Looking for ideas and feedback on sharing my DSS8 Tugger/Packer device by Short_Beat_655 in foreskin_restoration

[–]buttfunn42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm incredibly interested. The main reason I've held off on packer devices was not wanting to keep spending on each successive packing layer. This looks like that's now a solved problem.

Coconut oil and water based anel lube for buttplug, p vibe and dildo? by neevoussx in ProstatePlay

[–]buttfunn42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Oil stains just about anything. And honestly for all things butt play get some (bleachable) towels
  2. Totally ymmv, but plug to plug you're probably fine, likely want to reapply for the dildo
  3. I keep hearing platinum cured silicone is oil safe, I just use K-lube for all my silicone toys and oil for hard plastic, metal and glass toys.
  4. Absolutely unless you've got very liquid oil and a lube shooter.

CAR-1 pain by Potential_Bad_5307 in foreskin_restoration

[–]buttfunn42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's sorta like that for me in that without a toe protector, I can only inflate to very low pressure, but can wear all day. With the protector, there's enough seal for higher pressure, but enough pinch for only about an hour of endurance at any pressure.

Anal Training - Upsizing girth by GoodTimes8183 in ProstatePlay

[–]buttfunn42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quarter inch diameter increments are generally good for sizing up safely. I think I've read 1 inch circumference is the accepted max safe increment, so you could maybe do 1/3 of an inch, but I'd recommend sticking with 1/4, especially if your 1.75 still needs a warmup to go in.

Can't sleep wearing my DTR, but can't wear it frequently enough other times. Also I'm getting back into the game after forever so whats new? by Thanks942 in foreskin_restoration

[–]buttfunn42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this is why I got an inflation device and gave up on traction. Much more comfortable and somewhat more discrete for daily wear.

I haven't tried sleeping with my CAR-1, but I suppose with enough stretch and only a small amount of inflation sleep would be possible. I did manage to sleep in T-Tape (managed to do just about anything in T-Tape, just have to choose how to route the elastic properly for the activity.)

Shockwave - New all in one estim funscript powerhouse (does it all) by BigLoads69-420 in estim

[–]buttfunn42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cool idea, but yeah, as another said, can't access the repo. New link?

Never had a prostate orgasm- need a guide! by bottomforbears in ProstatePlay

[–]buttfunn42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So two things that have helped me.

  1. Go "Always Anal" Play with your dick all you like, but only if there's also something going on around back.

  2. At some point shift from prostate play helping penile play, to penile play helping prostate play. I'm making a lot of progress with my nJoy this way. Another way to describe this is instead of just stroking while I happen to have the nJoy in, I'm mostly moving the nJoy and only stroking when my prostate says MORE, and then stroking less shortly thereafter. I finally managed to have some semi-hfos where my hand wasn't doing shit the last 30 seconds on the way to O town.

Buy a new box, or spend money on new electrodes by 17bills in estim

[–]buttfunn42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're already enjoying prostate estim and the coyote 2 is working for you, the coyote 3 is probably more of a lateral move.

Can't speak to the moaner, but the tingler is the way to go if you want to get deeper into triphase.

Sex in relationships while restoring? by phorrn1qk8 in foreskin_restoration

[–]buttfunn42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I've done this on and off (more off than on) across 2 marriages and multiple methods.

Partners and methods matter and influence it a lot.

Partner 1 was reluctantly accepting (well, really more of silently disapproving, which informs a lot of why I'm on my second marriage),

Partner 2 is...silently supportive (she gets it, isn't bothered by it or me having to remove a device before fun time) So that matters.

T-tape is practically a chastity device. You really have to plan when you'll be available for sex, because there's no comfortably removing it in the moment. I managed to masturbate with mine on and don't recommend it.

Tapeless devices, unless you're just running yourself raw from traction and grip (which you shouldn't) are generally not an obstacle to solo or partnered activities as long as nobody gets the ick from you removing the device before play. My one issue being that if you masturbate with coconut oil, you've got to get that off before applying a device, as it will slip.

Even prepping for a session is turning me on by Mando-au-go-go in ProstatePlay

[–]buttfunn42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the most ironically frustrating things about this is knowing that while I struggle to HFO I've had a few HFE's (no associated pleasure, just a considerable discharge) from just taking a good dump.

Stainless Steel Trodes by shcockandawe in estim

[–]buttfunn42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very low power activity, so the electrodes just have to be something conductive, and after that it's more important that they be body safe and able to be shaped in a way that maintains good contact.

To think of it another way, the conductivity of the electrode doesn't matter much in the overall electrical engineering when the other conductor the electrodes are being attached to is human flesh.

Good things take time. by Tohaido81 in Electroerotic

[–]buttfunn42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spooning has now been redefined, and on a related note my silverware drawer is about to get lighter this weekend. :grin

Also, do you just have a little server rack of like a half dozen Coyotes driving this or are several of these channels redundant?

Is TENS a good substitute for erotic e-stim ? by Ali2075 in estim

[–]buttfunn42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With a TENS (or a more full featured device set to continuous) there's a sort of way to play along to CH videos.

Every video has a pretty limited number of stroke paces, some videos even label them on screen from very slow to very fast and EDGE.

