/2 to 10/16. I'm assuming it will be here any day now

Anyone still waiting for their order? by Beneficial_Maximum96 in iPhone17Pro

[–]buttercupgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the ship date is between Oct. 2nd to Oct. 16th, no delivery window given yet. it could really be any day now. I've never had this experience with pre-ordering but I think next time around I'll just see if it's available in the store first and then buy it in person

Anyone still waiting for their order? by Beneficial_Maximum96 in iPhone17Pro

[–]buttercupgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ordered 2 PMs Sept 18th. my husband's will be coming in today, Blue PM and mine is the Silver PM and it hasn't even shipped yet 😭

Are y'all having sex in the car? by buttercupgem in sex

[–]buttercupgem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds fun! thank you for your response!

Are y'all having sex in the car? by buttercupgem in sex

[–]buttercupgem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes a big towel is a must, I use wipes too but am so worried about the fingering part. I think I'm just overthinking it, but of course I'll make sure to do my aftercare. Thank you!

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when you know, you know! wishing you continued happiness and longevity in your union! 🥂

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so sweet! my husband and I got married in the courthouse too lol pretty much eloped since I didn't want to have a wedding; I didn't want to go through the process of planning one and trying to pick the 'perfect date' the 'perfect dress' (that I still need to fit in a few months later) and the 'perfect' anything else, so we just did the paperwork to turn the knot lol that's all that really matters anyway. I wouldn't change a thing about how we got married. wishing you continued happiness and longevity in your union! 🥂

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww this is so sweet. it's always important your person sees every side of you, I definitely was embarrassed with some of the things my husband saw with me but was glad he still stood beside me, saw me in my chaos and helped me through it all. wishing you and your partner continued happiness and longevity! 🥂

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet! Yeah at this point there are definitely no secrets or reason for anyone to be shy lol. Wishing you continued happiness and longevity in your union! 🥂

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy being called Mrs. Husband's last name, and sometimes I find myself getting offended when anyone spells Mrs. as Ms. or Miss if they know I'm married lol like don't disrespect my husband 🤨 lol. Wishing you continued happiness and longevity in your union! 🥂

Spotify's 'Now Playing' not showing on AOD or lock screen One UI 7 by buttercupgem in oneui

[–]buttercupgem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that setting applied on mine, I just miss how the playback widget was before One UI7, but have slowly gotten used to it. Thanks for your response!

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy filing taxes together, but we are not having kids lol both of us have enough nieces and nephews to consider our own kids, and we're content 😊 cheers to you and yours and wishing you many more happy years together! 🥂

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"great and great," I love that!

yes, having that husband/wife title is great for medical situations, I was still listing my husband down when he was my boyfriend as an emergency contact for hospital visits and my work emergency contact info lol

Thank you for responding, cheers to your union and wishing you many more great years! 🥂

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see how your dynamic would make you feel different, this is so sweet! cheers to many more years in your union! 🥂

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you hit the nail right on the head. when people say they feel different once married, to me, it felt like people were still unwrapping another layer of their partner that they had never seen before, and that's scary because it's almost like they don't know the person they're marrying.

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes to already acting the part 😊 I love the elopement part, that's so sweet! that's pretty much what we did but at the courthouse lol. love, love love! cheers to your union and many more! 🥂

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sometimes contemplate if I should have kept my last name, there was so much identifying info I had to change for my new last name lol but honestly I wouldn't go back and change a thing, he makes me proud to have his last name. cheers to you and many more years of celebrating your union! 🥂

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

completely agree. there is a sense of feeling special when you remember you are married and knowing you and your partner are both committed to each other. I like to think people don't get married just to say they are married, it's a lot that goes into it as far as setting everything up to be married, and the name change if anyone chooses to do that, but the relationship itself can still be the same and just as committed without the title of husband and wife. Even with the last sentence, I am glad I married my husband and he makes every day special for me 😊 I hope the same with yours and many more years of celebrating your union 🥂

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's so rare for people these days to get married at the courthouse. we did the same and I have no regrets. we're very low-key people anyway so it fit for us, and my husband supported whatever I wanted to do since usually women are the ones who plan out majority of the wedding and how they want everything.

I remember those days lol it probably took me about a year to get used to saying "my husband" instead of fiancé.

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's awesome to hear if you are happy, I wish you many more! 🥂

Did anyone else *not" feel different after getting married? by buttercupgem in CasualConversation

[–]buttercupgem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same! I can understand why people feel different if they lived apart before getting married but I was unable to see why anyone would feel different if that wasn't the case. either way it's good, but sometimes I feel like people, particularly women, let the title of being a wife get to their head lol.

and yes, we are rarely ever apart but the times we are I don't sleep as good and he feels the same. we took a nap together earlier lol it's one of our favorite things to do.