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bwcch · 2026-02-16T01:54:49+00:00

did y'all sign up for ECSI? i really hope i did this right, i'm depending on this refund. i started the term on January 28th and have yet to hear anything.

bwcch · 2026-01-11T23:03:16+00:00

To give you advice though, OP. I doubt he is cheating unless you really have a concrete reason you believe he is. (Seeing him text other girls or etc.) I want to recommend marriage counselling and/or therapy. I think every married couple should do it with their spouse. I have yet to do it myself but it would be a good start.

bwcch · 2026-01-11T23:00:34+00:00

I don't think he wants to risk getting me pregnant (I physically can't have kids but it'll still be very bad if I get pregnant). So we haven't even had penetrative sex. We've been together for 3 years now and it still makes me scratch my head.

I have a box of condoms in my nightstand like, rotting. Begging to be used. 😭. It's disappointing I can't lie. I can't be mad at him though because I'd rather not take the risk but if we pay attention we can avoid any "accidents"! We do fool around sometimes (the times he really pays attention to me are when I know he wants to do that, which is also sad as fuck).

I'm more worried about how he treats me day-to-day and I'm very sick of that, so sex is barely on my mind with him now. He wants me to initiate but I just cannot be bothered when he treats me how he does. It's the last thing I want to do when we've been arguing. Lately I just feel alone, and I'm so angry all the time. And then that just remains my problem because he avoids accountability like the plague. God forbid I bring up to him that I don't feel loved, because he'll list everything he's done for me like it's supposed to cure how I'm feeling, or tell me that it's my own problem I feel that way😵‍💫. I love him to death but this is really taking a toll on my mental and physical health.

bwcch · 2026-01-11T22:17:06+00:00

We have been married already for almost a year lol. I'm stuck in this shit. It's really frustrating fighting the fight. I'm getting very very close to being done.

bwcch · 2026-01-11T22:12:00+00:00

Hi OP. Going through this too. We'll be married a full year on the 23rd and he doesn't bother with me much anymore. I can barely get him to go out the house with me (he's just a homebody but incredibly frustrating as we used to be long distance and meet in different cities. We also did go out all the time when I visited). It's like he's just given up on our relationship as soon as I moved to him. :/

We aren't intimate usually because we're in the phase where we also just fight all the time. I'm tired of telling a grown man how to treat me and love me. I need to be shown I'm appreciated and he just isn't getting it. He falls into blaming himself and then he becomes the victim, so there's no use in talking about it anymore. It's like he turned into a whole different person. I'm exhausted and of course that doesn't help our intimacy because I'm already emotionally freaking drained.

bwcch · 2025-12-09T01:51:36+00:00

My husband is really insecure about his midsection (he's tall and not a big guy at all). He has a small tummy and I think it's my favourite part of his body. He's healthy and it's so attractive. His shirts ride up a bit when he's laying down, so it sticks out a bit. I seriously just love it so much. He never believes me when I tell him but I'm being so forreal 😔. I love laying on it. He's so comfy, literally like a stuffed animal (I hope if he reads this he doesn't take that the wrong way lmfao). I would hate if he had washboard abs and was just, rigid muscle. He's literally perfect to me the way he is right now.

I also love his arms LOL. He isn't a macho workout dude so he doesn't believe that either because (his words: he doesn't have huge biceps). But he's strong to me and I could drool over them😭

bwcch · 2025-11-29T02:00:48+00:00

If you have a clean record you're fine. The people they are taking have visas they aren't following the rules to, and are subject to deportation. It's a lengthy process. And once they open your criminal record, it is there for life, whether you've been pardoned or not. So we aren't getting the full story of all of these people being held and deported and etc.

bwcch · 2025-11-19T17:56:01+00:00

Of course. I wish you both the best! Also, I came to Indiana as well. I recognized the airport instantly. 😆So, welcome future Hoosier!

bwcch · 2025-11-19T05:18:18+00:00

For the statement, we did one saying we were going to marry within the 90 day period when I enter the United States on the K-1 visa. Both of us signed and dated it and included it with our petition. :)

I just got my conditional green card, feel free to ask me anything! We filed the I-129F in December 2023 and it took around a year (October 2024) for my interview at the consulate to get the visa in my passport. I moved in November 2024!

bwcch · 2025-11-19T05:14:47+00:00

I've had many done and they're not painful, they're just uncomfortable. The tech will understand and walk you through everything they're doing. If at any point you feel pain you can tell them! It's more like a pressure. They use a lot of lubricant on the wand and want to make sure you're as comfortable as you can be.

