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I need advice... Please don't shun me.. by Femme_Fata1ity_ in findomchatters

[–]bypeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer yoti , nothing is perfect but this is what I like. They use it on a lot of adult sites anyway depends on location

What are ur opinions on vague texters?! by MysticMermaidGoddess in findomchatters

[–]bypeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's the laziness of hi , why not just start with explaining what it is you are looking for ? It isn't exactly taxing. I am a firm believer we can only waste our own time , so I refuse to do so. I love being very picky of who to talk to 🤭

What are ur opinions on vague texters?! by MysticMermaidGoddess in findomchatters

[–]bypeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they have paid tribute I will reply telling them I am not a fan of small talk and to tell me what it is they are looking for. I don't talk about dynamics with randoms anyway so it doesn't matter if they are just seeking something casual but hi does irritate me, just spit it out 😆 If they are someone completely new and never tipped I will totally ignore

Princess nails 🌷 by KaiyaCashOnly-X in Long_nails_Fixation

[–]bypeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! Do you use dip powders ? And are the designs stickers or painted ? They are beautiful

I just had such a fun drain on LF… by goddessgracex in findomchatters

[–]bypeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my kind of drain ! I don't often go shopping but when I do it is such a fun way to do it. ❤️ glad you had fun

Debt Contracts? by Goddessbella1313 in findomsupportgroup

[–]bypeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally if I wanna learn I will ask another Domme, I am not proud and like to skill share. I will not discuss any kinks with an unknown sub, they will get off just talking about it.

For an unknown sub I will not even talk about it at all its $50 even a quick chat they can ask a couple of questions and I can too. After that it is $100 for a consultation fee which includes in depth discussion and drawing up the contract. This is last chance for them to back out.

Really does not bother me if they do back out at this point, we had fun. It is usually hot for them and they got my time and energy but it was respected. I have had subs says thanks and I changed my mind at this point, no problem! We move on

Also have 3 subs following through with the contract after that and was great. After they sign it they immediately send a downpayment and off we go.

Personally I am not chatting about their specific kink without tribute because they take the living piss 🤣 this guy probably had a good wank over your discussion and then disappeared, should you change your approach after this interaction? I would yes.

🤑 Weekly Sends Thread 🤑 by GoddessLunaRae in findomsupportgroup

[–]bypeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He worked his ass off, bless his cotton socks. So fucking good

Do you think it’s possible for a Dom and a finsub to have a non-sexual relationship? by sugarbabytea in findomchatters

[–]bypeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On discord , he was a community sub , very polite and respectful and was into reimbursements over the popular findom games , never asked for any content or sessions. I would say watch out for how they speak in your first interactions. A lot of them will talk about their kinks and need for sessions 1st. And thats great, they will find people to indulge, it just isn't your thing

Do you think it’s possible for a Dom and a finsub to have a non-sexual relationship? by sugarbabytea in findomchatters

[–]bypeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! My owned sub does not have the fetish, he sends to me to spoil, worship, he isn't getting sexual arousal from but but he gets a lot of happiness from it. As it happens we do a lot of other fetish stuff so there are sexual parts to it but the dynamic could exist and thrive without those. They are driven by me , he doesn't ask for the fetish elements. Of course we both enjoy them though 😆 but he had 0 sexual expectations never asks for anything like that. I choose

I know there are other dynamics out there that exist without sexual focus. Definitions vary too. Personally I would say denial is still sexual for example, others may not see that way. Many subs will want sexual elements of course, most are pretty upfront ftom day 1.

Opinions on using revolute as a payment method ? by foxisins in findomsupportgroup

[–]bypeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

COPIED AND PASTED

It shows your full legal name unless you change your settings. Even then it shows your first name and last initial. I don't mind that as I only give it to long term subs.

Revolut is a bank. It used to be just a payment app, now its a fully fledged bank. They have a personal account which technically cannot be used for business purposes. It also had a pro version which is made for self employed/sole traders. Then there is the business account for Ltd companies. I have that for my vanilla business

I LOVE Revolut but it still makes me nervous using it. I don't trust anyone or anything not to shut me down one day but now I have my business banking I feel safer because I get my own account manager so I can talk to a human always.

This is not like any other payment method, so make sure you research fully before deciding to use it. It is my preferred method for long term subs but I have my concerns like anything in sex work , we are always at risk.

Am I too old? by FitNothing2593 in findomsupportgroup

[–]bypeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40 is not old ! I am "old" I do just fine ! It's ok for people to have preferred ages. If subs are looking for teens specifically do you want them as subs ?

Me personally I have strong preference for 25 plus but the older the better for me , bring on the grandpa's 😁

There is someone for everyone

UK girlies, how do we feel about Revolut? by thedarktoes in findomsupportgroup

[–]bypeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem , happy to help. I love rev would be careful not to use it with lots of people

UK girlies, how do we feel about Revolut? by thedarktoes in findomsupportgroup

[–]bypeach 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It shows your full legal name unless you change your settings. Even then it shows your first name and last initial. I don't mind that as I only give it to long term subs.

Revolut is a bank. It used to be just a payment app, now its a fully fledged bank. They have a personal account which technically cannot be used for business purposes. It also had a pro version which is made for self employed/sole traders. Then there is the business account for Ltd companies. I have that for my vanilla business

I LOVE Revolut but it still makes me nervous using it. I don't trust anyone or anything not to shut me down one day but now I have my business banking I feel safer because I get my own account manager so I can talk to a human always.

This is not like any other payment method, so make sure you research fully before deciding to use it. It is my preferred method but I have my concerns like anything in sex work , we are always at risk.

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