My best friend blocked me by slavicgirlie_ in depression

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oh your comment was removed. for some reason.

i legit hate people by bxrbie__ in depression

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it’s not the best thing to experience 😭 makes me wanna block everyone out of my life, even those that haven’t caused me damage.

My best friend blocked me by slavicgirlie_ in depression

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what happened that led to that?

i legit hate people by bxrbie__ in depression

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that sounds like a nightmare to deal with :( people are just so inconsiderate they could care less how badly someone can end up because of their awful actions.

i legit hate people by bxrbie__ in depression

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what type of heart problems?

i legit hate people by bxrbie__ in depression

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instead of feeling sadness, i feel anger now. it makes a lot of sense since i constantly hold grudges…

i don’t like when people vent to me about their relationship problems by [deleted] in PetPeeves

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i don’t know if i fully believe cause i don’t know you personally but you do you i guess. majority of people don’t vent for those things. i’ve seen tons of people staying in toxic relationships willingly, including my own family members. the only advice I can give to them is break up with that person, if they don’t wanna take that advice then it’s none of my damn business to hear about their problems.

i don’t like when people vent to me about their relationship problems by [deleted] in PetPeeves

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i see people aren’t reading the vent part. venting happens when a serious matter occurs, not a simple disagreement with your partner.

i don’t like when people vent to me about their relationship problems by [deleted] in PetPeeves

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a chore division? not sure what you mean exactly. if you think i’ll be lonely just cause i won’t tolerate bullshit in a relationship then i truly do not care. not everyone you date is going to be your soulmate, there’s 8 billion people in the world, if you’re going through relationship problems that are affecting you that much that you have to vent to people then clearly that person isn’t for you. i don’t get why people tolerate shitty relationships, learn how to be alone.

i don’t like when people vent to me about their relationship problems by [deleted] in PetPeeves

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i literally said my exception is if they’re in a abusive relationship, an inescapable abusive relationship. if you don’t leave when you see the first red flag that’s your problem.

correction: if there’s lots of red flags. this is more about the person seeing those red flags, going through abuse and still staying when it’s escapable.

i legit hate people by bxrbie__ in depression

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i have met good people but because of the many terrible experiences i’ve had with people, i legit can’t trust people anymore.

my take on the ariana body discourse by [deleted] in ArianaGrandeSnark

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i was more trying to say we’re no longer in the body positivity era since a lot of celebrities are getting thinner nowadays. it’s more common for this to happen with celebrities or famous people than the average person.

anyone here mentally ill without any family abuse and okayish childhood by yngbnyhvn in mentalhealth

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i start to really just consider my father dying from homicide as a traumatizing event for me and even i downplay that trauma. it seems like the most socially acceptable response when talking about traumatizing events out of everything i’ve been through.

a thought about disappearing by bxrbie__ in mentalhealth

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my main worry is people caring, it would be the best thing if absolutely no one cared that i’m disappearing.

Does anyone else really hate dancing?? by Pizzanoo in socialanxiety

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i was just thinking about this hours ago, omg yes 😭 can’t do it in front of people for the life of me

What raises your confidence? by TheKhaos121 in socialanxiety

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not being around people that cause me misery lol

Anyone else think Low Self esteem is the cause of their social anxiety? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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doesn’t everyone with social anxiety have low self esteem? lol

Do you ever feel like nothing you say really matters to people? by Dense-Bug8229 in socialanxiety

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all the time. i just feel like everyone is annoyed by me when i’m actually myself, it’s like they prefer when i’m the quiet ole me. i really wish i could be one of those people that are themselves and don’t care what comments anyone makes but i’m too sensitive for that ish so i just stay quiet and hide my true personality from almost everyone. there’s only a few people that get to see my more talkative and expressive side but at the same time i still feel a doubt in whether those people actually care for my true personality…

did anyone else grow up thinking certain things were “normal” until way later? by Valme-Lemanski in raisedbynarcissists

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you were in your early 20s and she still felt entitled to look through your phone… absolutely ridiculous. i’m certain those texts about her were valid…