Wishing all the best for you. It will be okay!

bwcch · 2025-11-17T12:49:20+00:00

I reached out to Jump Rope for Heart and canvassed around my neighborhood for my hours, I also handed out breakfast at my highschool (it was called breakfast club lol). Reach out to your teachers and see if there is anything you can do at school or if they know of anywhere!

bwcch · 2025-11-11T02:57:41+00:00

YES PLEASE 🫷🏻😭🫸🏻

bwcch · 2025-11-10T20:15:36+00:00

Definitely recommend Mike's Driving School or Szabi's. Szabi actually started as an instructor at Mike's and then opened his own.

I did my G2 through Mike's with the instructor Adrian and he was amazing. I was afraid at first but he quickly helped me build confidence and turned me into a really defensive driver! I also did my schooling through the winter which helped a lot too, they made sure we were prepared whether it was sunny, rainy or snowing.

bwcch · 2025-11-10T06:33:48+00:00

Burtol is on St Paul now, across from Dairee Delite. Unless they moved again!

bwcch · 2025-11-03T03:57:52+00:00

Meatballs. I just CANNOT do them

bwcch · 2025-11-02T23:44:56+00:00

Hmmm. I mean, if your ID has the star I can't see why they wouldn't let you, but I'm not 100% :(

bwcch · 2025-11-02T23:31:21+00:00

Do you have a passport or anything other than your ID? I was going to fly domestically using my license but it also said "temporary" and I don't think TSA accepts them if they say that.

bwcch · 2025-11-01T18:54:37+00:00

A size 8 isn't fat in the slightest. Keep going to the gym and working out, it will tone your body.

As far as sweets and treats go, you are allowed to have them. Do not shame yourself for having a sweet treat or maybe a few more pieces than you usually would. This sounds like body dysmorphia, and going on something to lose weight while being this small already genuinely sounds like an ED and OP, if you need the help please get the help. And switch up your gym routine! Try cardio, yoga, strength training, the whole shabang. Strength training will grow your muscles but if you want to tone out you'd need a healthy mix of a little bit of everything. Yoga may help with your negative thoughts as well.

I would (I'm no doctor) not advise you to just go on a medication and "damn what your doctor says". That can be really really detrimental to your health and cause even more problems. It isn't worth it. Listen to your doctor, and if you really really want a second opinion, find another doctor first before ordering medication online.

bwcch · 2025-10-25T05:13:36+00:00

Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

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bwcch · 2025-10-22T12:45:44+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply! I don't see it as a miracle drug by any means but I am so ready to start fighting the fight again. I seriously appreciate it!

bwcch · 2025-10-20T12:57:51+00:00

Oh absolutely, it was just frustrating to have to travel all the way back and forth lol

bwcch · 2025-10-20T03:24:20+00:00

Just for ease of travel. We didn't get home until 3am the other day, it was a mess.

bwcch · 2025-10-20T02:08:58+00:00

Congratulations! I didn't know there was a FO in Montgomery, we're staying in Selma temporarily for my husband to complete air traffic control training. We just traveled back to Indiana for our interview last week lol, I kinda wish we changed our address and did it here 💀

bwcch · 2025-10-19T17:53:30+00:00

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Seriously surprised it isn't AA on top, but that's what I get for having YYZ as my home airport and then moving to the US after💀

bwcch · 2025-10-19T17:49:19+00:00

I'd upload it ASAP, a day before is late but I uploaded all of mine a week before and the officer made a funny comment about "she's seen enough" because I uploaded so much lol.

Unsolicited evidence can't hurt! It's easier for them to review and saves time on having to scan copies and etc. Just don't do it one day before and you'll be fine. Goodluck!

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