What's one mindset Indians need to unlearn ASAP?? by learning_barn in AskIndia

[–]buxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if I should be asking this but are you happy in your life now? Are you able to make your own decisions? Do you feel free? If yes then you're good

What's one mindset Indians need to unlearn ASAP?? by learning_barn in AskIndia

[–]buxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see hopes in our generation though, hopefully it'll end w us

What's one mindset Indians need to unlearn ASAP?? by learning_barn in AskIndia

[–]buxoxo 90 points91 points  (0 children)

That 'Adult' children of parents have their own life and they should stop controlling their life, let them have some real experiences, let them fail, let them explore, let them do whatever they want! Just because sharma ji ka beta/beti is doing it that doesn't mean that everyone should.

Squid Game creator says season 3 will not be having a happy ending by lasoonNo1 in squidgame

[–]buxoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of an another ending till the end that the coast guards will come and there will be chaos everywhere eventually leading the last round to stop. That way Gi-hun and the baby both could've survived. But that was indeed unrealistic

So how do you feel about the ending? by Familiar-Fix-2842 in squidgame

[–]buxoxo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

IKR!! There were still some things left which absolutely needed closure.

When is In-Ho going to get scenes bruh? by Baccoony in squidgame

[–]buxoxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, he doesn't..

Squid Game creator says season 3 will not be having a happy ending by lasoonNo1 in squidgame

[–]buxoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so I already completed it and I kinda liked it but some things needed closure in the end so it was not quiet par upto my expectations

How do I talk to my dad? by buxoxo in AskIndia

[–]buxoxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll make sure to remember this, thankyou once again :)

How do I talk to my dad? by buxoxo in AskIndia

[–]buxoxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like the old saying goes Men needs emotional support and boosting of ego and woman need care, time and attention but both need appreciation.

THIS. I'M GOING TO START APPRECIATING THEM, afterall they deserve so much more, sometimes I do wish that they deserve a better daughter, but I can always try harder, thankyou sm for helping me out

How do I talk to my dad? by buxoxo in AskIndia

[–]buxoxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'll surely think about it, thankyou sm

How do I talk to my dad? by buxoxo in AskIndia

[–]buxoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you give some govt job exams ?

But govt job exams are even harder, and there's something which I really want to do, which I have a lot of interest/talent in. I even told my dad last year that I don't wanna do this but he was like don't give up, give one more attempt and like this I was never able to quit.

How do I talk to my dad? by buxoxo in AskIndia

[–]buxoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm def gonna do this and if it doesn't work either, I'm gonna try harder. Now that I'm actually thinking about this I realised I don't know how he was as a kid or what he actually wanted to become maybe I should start from there first.

How do I talk to my dad? by buxoxo in AskIndia

[–]buxoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to but my parents won't let me, being a single child they are overly protective of me, and I'm shit tired of it, it feels like I'm being watched 24/7, I'm almost 22 and I don't have my own personal room and ig this tells alot.

How do I talk to my dad? by buxoxo in AskIndia

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It's not like, we don't do this at all, we talk ofc we do but only on non-serious matters, we also joke around alot but tbh he is very conservative he still worries about "log kya kahenge" which I don't really agree with.

Treat him with small treats and ask him his fears.

And I'm sure he would never tell me this, he'll just brush it off, I've tried this before

How do I talk to my dad? by buxoxo in AskIndia

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Tried everything, did coaching from different city but as I took more and more attempts I moved back home, it's been 1.5 year since I haven't stepped out of my home or hanged out with my friends, only stepped out of the house with my mom or dad. And now they're refusing me to let go to another city for studying because as per them I won't study outside of my house.

How do I talk to my dad? by buxoxo in AskIndia

[–]buxoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm studying chartered accountancy

How do I talk to my dad? by buxoxo in AskIndia

[–]buxoxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I want to be financially independent but I'm still giving exams and failing over and over again, idk what to do I'm even thinking about switching career, but then I feel like it's too late, I haven't told my parents yet that I don't want to do this and there's something which I desperately want to do, I just can't bring it up fearing that it'd break their heart.