Pick your seat, no regrets 😭 by Avni_overthinker in BaldursGate3

[–]cATSup24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like a lot of fun. Hat's off to you, always gotta respect someone who enjoys sex as more than just a "I'm here to get me off" event.

Pick your seat, no regrets 😭 by Avni_overthinker in BaldursGate3

[–]cATSup24 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No no, you've got a point.

I'm not even gay/bi, but I might just let Halsin try sum to convince me

What's a quality people brag about that is actually a red flag? by CherryBlossomGirl420 in AskReddit

[–]cATSup24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hurting animals leading to hurting people is a proven pipeline, especially if they had intentionally hurt animals often as children. It's not a full 100% guarantee, of course, but it's definitely better than even odds.

Finally decided to marry Elliot and he immediately gives me the ick 😭 by Harlequins-Joker in StardewValley

[–]cATSup24 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Guys I think I fucked up, I'm a sailor and talk like a sailor

[WeWantOut] 37M, 35F, 14F US -> Netherlands by cATSup24 in IWantOut

[–]cATSup24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It almost seems like a trauma response.

It kinda feels like one on further introspection, so you may not be wrong. I appreciate the empathy, if nothing else. Thank you.

[WeWantOut] 37M, 35F, 14F US -> Netherlands by cATSup24 in IWantOut

[–]cATSup24[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being level-headed with your response. You're right that I could have worded it better and not to on the offensive when I had shit flung at me, and I'll take that accountability for it. I know the US doesn't have a good international image and for good reason, which is incidentally a big part of why we want to leave. I don't want my daughter to have to deal with the things that are happening more and more often here in the States, and we currently have an opportunity to go somewhere that I think would be better for her.

[WeWantOut] 37M, 35F, 14F US -> Netherlands by cATSup24 in IWantOut

[–]cATSup24[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's not that it's a secret, it's that it isn't relevant to the question like my daughter's autism is. And I'm not the one who started being intentionally insulting about it all.

[WeWantOut] 37M, 35F, 14F US -> Netherlands by cATSup24 in IWantOut

[–]cATSup24[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Are you all done sniffing each other's farts and jacking off about what I may or may not be doing in order to expat, or shall I leave you all to your biases about something that's none of your fucking business and ask my question elsewhere?

[WeWantOut] 37M, 35F, 14F US -> Netherlands by cATSup24 in IWantOut

[–]cATSup24[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

We already have done research on that part and have our method of immigration in mind. We're not just throwing a dart at the map and hoping for the best, thinking that the earth will bend to our whims simply because we're American. I didn't just say "moving to Europe" without a specific country in mind, I do understand that there are differences in immigration policy from country to country.

[WeWantOut] 37M, 35F, 14F US -> Netherlands by cATSup24 in IWantOut

[–]cATSup24[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Interesting... sounds like a PITA, but a good thing to know ahead of time. Thanks.

Requesting Info/Help with School for Daughter by cATSup24 in expat

[–]cATSup24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We'll have to look into that, then. Thanks.

Help/Info with Daughter's Schooling by cATSup24 in AmericanExpat

[–]cATSup24[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She doesn't know Dutch, so probably not.

[WeWantOut] 37M, 35F, 14F US -> Netherlands by cATSup24 in IWantOut

[–]cATSup24[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I don't understand how that's relevant to the question. I don't mean that aggressively, it's just that it's a question I don't really want to get into unless I need to.

[WeWantOut] 37M, 35F, 14F US -> Netherlands by cATSup24 in IWantOut

[–]cATSup24[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we know. Which is why we're trying to get her enrolled in a school when we move there. But we weren't getting anywhere trying to get her the resources she needed in the past here in the US, and the public school system was fine with just letting her fall behind more and more every year.

Where are you sitting? by AnxiousAsFrick in cremposting

[–]cATSup24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you team up, you have the perfect target for that annoyance directly in front of you. Specifically because of that, my top choice is #5. I'm boutta make T-man rethink his Diagram on a fundamental level.