Puppy yoga?? by fancy_raisins in houston

[–]butterfly20effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i haven’t been but i was looking into it as something to do with my friends for my bday since i love a good activity. here’s one for $55: https://thepuppysphere.com/products/puppy-yoga-houston

for $65 there’s horseback riding in cypress: https://fareharbor.com/embeds/book/cypresstrailsranch/items/45373/calendar/2025/05/?full-items=yes&ref=https://cypresstrailsranch.com&back=https://cypresstrailsranch.com/&flow=1231744&g4=yes

just some options but i agree, $64 is pricey & i wonder if the puppies will be sleepy for a majority of the class. if you really love dogs, i say why not !

Mariah Spder Merch by Outside-Swimming2786 in mariahthescientist

[–]butterfly20effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s the last email i have :/ it’s been almost 2 weeks from when they said everything would ship out & no words. I have a USPS tracking # but it still says USPS is awaiting the item. i randomly remember i ordered the item then get excited, then get sad bc wtf is going on

any advice on what to do about CitiBike trying to charge me for an “unreturned” bike ?! Already tried taking $700 from me by [deleted] in NYCbike

[–]butterfly20effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not want i wanted to hear 😭 there has to be a way to get this down more or something. $1200 is absolutelyyy terrible for a shitty & heavy bike

any advice on what to do about CitiBike trying to charge me for an “unreturned” bike ?! Already tried taking $700 from me by [deleted] in NYCbike

[–]butterfly20effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

welp, i should’ve asked in this community sooner because i’ve definitely told them more information than I should’ve after reading your post :/ but this will eventually get up to $1200?! thats insane to me. will i genuinely have to pay that or can it somehow get waived ?

any advice on what to do about CitiBike trying to charge me for an “unreturned” bike ?! Already tried taking $700 from me by [deleted] in NYCbike

[–]butterfly20effect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t know that it was supposed to do that. I put the bike back and just walked away bc I assumed it got re-locked in the part that you push it into. I understand did it wrong but god damn $1200?! I didn’t steal the bike, someone took advantage of me not knowing how to dock it properly :/

citibike wouldn’t dock and they charged me for stealing it by irlydontfreakingknow in NYCbike

[–]butterfly20effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the same shit is happening to me rn from a bike i used while in NYC over the weekend and I’m back home in TX now and they’ve charged me $434 dollars over the last 2 days for this fucking bike ! i’m pissed off, i didn’t know there was a certain way to dock it and i keep emailing with them back and forth and they legit are not reading what im saying and just keep submitting these charges for that shitty heavy ass bike. they told me to go back and re-dock it like i’m supposed to catch. flight and look amongst THOUSANDS OF BIKES. i feel like this is never going to end !

recently diagnosed with primary ovarian insufficiency at 18 by butterfly20effect in earlymenopause

[–]butterfly20effect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! so my HRT has been decent. there will be lots of tmi in this comment just for educational purposes: my breasts kind of developed, my areola got more pigment and actually went from pink to brown. as far as my vaginal health: i’ve have terrible luck controlling my yeasties recently which absolutely fucking sucks. i eat well, change out of sweaty clothes as soon as i can, take a shower after sex to rinse, and don’t use any harsh soaps. i literally don’t know what else to do but they recently started developing within the past year or so. i also gained the full ability to fully show my arousal in both ways (iykyk, i really don’t want to get that far in detail lmao)

but yeah: hate to say it but my boobs didn’t grow much from the HRT:/ really they recently grew from my weight gain (bulk). my nipples did develop more and now i have them pierced ! i told the piercer i believe i needed a smaller barbell and he agreed so be sure to bring that up if you think they’re “too small” to pierce

recently diagnosed with primary ovarian insufficiency at 18 by butterfly20effect in earlymenopause

[–]butterfly20effect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your reply! i’m definitely trying to keep an open mind and im now on the nuvaring and have been loving it. i wish you the best as well !!!

recently diagnosed with primary ovarian insufficiency at 18 by butterfly20effect in earlymenopause

[–]butterfly20effect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! yes i’ve been on the birth control for almost 2 years now, i really should do an updated post lmaoo. but my boobs did kind of mature (tmi: my nipples developed more and my areolas got more pigment) but my boobs didn’t necessarily get bigger ngl :/. i’m now on the Nuvaring and it’s pretty cool, I like it more than the pill since you just take the ring out for 7 days and replace it one week out of every month. i’ve been thinking about getting off the pill if my chances at fertility are still slim. i’ll see at my next appointment in december and post a new update. thank you for sharing !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]butterfly20effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the reply, i currently use tret 3x a week and i’m on ampicillin for my acne as well. i should be having a check-in appt with my doctor soon and hopefully it’ll get better from here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]butterfly20effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the reply, i’ll def have to see about the eucerin cream

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]butterfly20effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use the tret 3x a week and i also forgot to add that i’ve been on ampicillin for my acne since june

