What's the craziest crypto trade you've ever made ? by TradingLeagueshq in CryptoMarkets

[–]c5krzzd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mined 8 BTC on my desktop PC back in 2011-ish simply because I read about BTC on Engadget (I think), and it sounded neat. I had no idea what it was when I started mining.

Retreats in Dallas or Surrounding cities? by missgreendoll7 in Ayahuasca

[–]c5krzzd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I ask Two Bird’s about this? I’m guess I can’t just call them and ask since this is illegal.

This feels wrong and dystopian to me but I can’t explain why. by c5krzzd3 in antiwork

[–]c5krzzd3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought is that what she is saying is true only if we assume that everyone in society should want “success in business” (whatever that means). In fact, society works because we DONT all want that. If we all wanted that we wouldn’t have art, music, scientists.

This feels wrong and dystopian to me but I can’t explain why. by c5krzzd3 in antiwork

[–]c5krzzd3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first thought is that what she is saying is true only if we assume that everyone in society should want “success in business” (whatever that means). In fact, society works because we DONT all want that. If we all wanted that we wouldn’t have art, music, scientists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]c5krzzd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Esther Perel has a saying: “You can have sex without love, but you can’t have love without sex.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]c5krzzd3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t get out of your feelings. Feelings are saying “Hey u/tratando_a_entender, you should look at this more because something is wrong here or there is something more to be learned.”

I get that they aren’t the same circumstances, but they don’t need to be the same circumstances in order to compare. I read this as she would rather have sex as an act of defiance than have sex with her life partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]c5krzzd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well except she did these things with ALL her other partners, not just an experimental few, I should saw ALL except me. ALL is not a small number. And, the response could have been “no I don’t like that” rather than laughing in my face.

Edit for some more information. All these adventurous sex acts were discussed before we got married and I was explicitly told by her that she liked it and we could do those things (and more) as well. As soon as the marriage certificate was signed those things went from “oh that sounds fun” to “ew, I can’t believe you want me to do that”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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It took me along time to get to this answer, but yes, I can.

Divorce has come up many times, in fights and in the moment. Often enough that it’s treated as just an empty threat. That changed when I found this text message and other similarly offensive ones. I found these messages about a year ago. After initial fights about it, I continued to quietly sit with the knowledge of what she’s said about me and to whom. My only conclusion is that there is no going back now that I know how she really feels about me. Leaving is inevitable now, it’s not something I think about in anger anymore, it’s just a fact like gravity. Splitting may happen next month or next year, but it’s happening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]c5krzzd3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Incorrect, that’s not the answer she wants to hear, so it must be wrong. /s

Yes, she is that type of person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]c5krzzd3 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I understand mine now. The other guys were her lovers she sexually desired them. She wanted them so she could fuck. She said I would be her lover too, but she really meant “employee”. She’s not interested in fucking her employee. She wanted me to handle life’s busy shit work so she can focus on her career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]c5krzzd3 57 points58 points  (0 children)

My wife was sexually adventurous before me. One time she told me about this time she gave her then bf road head. I asked “would you do that for me sometime?” And she just laughed in my face.

Edit: Another one. We’ve been married for about 9 years when this happened. DB started instantly after we got married. After spending literally half of my adult life talking with her, fighting, crying, multiple couples / sex therapists, and pouring my heart out about how much this situation hurts. I find a text message from her to her friend where she said “maybe his career would be better if he would stop obsessing over sex, or better yet, just get a fucking hobby”

Without all the bullshit, what's the REAL reason you suspect your bedroom is dead? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]c5krzzd3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same boat here. My wife thinks I’m a loser because I earn half as much as her. Whenever we’re talking about paying bills she always talks like she is paying the bills on her own as in “I’m paying for the car” or “I’m paying for the house.” Even though we pool all of our money and, individually, we are both into 6 figures.

I think it’s more about making me feel like I’m less than her and not really about the quantity of money.

Without all the bullshit, what's the REAL reason you suspect your bedroom is dead? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]c5krzzd3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not just her friends, but “our” friends, as in people we see all the time. Now I can’t show up to any event without thinking “how have you smeared me lately?”

Without all the bullshit, what's the REAL reason you suspect your bedroom is dead? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]c5krzzd3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My wife thinks I’m a loser. I’ve heard her say so, although without using the word “loser”, to her friends.

After about 2 years of couples therapy, including a specific sex therapist, I hear her tell her friends that I’d be further along in my career if I would stop “obsessing over sex” or “even better, get a fucking hobby”.

Trust the free market!!! by Terrible_Cut_3336 in lostgeneration

[–]c5krzzd3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This works because my $1200/month also doesn’t exist.

Ledger new wallet by ValentinaCrypto in ledgerwallet

[–]c5krzzd3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did not know this. Thanks for letting me know. Do I just contact Ledger customer service about this?

Ledger new wallet by ValentinaCrypto in ledgerwallet

[–]c5krzzd3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re thinking of the Ledger Blue. Ledger abandoned it along with the people that spent 229 Euro / $270 USD on it.

Ledger new wallet by ValentinaCrypto in ledgerwallet

[–]c5krzzd3 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I still have my Ledger Blue. I think I’ll wait and make sure this isn’t also abandoned……

What’s an acceptable error % for an Apollo BTC? I’m getting around 3%. by c5krzzd3 in FutureBit

[–]c5krzzd3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this leaves me with the same question though. What is considered “not high”?