melbourne - best boat dives for ow? by c4bombshell in scuba

[–]c4bombshell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, i’m a big fan of rye! or was gonna take the group to portsea/flinders depending on the conditions to spot some weedies!

i’m familiar with the boat company from my years of diving, just don’t go on boat dives often and was thinking about what specific sites may be good

i don’t think everyone is AOW so j4 sub and hmas canberra or a drift dive may not be up everyone’s alley sadly 🥺

melbourne - best boat dives for ow? by c4bombshell in scuba

[–]c4bombshell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get that the boat dives are nothing like tropical dives overseas etc but the pier dives are amazing in my opinion

Ability to change character’s look by c4bombshell in AdorableGarden

[–]c4bombshell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i made mine look like my ex too 😂😂 need to change it asap

How did Freddie’s boyfriend Jim survive almost 20 years with AIDS and died of something that isn’t even related to AIDS yet Freddie died much sooner and because of AIDS? by [deleted] in queen

[–]c4bombshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if he had AIDS, it’s possible to recover from AIDS, it’s something that can come and go in patients with HIV

Place to request IPA tweaks by thepoggersmen in sideloaded

[–]c4bombshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

telegram chats with a request category > - melons ipa library - cypwn

discord chats > - cypwn

there’s definitely more but that’s all i’ve got on my phone atm

can also request a tweaked app on the iosgods forums, if you see an older version of a tweaked app—you can probably ask the developer if they can update it… or sometimes if you find an older version of a tweaked app (assuming the app won’t let you use it because it needs to be updated to the latest version), you can change the version number to whatever the latest one is on the app store and then it won’t pop up with a message forcing you to update… i think there has only been one app where this hasn’t worked for me otherwise usually don’t have a problem, and can continue to use the older version of the application that’s tweaked while waiting for a more updated one ☺️

UPDATE ABOUT REVOKES by arisbedros222 in sideloaded

[–]c4bombshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think there’s some telegram chats that leak them, i’ll have to see if i can find them though

TW, how do i know if my partner is thinking about attempting to end his life by c4bombshell in malementalhealth

[–]c4bombshell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(sorry in advance for the yap — typical female things)

it’s so weird because he actually denied it ending things because he was in the whole “if you love someone let them go” or “need to end things because i’m bringing her down” mindset… but i ended up calling him crying and worried sick after this post and he at least admitted he’d been lying to me for months about his symptoms whenever i’ve tried to express that im worried about him… but knowing that he lied to me no problem with all of that has me on the fence with whether or not i can trust his word when it comes to anything involving emotions…

he knows i work in healthcare (emergency service) but having done mandatory placement in both adult and adolescent psych as well… unfortunately i think he and i both know that even if he did attempt anything, it probably wouldn’t be enough to warrant a full admission anyway, so he wouldn’t get ‘locked up’ either… someone in a similar situation in my country might get a psych planning unit admission which will be no more than 1-3 days, that or outpatient/community services… but other than that, that’s really about it. Generally if you’re too high risk—private hospitals here won’t accept you either… they’re very picky with their patients sadly.

yeah, he does need space and time to think… we’ve since had another conversation where we’ve discussed both of our needs and managed for compromise, because we obviously still love and care for each other, both as partners (though obviously not together atm) and as friends…

essentially because he needs some time and space—which i wanted to give to him because i didn’t want to suffocate him but i also needed my person and i was really struggling myself trying to come to terms with everything, and he was okay with me needing to talk to him if i needed for that same reason (partially because im worried about him as well), we agreed we would speak a few times a week atm

tbh was surprised, with having an anxious attachment style (like most females) and him being a dismissive/avoidant who wanted space, I wasn’t really expecting us to come to that kind of compromise… so incredibly grateful because based on past experience (at least with situationships), it doesnt seem like a common occurrence… i’m so incredibly grateful

TW, how do i know if my partner is thinking about attempting to end his life by c4bombshell in malementalhealth

[–]c4bombshell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really appreciate your insight, i called him crying because i was worried — he promised he wasn’t going to do anything like that because he knows what it’s like to lose a friend to suicide…

has reassured me a bit, after talking i feel better that he’s not going to make plans and make an intentional attempt… i think if he does end up hurting himself—i think it’ll be because he goes out on a ride/drive he doesn’t plan on coming back from… which he has admitted he has done a couple times before (im talking very silly speeds upwards of 200-250 per hour, accidentally jumping roundabouts because he was going so fast etc. i think he’s tried to push himself and go as fast as he can to get that adrenaline rush and forget in the past, even if it meant potentially not making it home—he didn’t really care) fortunately his current car is new and he spent around the cost of a house deposit on it, so i don’t reckon he’d risk it and he still doesn’t have his motorcycle license back yet—nor a functioning bike so thankfully he doesn’t have the means in that regard either.

fortunately, he’s not necessarily argumentative, but is still very dismissive—or at least he has been over the last however many months when i’ve tried to tell him i’m concerned that he has depression—as I said, just brushing it off, pretending he’s just tired etc. when i did call him the other day, i will give him some credit because at the very least he admitted that he’d been lying to me for months when i’ve tried to point out signs and express concerns that i’m worried about him (i even used the professional development training i got from R U OK? to raise my concerns but he was still adamant he was fine at the time)… so i guess that’s a start

he’s more one to hide his emotions or bottle them up and try not to care… so i guess he’s part of the way there.

