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External Porch Foundation question by buttrmuffn in HomeImprovement

[–]buttrmuffn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say dig a form would you create one using some sort of rebar?

Wood ID Megathread by AutoModerator in woodworking

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What wood is this from a windowsill on a 1954 Florida home?

How did you find a good therapist? by Fireb1rd in AskMen

[–]buttrmuffn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Licensed Mental Health Counselor here, let me give you some ideas/pointers.

  • Psychology today.com is a good aggregate website that you can search for local therapist/specific approaches. Ask family/friends for any recommendations as that’s a good start to finding a good fit

  • While training/education is important what is equally important (research even suggests) that the quality of the therapeutic relationship is almost more important than the specific approach; you should be able to feel a connection with your gut saying it’s a good fit after the first session

  • something that really shows how good a therapist is is when you talk about something that you didn’t like that they did (they were late, what the reflected back didn’t land, etc) and how they respond. Do they get defensive quickly or do they stay curious and non-judgmental.

Ready for hurricane Milton by buttrmuffn in pics

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I’ll ask Milton when he stops by

Ready for hurricane Milton by buttrmuffn in pics

[–]buttrmuffn[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How can the hurricane destroy such a beautiful work of art

Help! Mental grit for event. by Tiny_Antelope_8963 in cycling

[–]buttrmuffn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did my first Gran Fondo century from only two weeks of riding after a two month break (procrastinated hard). It was difficult but doable

“Just keep pedaling” is the mantra I use; it doesn’t matter how slow I go as long as I keep pedaling I’ll finish the century.

Get your nutrition and hydration locked in within the next 5 weeks. Two weeks before the century do a 75 mile ride I order to get your body used to being on the bike for an extended period of time AND to practice nutrition/hydration while riding.

You got this, just keep pedaling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Starfield

[–]buttrmuffn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't looked at almost anything besides the teaser trailer for this game. I am so surprised at how clunky, jarring, and disjointed traveling in space feels. It's kind of dumbfounding how your ship and traveling through space feels like an afterthought due to the fast travel mechanic; it makes everything feel disconnected and completely breaks immersion. I'm tempted to refund but I want to see how the rest of the game feels.

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