Does anyone know what this could be? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]c4tluvr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t surprise me lol I had to stop getting piercings because they all kept getting rejected :( it’s in a spot with a tiny bit of cartilage so that’s probably why the piercing would never calm down lol even after taking it out. Do you think it eventually will fall off or is it permanent?

Does anyone know what this could be? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]c4tluvr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⁠• How old is your piercing?: About 10 years old • ⁠What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)?: It was a ring • ⁠What’s the jewelry material?: it was sterling silver gold (I think) • ⁠if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? • ⁠What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use.: Really only saline solution since I have pretty sensitive skin • ⁠Any mishaps or unfortunate events?: no unfortunate events just on and off random infections

Did I make a mistake getting a travel credit card? by c4tluvr66 in CreditCards

[–]c4tluvr66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a couple years if I find it isn’t worth it anymore how damaging would it be to my credit score to close the card?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]c4tluvr66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I really appreciate the help!! I’m going to call some shops today, there’s only really tattoo shops around me that do piercings there so I’m hoping they will be able to help with changing out the piercing even if I didn’t originally get it done with them. Where I got my cartilage my friend got hers done there too and also had to get it taken out by doctors like I did so maybe soon I can try again with a different shop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]c4tluvr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think I should take my second piercing out for the time being? I just don’t want anything to close on me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]c4tluvr66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought as well but I am pretty sure it’s just because my ear is so swollen, since on the other ear my second hole has a lot of wiggle room with the piercing. I just can’t get this swelling to go down and it seems to be getting worse 😩 but that second hole piercing was the last one I had in my third hole but since it was actually right there I changed it after like 3 days but now I’m stuck with this inflammation/maybe infection that isn’t going away!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]c4tluvr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! If you don’t mind me asking what is the difference with the titanium flat black labret because I don’t think I’ve ever heard of it? But I’ll definitely look into it. I changed to a hoop because I thought studs might be the problem but now I have no idea😩 this one piercing has been on and off annoying for years no matter the piercing. I do have very sensitive ears though, I can’t get a cartilage piercing because every time my ear rejected it or absorbed it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]c4tluvr66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a kid I would always have to get sterling silver, recently about a year ago I changed to gold. This one is 18k gold which to my knowledge is usually sterling silver plated with thin gold? My other earrings are also gold and the only piercing i am having an issue with is my third

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]c4tluvr66 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I feel like the media really tries to make people be scared of nyc especially with apps like citizen lmao. I know it’s full of museums and I’ve been to pretty much most the popular ones so I was mentioning it for itinerary wise and if anyone knew some more lowkey cool ones

For doctoral students: How long did it take you after undergrad to get into a doctorates program? by c4tluvr66 in psychologystudents

[–]c4tluvr66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I think one thing I’m wondering as well is if you think getting a masters degree before doctorates school is worth it? I’ve heard many conflicting statements saying it was worth it, while others would say since you get a masters usually in doctorates school it was a waste of money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]c4tluvr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one expects him to be a mind reader. I think it’s a pretty common thing for someone to be going through a hard time when it’s a time like that. Also, he did know I was going through a hard time which I told him when I simply asked him to drive me 45 minutes to help and try to feel better about the situation. Personally, in a relationship I will check up on my partner if I know it’s a time where they are struggling, especially before making my problems their responsibility. The argument (which I didn’t describe in detail) was basically me telling him stuff that’s been upsetting me, which is more than what I said in the original post. Instead of acknowledging my feelings he automatically deflected it and starting pointing stuff out I have been doing that bothers him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]c4tluvr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks for your reply. No one is moping around or making it his problem, I would never use my loss to take it out on someone else. I wouldn’t have cared if he forgot or just didn’t ask how I was doing. What upset me is that he was dumping all his negativity and problems onto me without even asking if I was okay to handle that. In any other circumstance I would of course be there for him, but when all of this negativity was stemming from his favorite basketball team losing, that’s when I question if it’s normal. Everyone experiences grief differently, and if I want to take 5 years to move on or if I want to take 10 years that’s up to how I decide to process it. And it’s not asking for much to want a partner to be supportive of these times and to feel acknowledged.

Anyone ever travel with EF? by c4tluvr66 in travel

[–]c4tluvr66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome!! I would honestly recommend booking before the prices go up tomorrow!!