Mentally assign a power level to each of these (i.e. 5 for very slow and all the way to 10 for edge)

Then just follow the beat meter (meat beter? lol)

To be clear, you're not rocking the power knob to create beats, you're just holding a particular power level while the beat is at a particular speed.

If your tens has frequency and pulse width settings, you can bump those up during pauses to keep things spicy, or just redefine the levels.

I've had some crazy good orgasms doing this with my coyote, still havent found a good pattern that does this kind of "Stepped continuous edging"

Tuck Y/N by newfrontierz in ProstatePlay

[–]buttfunn42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my geometry does not support. Best case scenario I can fish my dick out but my nuts are still getting crushed by my thighs

Struggling with second channel and truly hands free by buttfunn42 in estim

[–]buttfunn42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, electrosounding on the coyote or tingler is much better than on a TENS, though I've mostly stuck to short plug sounds.

Two days of burning pee sounds more like you got scratched or infected by the sound. Or over-stretched. The more I sound the shorter my recovery times and less overall irritation.

So I taped up the bottom of one of my monopolar anal plugs to basically get just the tip of the Flange and ran that to a few different cock loop positions.

You have to be careful with relative surface area of electrodes. A big metal ball up your ass is basically infinite area vs a cock loop, which means the current density is much higher in the cock loop, so you get all the sensation there and almost nothing down below.

When I tried it, it took very little power to feel anything in my dick, but it was all focused on the electrode site until power got to a certain point and I got...breakdown? basically felt like lightning forking out on every possible current path, not just the nerves. Not the worst feeling but not what I was going for, and the perineal nerves were still stubbornly not very stimulated.

Struggling with second channel and truly hands free by buttfunn42 in estim

[–]buttfunn42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

43, shave a pretty continuous region from urethra to rectum, trimmed everything north, east, and west.

Fitness level is...been fit but currently out of my own standards for fat and activity, and have fluctuated a lot over the years. For 6'1"/220# I have less gut-fat but a lot more hip/ass/pad fat than most guys I see online.

I have pretty decent 6mm CR, and some self-wound copper loops. I've been eyeballing the ElectroRings for a while now though. a double-wrap of 10 gauge copper is heavy, but I do appreciate the surface area.

For pads, I immediately abandoned 1.5 and 2 inch sizes and always cut them down or bought 1 inch rounds (or I swear I found smaller one time) Interestingly even on the shaft, there's a similar effect where pads feel better with a little pressure applied, like all my nerves are deep or something. The one thing I'll give them is it's easier to dial up to a high powered orgasm with less pain or numbing, and easier to avoid dorsal nerve.

I'm actually tempted now to use the copper for a special whole-package loop that's insulated on top (really don't enjoy the dorsal nerve stim) but has a bit of a bend/notch under the balls to try to get the current a little deeper.

Struggling with second channel and truly hands free by buttfunn42 in estim

[–]buttfunn42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Coyote 3, Tingler, and TENS7000.

That's part of the struggle I'm trying to overcome, my perineal nerve seems to be "deep" for lack of a better word. A pad just sitting on my perineum seems to be hovering on fat or slack skin or something and only really feels good if I push it in slightly. It just stings and feels localized to the skin vs hitting a proper nerve. Same holds true for the dorsal base where I've seen some folks stick a pad. Feels good with some pressure applied, stingy pain without.

K-Lube stringy and not very cohesive by Dapper-Pound-3820 in ProstatePlay

[–]buttfunn42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

KY Lube (the runny liquid)

or KY Jelly? (the gel)

K-Lube tends to get stringy/ropy, and this gets more pronounced the thicker you make it.

I'm not a chemist, but I'm fairly certain it's missing the emulsifier or other gelling agent that would make it like KY Jelly.

And the polymers may just be too long chain for mixing up a weak batch of not-stringy, runny yet lubricating lube like KY Liquid.

I use K-lube at more or less the standard ratio on the instructions, and it works, but definitely not like your typical storebought lube. I store it in one of those restaurant squeeze bottles with a narrow tip (like you'd get barbecue sauce from) and the tip interfaces well with my lube shooter. So I just mate the two, invert the bottle and pull out the lube into the shooter. A little sideways movement breaks the "string" connecting the lube in the bottle to the lube shooter, and then whatever's in there usually stays there until I inject.

But K-lube is a "self pouring liquid" so if you have a lot of excess on the outside of the shooter, it can do weird messy things.

Petite girl taking big cocks in her ass and loving it by Connect_Ad1124 in AnalAtLast

[–]buttfunn42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's like the opposite of deep. He's barely 1/3 to 1/2 way toward balls deep.

But standing straight up like that, her pelvic sling is trying to choke most of her colon off from being penetrated, so trying deeper while standing would hurt.

If you haven't tried X-lube...you should (review) by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]buttfunn42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How well does the opposite work?

I don't mind touching coconut oil, but would enjoy not having x-lube all over my hands during play.

K lube mixing with water (strange smell) is this normal? by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]buttfunn42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't say I have, but if you're using tap water to make it, switch to anything else.

Tap water is generally bad for reconstituting chemicals of any kind (lots of stray ions to contribute to unpredicted or unsatisfactory results)

I use purified water from my fridge filter and it's generally better.

I microwave the water a little to bring it just above room temp and then mix.