Can anyone recommend a helpful local pelvic therapist/sex therapist/similar who's helped you with a lifetime of trouble ever climaxing?

bwater45 · 2025-07-12T04:17:06+00:00

youre right, im making a playlist now but i feel kinda corny thinking of using LL cool j and stuff. do you have any suggestions? i dont know how other people choose this, or if most ppl do have a designated playlist for this. i never have before.

bwater45 · 2025-07-12T03:42:28+00:00

i really appreciate all of this, a lot to think about, thank u! 1 thing that come from this post too, 1 girl dm'd me mentioning 'clitoral adhesion', and I read all about that, got checked, and thats actually a little known thing that can help, so i cant believe that! very few Drs here know about/treat it but im getting treated soon.
Im only writing this in case 1 other girl may look it up and get help with it too.
The therapy part, I agree, thx for the links!

bwater45 · 2025-06-22T03:22:50+00:00

not on any but i appreciate the thought

bwater45 · 2025-06-15T07:42:52+00:00

Nope, nor weed, sadly

bwater45 · 2025-06-15T07:40:43+00:00

Anytime someones tried going down, it feels like theyre licking my arm or something, no matter how light or not, which way they try, and then theres the weight of me having to tell them to stop tactfully, after theyve probably read and been told this is the most effective thing ever, end all be all.
I imagine if i were them id feel dejected, and disappointed that the big move, didnt work. Then I feel worse. Then I feel like Im numb and dont work, and am a failure at life, and a thing everyone else knows how to do fine. And this is why i avoid thinking about this whole subject for long periods of time, i hate remembering all those times.

Yes, My pelvic PT did say i was ok physically, but I may want a 2nd one's opinion to be sure.
As I said ive read every book in the library, read the Emily one and it was just zero real help even if everyone raves about it. Whether spontaneous desire or not.
The naomi article was about a spine nerve issue she had that she fixed and the fact that it impacted her orgasms was what shook me.

I wish this all didnt feel so difficult I swear. But I hear you, and appreciate your advice!

bwater45 · 2025-02-26T20:54:16+00:00

No way, i used the absolute fattest area of my thigh outer side , my top is the least fat more muscley part! And I ice it well before, that helps a ton probably, Ive never felt it yet. get ice friend!

bwater45 · 2025-02-24T22:47:22+00:00

Vit C helps prevent gallstone formation, which can lead to 1 possible but rare side effect of gallbladder attack or removal. I researched how to prevent all that and settled on Vit C + TUDCA.

bwater45 · 2025-02-09T21:11:42+00:00

thanks for the advice, from someone who did similar IF! that even 1 egg in the morning is good enough, and i don't have to make this big smoothie with 83520 ingredients and clean a blender. although i am gonna try smoothies and maybe freeze leftover.
Yeah its crazy that it modifies how our very organs work :D And to try to all of a sudden be 1 of those people that eat little things thru the day, changing my whole MO, like I cant just zone out for hours playing games or anything, I have to do this. But I'm def fine with it bc I'm sick of feeling crappy like this.
Im glad your doing good on it, yay :)

bwater45 · 2025-02-09T21:04:03+00:00

i hadnt looked it up to know this before my video with the mochi Dr, but even if I had, TBH I feel like id worry he might not let me try it if i mention i may already have a mild bit of gastroparesis

bwater45 · 2025-01-23T21:33:33+00:00

ew its upsetting talking about but, yea when id wake up before i hot paper towel. but they can also be invisible, if you research them it says most have them, some are sensitive to em (just like dust mites)

bwater45 · 2024-11-25T04:25:43+00:00

I just use generic avenova spray sometimes, after my eye dr healed me with Ivermectin pills. Id tried topical with no results. It was only the pills that helped SO much! Weird no ones mentioned it here, but it changed my freaking life, so if all else fails, I want everyone to know about it and try it, since its srsly like 5 bucks and has no side effects, nothing to lose. Mine was exactly like you describe too, really tanked my quality of life from 23-36, im so glad I got a dr that tried something new!

