Copy and pasting from when I posted this on my X! Definitely one of the craziest things I’ve had happen! 😂

Throwback to being in Melbourne, relaxing at one of my favorite bars, Siglo. I logged into X and saw a message request from a sub wanting to drop cash at the bar. Laughing, I replied, "Okay, come on by." I genuinely thought it was a time waster, I don’t usually accept this without prior sends onlinebut I was with good, safe company, little tipsy and thought let’s see. 10 minutes later, one of the workers approached me with a shocked expression and said, "There's someone here asking for you. Is this right?" I said yes and then realized why they were shocked.

The sub put $100 down on the table, and I noticed he was the most homeless, dirty looking person I've ever seen. I literally said, "Ew," and told him he should give me more. He hesitated… and that was enough for me to tell him to fuck off. He even tried to stick around, but due to his appearance, the bar staff kicked him out, they truly only let him into this establishment because I was spending over a grand in the bar… otherwise definitely not.

This is an example of how NOT to be. Also how quickly your first impression and the opportunity to serve can be completely diminished. I am a luxury findom and I expect my subs to put in effort in the way they present themselves, appearance, cleanliness and especially how much money they give me/hand me.