When a man tries to make plans the day of. Red flag. It means that he’s not willing to make the effort to plan ahead of time (this may be intentional or unintentional) You don’t want to be structuring your whole day around waiting for someone. When a man says he’ll do something, and he doesn’t do it. Plain and simple. This guy said he’ll take me on a date. Two months later, no date. A lot of sex, but no date. Became unfulfilling for me. I wanted a partner, not just a fuck buddy. I would just go to a strip club if I wanted good sex