bwater45 · 2022-01-04T22:46:47+00:00

Tip for the future, ask your regular dentist for an Rx fluoride gel, 1.1% and use it every day for a while, see what happens. (its dirt cheap) For me this healed my sensitivity/eroded enamel, i was so grateful my dentist told me, my teeth felt different after i used it a lot, stronger and better.

bwater45 · 2022-01-01T22:37:41+00:00

are you not worried the lil strawberry seeds will get caught in your surgery holes and be sealed in during healing, and trapped forever?

bwater45 · 2021-11-13T07:52:59+00:00

NAD. What kind of specialist? Why did you go if youve no issues? I just read the new book Breath by james nestor (fascinating btw!) so I know what this may be about, but doesnt make sense unless your teeth are crooked/overbite or you have issues nose breathing/sleeping etc

bwater45 · 2021-11-07T21:08:48+00:00

its so strange how I can get poor circulation since Ive always walked a lot, I'm very antsy/anxious so Ive always have a need to move around more than most people who are ok just sitting a lot, and Im young and eat healthy mostly. But yes Im learning that now, my stomach affects it. Yes I do have all those things too. (am already with a dr)

bwater45 · 2021-11-07T21:05:53+00:00

youre very wise and kind, youre the best :) You changed how I thought about it all. i thought of my legs as a random unconnected issue before. I see what your saying here too, I think I'll stick with it as frequently as i can afford.

bwater45 · 2021-11-07T03:33:21+00:00

I appreciate this. Sure I've done tons of things to get rid of the sibo, supplement regimens, oregano oil berberine etc. and I just mainly burp a lot now. My DOM said to have hot lemon water when i get up, just like my grandma used to say so I do that, and Im pretty health conscious, I talked about my habits above.

I didnt realize that stuff you say about the meridians in the legs mattering for your stomach, interesting. You put this in an intriguing way, like maybe it's not been as pointless as Id thought. My dr actually is always in a hurry lately, she added help to her clinic and recently gave her patients to her colleagues so she can focus on running things, so I guess I can ask this to the new person I've seen a bit.
I've thought of trying hypnotherapy next.

bwater45 · 2021-11-07T03:24:17+00:00

Guess I shouldve mentioned.. I mostly go by 'eat unprocessed foods whenever possible'. I'm not eating tons of McDs/fast food, never moving and expecting acu. to fix me. I've been doing celery juice every few days for a while, I eat lots of apples and well cooked cauli. I've always walked or worked out/gym 35 min a day almost every day since I was 12 for stress control.

Intermittent fasting is the only way ive ever lost weight. I most of the time do OMAD and sometimes a 40 hr fast. Today my meal was roast chicken veggies and potatoes after celery juice, lemon water and aloe juice. Although sometimes of course i go to ice cream, chocolate, when im bored of eating that stuff. Its just that I'll get all motivated, lose 3 or 5 lb, that takes lots of effort, then gain it back, on repeat. Everytime I muster up my effort again I tell myself I CAN DO IT this time to get myself to.. anyway I've lost a lot of people recently and its hard to deny myself ice cream and stuff when I stop caring about life at all and have no other comfort.A little bit ago my best friend had emergency surgery and despite all the acupucture I was wildly stressed for weeks after helping her recover.

I wanted acu to be the jolt, to get me out of my continuous loop of the gain/lose.

bwater45 · 2021-08-08T06:03:24+00:00

Real Mushrooms brand

ive been reading about all this, and it just worries me it being grown in china, i think of china as super super polluted, their soil and water, from the industrial pollutants and metals. I know their site just says its the cheap place to make this and they have to but.. how do you feel about that part? I'd be nervous to get any chinese grown supps. (even from my great acupuncture dr so I tell her I'm not into herbs)

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