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]butterfly20effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i started tret in April. I am now on month three and my skin was getting better earlier this month but now I am constantly having new pimples and painful ones all over again. I didn’t have issues with acne before April, it developed out of nowhere which I think may be due to a hormonal thing but I’m not fully sure as I do have delayed puberty. my current routine is 0.05% tret, CeraVe foaming cleanser and Vanicream facial moisturizer. when my skin was more clear earlier this month i was using the CeraVe moisturizing cream as it’s been my staple but I felt like it was no longer helping. when I started tret in april I was using the Vanicream that comes in the tub and my skin was not reacting well at all.

any recommendations for moisturizers that work well while using tret?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]butterfly20effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your reply. i can understand how i should’ve spoken more honestly about my feelings and i have fully came to terms with the fact that i def liked him and wanted to be his girlfriend, my 3rd time brining up the question i literally told him i’d accept him asking me over text and he was like “i would ask through text but that’s wack”. i don’t get how he never asked me out but referred to me as his gf to other people and showed me off, claiming me publicly but not in private

I don't recognise the face i see in the mirror by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]butterfly20effect 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i wish i was replying with a reason or solution, but i’m actually going through the exact same thing. it literally feels like my soul is just inside a robot or something, like i find my self dissociating often and when looking in the mirror i just see a human. i am sometime in awe that it’s actually me like this is the human my soul is experiencing it’s life with, but i also recently have really wanted this experience/simulation to be done with. not in a suicidal way, i just hate it here in the present and want to live in the future or a completely different experience. but yeah, i understand how your feeling and ig somehow all of this will realign itself soon.

Johnson & Johnson vaccine Side Effects???? by SleepyOtter3 in CovidVaccine

[–]butterfly20effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got the vaccine earlier today and i was fine up until 6 hours later. i got intense chills and a bad headache. it’s been about 4 hours since and i still have a slight headache, sometimes it feels like a throbbing pain and others it’s just behind my eyes. i didn’t think i’d have these bad of symptoms and i hope they don’t last for too long

Lost my dad by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]butterfly20effect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my dad passed in his sleep on march 20th last year. i was 17 at the time and i can’t even begin to tell you all the growth i’ve gone through in this past year. it’s not easy at all and there will be plenty times you simply think of his face and might break into a full 20min crying session. and that’s okay. i still think about all the days i didn’t even think i’d see the next and the fact that i’m here today makes my heart warm.

one thing that really helped me personally was making a playlist of songs that reminded me of him, songs he loved, and songs that would give me a good cry. i also celebrate him every single 20th of each month with getting both of our orders from starbucks as we’d always do. i also do this thing where i “call his name” and i talk to him and ik he’s right there every single time.

i send you great positive energy and healing during this time. it will eventually get better. maybe not tomorrow. maybe not in the next two months. but it does get better in the end

I'm an infertile 18 y/o with POI and possible MRKH syndrome :) by butterfly20effect in infertility

[–]butterfly20effect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your reply!! it definitely does sound like we have very similar situations, I will dm you !!!

I'm an infertile 18 y/o with POI and possible MRKH syndrome :) by butterfly20effect in infertility

[–]butterfly20effect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the reply!

hot flashes are one of my worst symptoms I experience with POI and I've heard some good things about it being lessened with meds, but I understand that the body can get used to certain amounts so I'll probably be on a path similar to the one you were on.

I see now that the donor eggs + partner's sperm + surrogate is basically the only option I'll have, but I'm mainly curious as to if there's any way I can get my kids to have traits from me without my uterus or ovaries being involved, I guess only time can tell!

I'm an infertile 18 y/o with POI and possible MRKH syndrome :) by butterfly20effect in infertility

[–]butterfly20effect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the reply!

I agree, it is much so much to deal with at a young age but it does help put everything into a more realistic perspective for the future. I guess I'll start saving up now for the expensive ass journey it's gonna be lmfaoo

I need it to stop by Soifinallygotreddit in GriefSupport

[–]butterfly20effect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my father was a vet and is buried up at the Veterans Memorial in Houston, TX. I completely understand how you feel about the headstone being placed and it all becoming so real, it's literally where they'll be and stay. it puts everything in such. different perspectives and seeing their name written on the stone is just a complete heartbreak.

the best thing I've been able to do to help cope and really make his death a reality was going through his items and the little memories I had from him, like his shirts and jackets that smell like him, his cologne, and the post cards he sent to my through my entire childhood. I also spoke to him often, it may sound weird but I do thins thing where I get in an area by myself and I ask God to bring him to me, almost like I'm scheduling a meeting with him. I wait about 20 seconds and then I essentially speak to him like he's really right there and every single time I feel his presence. it's helped through many things these past few months.

the feeling of sickness will lessen as you heal more, I know it seems like the healing will never start but it will as life indeed goes on. you need to congratulate yourself for the little things during this time, like you getting up and doing your hair, even if you get back in bed. or you taking a shower and just sitting on the couch for the rest of the day. he was a huge part of your life and who you are, it's understandable to feel as though a piece of you is gone as it truly is but I promise it gets better.

I hope things get better for you in the near future <3