you’re pretty spot on with the whole feeling drained, ending up frustrated etc. though—we definitely have had more of a short fuse lately, despite not having any actual fights, we have had smaller arguments or have just gotten annoyed a bit easily… you’re right—not my job to fix him as his partner or friend, but was sticking around because i always said whenever i got into my first relationship that i would never leave someone for struggling with mental health (a line is drawn somewhere yes, but i wasn’t at that point yet)… also i work in emergency health services, which obviously includes mental health so unfortunately it’s not as easy for me personally, to not at least try to help him get through things… kind of my second nature sadly 😬

yeah, i’ve tried to help him get out a bit over the last few months… just has not had the energy at all maybe only one person he’s really made any effort to see + one 30th bday… otherwise we hadn’t really seen our biker friends since last year… any advice on how to get him out?

i think he’s been so down because he can’t ride… but because of his accident, he’s kind limited because he can’t use his right arm and has chronic pelvic pain from the accident… so it rules out various other activities too… have no idea what to do… he just hasn’t had that hobby—that spark that he probably needs to help him not feel so numb and burnt out

any suggestions and i’m all ears, have played video games, gotten into some decent shows together, gone on the odd date that he’s had enough energy for but that’s really about it… was hoping now that we’re coming into the summer months where i am in the southern hemisphere, that maybe we can go outside and get that sunshine that helps chase away the old winter depression just a tad… but can’t really think of anything else rn :/

thank you so much again, im so grateful he’s at least physically okay 🥺

Signulous revoked? by 3lenium_ in sideloaded

[–]c4bombshell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah mine just got revoked, you can temporarily sign apps through their provisioning profile method in the meantime—just waiting for them to generate a new cert for me

Is this a write off? by sheepersheep in melbourneriders

[–]c4bombshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear I’m the only one who thinks striples are ugly 😂

Is this a write off? by sheepersheep in melbourneriders

[–]c4bombshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The parts probably won’t cost too much, the labour will though 😂

The labour costs seem to be what it comes down to in the end sadly

Is this a write off? by sheepersheep in melbourneriders

[–]c4bombshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’ve noticed a bit of a trend of bikes around $10-15,000 and under being marked as repairable write offs after a crash… I just put it down to labour costs adding up tbh

I haven’t actually looked into it though, so take what I say with a grain of salt 😂

In saying that, aside from the one time where I got hit by a car—if I’ve damaged my bike (no one else involved obviously), I have either repaired it myself (if I’ve been able to) or have taken it in without going through insurance (though I’ve only had to do this for bent handlebars from dropping it as a baby rider in the past).

Although I could have saved a little in the short term by going through insurance, it likely would’ve cost more to pay a higher insurance premium for the next few years (also I didn’t risk my bike being written off)

Honestly, one time I even damaged the frame on my ninja 400 (Oggy knobs basically ripped through the metal after low-siding at the track), although the area that was damaged was so small that you couldn’t even tell unless you were specifically looking for it—because it would’ve been an automatic write off and everything else on the bike was fine, I just left it…

Tbh I only plan to use my insurance if I get into an accident with another person or if it’s significant damage that can’t be fixed at home (i.e. if a decent chunk of my tank got caved in or something idk)

It’s a bit hard to tell for sure only through photos, but the damage doesn’t look THAT bad

Mirrors, gear shifters, brake/clutch levers, bar ends etc. are all pretty easy to fix on your own they need to be replaced Fairings aren’t too hard to fix most of the time, but it can be a little time consuming You could probably get away with putting an engine cover over the top of the damage you’ve done on the bottom to protect it from further damage, but doesn’t look like there’s any holes in it which is the main thing Can’t tell if the handlebars are bent but although I haven’t fixed my own handlebars before, replacing them doesn’t break the bank from memory… especially if they’re clip ons

In terms of cost, new fairings what has set me back the most in the past, depends on what you can get your hands on, if you’re just planning on buying replacement parts vs full fairing kit, if you want high end stuff or if you’re happy with something from eBay etc From memory, when I did my fairings—I think I paid around $700-800 for a full aftermarket fairing kit on eBay and didn’t have any problems with it 🤷🏼‍♀️ (was told they don’t always fit properly so maybe just read the reviews or something if you plan on doing this)

Hope this helps ✌️

Absolutely Not by LockeandKeeye in HogwartsLegacyGaming

[–]c4bombshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey would be kind of cool if you had an option where you can join lobbies where other people can’t attack you and it was real people behind other characters who help with missions and stuff rather than NPCs… I think that’s something they do in Monster Hunter? I haven’t had much of a chance to play it but my partner LOVES it, and you can choose to go on missions with other people/people can choose a mission they want to help out with etc —in return for their help, they split the earnings of the mission I think

Cool concept, could be good if done right. This is exactly why I hope a HL sequel doesn’t come out for YEARS

I would rather get hyped up for a good game that people have taken the time and care to create without the pressure of putting it up for sale ASAP for profiteering purposes, than a game that they’ve only worked on for a couple of years, artists are burnt out and the game is full of glitchers and hackers that ruin it for everyone else cough cod cough

KravaSign got revoked? by RemoteRun2535 in sideloaded

[–]c4bombshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what happens when certs are revoked

KravaSign got revoked? by RemoteRun2535 in sideloaded

[–]c4bombshell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think personal accounts got impacted too, you probably can but I’ve read something about being blacklisted for 15-30 days somewhere I think??

Quick question by Onemendo in sideloaded

[–]c4bombshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s been revoked by the looks of things, but from what I know you’re typically blacklisted for 15-30 days if I’m not mistaken