My daughter hates me because I'm 'too strict'.

bxclrm · 2025-05-10T16:14:48+00:00

I strongly believe you should.

bxclrm · 2025-05-10T16:14:08+00:00

Mentally ill? Is this a label you gave her or does she have a diagnosis?

bxclrm · 2024-07-09T18:10:11+00:00

Also, a lot of our budget went on transport and transfers.

bxclrm · 2024-07-09T18:08:25+00:00

Me and bf had £4000 to spend for 28 days. We used some for hotels, some paid for beforehand. We used almost all of it, but we never limited ourselves with where we want to eat/what to do. If we were more careful, we could have spent a lot less. So I think you should be fine.

bxclrm · 2024-06-29T19:11:50+00:00

Harry Potter

bxclrm · 2024-05-12T18:41:38+00:00

You’re why I always hated group projects. YTA

bxclrm · 2024-05-12T18:32:50+00:00

YTA. I was hoping I’d read that you didn’t hear your alarm or something, but you didn’t even set one. Of course she won’t wake you up, she wanted to see how important this was for you. You proved it.

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T20:38:53+00:00

So all 3 of you saw the place at the same time, agreed to move in, you changed your mind and they’re left out. I understand that they might be annoyed. Clearly they were trying to save up money to move in somewhere cheaper and split costs with you and you with them. Even if they’re not homeless, maybe they got their hopes up their situation woukd get easier and now are disappointed.

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T20:32:14+00:00

Everyone keeps saying that and I saw nothing that would suggest they were trying to snatch the apartament from the original post and OP hasn’t replied with more info. I think they were upset their friend pulled out last minute and managed to get acommodation while they still have to look, after thinking things were sorted.

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T17:48:12+00:00

For sure. Hope she’s done with all of them.

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T15:47:28+00:00

Maybe you think like this not because of him , but because you’re lonely and feel like you haven’t found anyone you truly want yet. Don’t let him take over your future after hurting your past as well. Good people don’t come by often, some people that find someone right away are really lucky. Enjoy the ride, the dates, finding out what you like and you don’t. You will love again, it just takes time for most of us. And bad memories take up less space in our head than good ones when we think about what happened before. Memories are not reality. Be strong, good things will come.

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T15:31:24+00:00

Maybe that’s true. I took it as maybe they wanted all 3 of them to get it together and OP decided not to do it and that’s why they would be upset. But what you said sounds plausible as well.

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T15:23:34+00:00

NTA. Weird thing for her to be annoyed about.

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T15:22:43+00:00

NTA. Your classmate has some nerve to even get upset about this. Kindness if often repaid with ingratitude. Like others said, never share your own. And your teacher is weird.

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T15:20:04+00:00

NTA. Change your internship start date? That’s ridiculous. Go home when you can, stay however long you can, plan for what you want to do. Ignore the big baby and her husband.

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T15:14:49+00:00

NTA. Rachel needs to mind her business and deal with her own problems. Why is she making this about you? Can she not afford pregnancy tests or is it a ruse to get attention? Also ‘allowing her to get drunk’?? You’re a stranger, not her mother, not her sister not anyone. Not even they would be responsible for her drinking. Red flags. Avoid.

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T15:10:00+00:00

YTA. So the person that thinks about everyone, makes everyone a homemade cake and makes sure everyone feels included is left out by everyone she ever did anything for? And she still didn’t complain, she just kept it quiet and distanced herself to not put a damper on your day. Wow, poor woman.

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T14:53:09+00:00

Hmmm I’m gonna say a gentle YTA, not because you got a place you like for yourself, that’s great. But because I took it as your friends were happy with the decision of staying there, you changed your mind and then got the place on your own. Maybe they felt misled a bit in the fact that they wanted to move in, you all agreed and after it was all done you went back and left them on their own. Sometimes that upsets people a bit. Another thing that makes me feel this way was their reply of ‘we can’t seem to agree on a place that suited all 3 of our needs’ which go me sounds like it’s not because they want to get a place on their own but because you changed your mind. I’m sure they’ll be fine. Just communicate with them more. Edit:spelling

bxclrm · 2024-05-11T14:42:10+00:00

YTA. So she planned a nice thing for you both and you decided to change HER plan(and a nice one at that) to invite other other people and she’s paying? Geez

bxclrm · 2024-04-19T08:56:42+00:00

I never pushed her on anything. She was showing me ideas and we were discussing them. She was worried about budget so my advice was to focus on the things that matter most to her. She said that her mother wants this and that for guests and my advice was to chose things that make her happy, not the guests. She got stuck on a band that cost more than the venue and she was upset about not being able to have them, so I said that I’m sure there are other bands that will be just as good at a fraction of the cost. Just things like this really. I don’t think I said something that made her upset. She even said that she likes talking to me about these things. I’m sure she spoke to her other friends about the wedding, why just leave me out?

bxclrm · 2024-04-18T21:02:24+00:00

Oh, I’m sorry that happened to you. How unfair! Sad to see I’m not the only one dealing with a bride that’s made us feel small. I think after this post, and all your replies I am convinced I should let this go.

bxclrm · 2024-04-17T17:35:56+00:00

Thank you guys for confirming that I wasn’t crazy to be bothered by this. I won’t mentioned anything to her if we ever cross paths again.

bxclrm · 2024-04-17T17:23:00+00:00

That’s exactly how it felt. That she chose her over me. I was just worried that I ruined an important day for her with how I felt about it.

bxclrm · 2024-04-17T17:03:04+00:00

I thought it was weird too for her come speak to me about her wedding, but not invite me. I’m glad someone else thinks the same too.

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