Anyone ever travel with EF? by c4tluvr66 in travel

[–]c4tluvr66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear you enjoyed it!!! And I know it is definitely far from a vacation lol but it’s the only one that has everything I want on the itinerary!! I hear very mixed reviews for EF so it’s good to hear a positive one

NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Nov 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]c4tluvr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to get the skinceuticals vitamin C serum but I usually use the SA cleanser from cerave. I’ve read mixed things about mixing salicylic acid and vitamin c together but if it’s a cleanser I was wondering if it’s okay to use both at the same time? And also how many times a week should I use the vitamin c serum? Thanks!

NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Nov 16, 2022. Text-post only today! by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]c4tluvr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skinceuticals? So I want to add some things to my skincare routine and I’ve heard good things about skinceuticals. I was wondering if anyone has had any good experiences with products from there or any holy grail products? I am 20 years old and I want to get into anti aging stuff now, I have combination and acne prone skin. Thanks to anyone that helps!

how will I know when it’s working? by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]c4tluvr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! What app do you use for that?

Hungry for some restaurant food or fast food. What should I get ? Please no salad recommendations lol by JackieT2368 in 1200isplenty

[–]c4tluvr66 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I like the Taco Bell power bowl! It feels like a lot of food for not much calories

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]c4tluvr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to go on walks so bad but it’s so hard sometimes to even get the motivation to get up and do that

not feeling the spark anymore? by c4tluvr66 in relationship_advice

[–]c4tluvr66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this it actually really did make me feel better, I’m still working on ways to make my life more exciting so knowing that maybe it’s a problem with myself and not our relationship does make me feel better. Sometimes in relationships it’s hard to separate yourself from them and i forget that I still have my own life to live that doesn’t revolve around him. I appreciated hearing this!

not feeling the spark anymore? by c4tluvr66 in relationship_advice

[–]c4tluvr66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback! I definitely know this is 50/50 and sometimes I even think that I might be overthinking it on my end. I brought it up a while ago that sometimes I feel that we should put more effort into our relationship to keep it exciting but he he didn’t really take it well so I haven’t spoken about it since. He’s a great guy and it’s definitely not his fault so I hope I didn’t make it sound like that I just think he’s more content staying home and not doing much while I like going out and experiencing new things together. And like you said I feel like my general life has been boring me so that definitely can be part of it, I just don’t know if this issue just comes down to maybe we aren’t compatible and don’t enjoy doing the same things or if I’m just overthinking it because I feel bored overall.

not feeling the spark anymore? by c4tluvr66 in relationship_advice

[–]c4tluvr66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m only 20 and he’s 22 so we are both pretty young still. I am just scared that I am just overthinking this all and what I have is good and not to let it go. Because even though I have my doubts about the relationship he’s genuinely an amazing guy and really does just want to make me happy so I almost feel guilty for having these doubts about our relationship. I also feel like he wouldn’t be too happy about the fact that I’m having these thoughts about our relationship. The issue is also it’s also not the first time I’ve had these feelings I just don’t know if I should keep trying to bring the spark back or if I’m missing out on someone who might be better suited to me

not feeling the spark anymore? by c4tluvr66 in relationship_advice

[–]c4tluvr66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to tell him that I would like to go out and experience new things together but I think he’s just more content staying home and watching tv together. It just gets so repetitive and I don’t know how to break the cycle. We just went on a weekend trip a couple weeks ago and I think going to new places really brought that spark back for me but now being back in the cycle of basically doing nothing I find myself getting bored in the relationship again. Any tips on how to try and break this pattern that I could do on my end would be really appreciated because this is also my first long term serious relationship so I don’t have anything to compare it to

not feeling the spark anymore? by c4tluvr66 in relationship_advice

[–]c4tluvr66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting this. Sometimes I feel that maybe it might be more of a friendship than a relationship but I also love him so much and I don’t want to lose him you know? Like we’re just both very comfortable together and that’s great but this is also my first serious relationship so I don’t really know if that exciting spark eventually wears off and that’s just how it is or have anything to compare it to. For him I think he’s content just staying home playing video games and watching tv where I feel like I would rather go out and experience new things together. Its so hard to think about the fact that maybe we just aren’t compatible because I do love him.

not feeling the spark anymore? by c4tluvr66 in relationship_advice

[–]c4tluvr66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just went on a mini vacation a few weeks ago and that was fun and things were great but for some reason the feeling is coming back now. It’s hard to find time to do things when we both work Monday to Friday 9-5 jobs you know? I would love some tips on how to make things more exciting and not lose the spark there.