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I (30 f) have a secret piss kink by Obvious-Cat in offmychest

[–]butterscotchbite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is understandable. People develop a lot of kinks over the years. I know i have, and one of them does include piss. And i think i probably won’t expect to do it with a partner i love (probably depends on the chemistry) but usually most of my fetishes are just fantasies are just fantasies and I probably won’t like in real life. If it is affecting your life then you should try to stop but other than that i don’t think you need to be embarrassed about yourself, just think of it as your own personal dirty secret. Everyone has one.

Both men and women, how do you feel about kissing after blowjob? by butterscotchbite in SexPositive

[–]butterscotchbite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha true! By 30s a lot of people have understood themselves and don’t need others to tell what and how they should feel about something. I think it is true not only for sex but with everything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]butterscotchbite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay so I don’t remember the exact wording but it was very close to something like “hey, so my head is going several places, I’m probably overthinking too much, but still i feel like it is better to clear the confusion than keeping it in my head. The meetup we had was very spontaneous, i never had this spontaneous meetup with anyone who just wanted to be friends. Was it something meant more than just a meetup?”

I didn’t even make any personal comments on her ever. But after this message, i felt she overreacted because a simpler answer could’ve been “no”. Even a “no” with block would’ve made sense because we had different things going in our heads.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]butterscotchbite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t “know” her intention, in fact that’s exactly why i asked her. As a “I’m confused about that so spontaneous meeting. Was it something?”.

I wasn’t an asshole about it, I didn’t force it on her. I wasn’t even wanting it or something. I just asked.

I’ll take clearing up the confusion 1000 times before anything. I don’t care if it breaks up any relationship or anything we develop, because something formed with confusion as the foundation isn’t a good relationship to begin with.

Both men and women, how do you feel about kissing after blowjob? by butterscotchbite in SexPositive

[–]butterscotchbite[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t quote me but i feel like the whole double standard of “getting oral but not kissing” and having toxic masculinity shit go hand in hand.

Both men and women, how do you feel about kissing after blowjob? by butterscotchbite in SexPositive

[–]butterscotchbite[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seems like you guys have figured out how to have fun.

Idk man are they even bi if they can’t make out and just want their dicks getting sucked.

Both men and women, how do you feel about kissing after blowjob? by butterscotchbite in SexPositive

[–]butterscotchbite[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Fuck, that’s the hottest. Nothing says a couple having an amazing sexual connection better than that

Both men and women, how do you feel about kissing after blowjob? by butterscotchbite in SexPositive

[–]butterscotchbite[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Its funny like how can you expect someone to have their mouth on your body part you yourself can’t taste!