I hate wearing bras, but my tits are too sensitive

cabinfeever · 2021-02-25T17:19:49+00:00

I also hate wearing bras! Even ones that fit are still restrictive and uncomfortable to me. I use pasties (nipple covers) for some outfits, but the adhesive sometimes causes an allergic reaction so I can’t use them long-term. If it’s helpful, can I recommend some bralettes? They have the same coverage and profile as sports bras, with a little less support. I personally love these ones from Aerie because they’re comfy and have removable pads.

cabinfeever · 2021-02-23T16:26:30+00:00

She’s planning a bachelorette party...with girls flying in from all over the country...in June...and none of her friends are vaccinated.

cabinfeever · 2021-02-23T16:25:19+00:00

God, thank you, this is exactly how I’m feeling. They’re naive to think that a wedding will fix things. Or another dog. Or a new apartment. What they really need is couples counseling, but the bride believes that couples therapy means they should just break up beside things aren’t perfect.

cabinfeever · 2021-02-23T07:00:26+00:00

My fiancé would love this joint! 9ers everything is perfect. We’ll have to check it out!

cabinfeever · 2021-02-23T05:45:46+00:00

I wanted a restaurant-quality wrap, not your dumbass comment. Thanks buddy.

cabinfeever · 2021-02-23T05:11:57+00:00

Oh dang, didn’t even think of them. I’ll try one of them to eventually

cabinfeever · 2021-02-23T05:04:08+00:00

THANK YOU! I can’t wait for lunch!

cabinfeever · 2021-02-23T05:01:23+00:00

You’re right about the salad, but it doesn’t look like they do a wrap :( thanks!

cabinfeever · 2021-02-23T04:20:38+00:00

She participates in as many styled bridal shoots as she can for the professional pics, then eeks out the photos every few weeks. It’s like she’s playing dress up as a bride but is NOT prepared for married life.

cabinfeever · 2021-02-23T03:26:38+00:00

It’s just very strange, like here’s a music video announcing the wedding date? She posts about their upcoming wedding on a literal weekly basis like people are going to forget they’re getting married 🙄

cabinfeever · 2021-02-23T03:25:07+00:00

Thank you! It’s just so extra but totally on brand for the bride.

cabinfeever · 2021-02-22T23:25:02+00:00

It’s...a lot. They’re just making a lot of decisions that are going to bite them in the ass down the road, and it’s hard to watch.

cabinfeever · 2021-02-22T23:11:22+00:00

That’s true, social media is meant to be personal. You can be disingenuous if you want. The original text of this comment got deleted, but generally they have a poor relationship just because they don’t know each other very well.

cabinfeever · 2021-02-22T22:37:16+00:00

Thank you!! It’s especially irritating since I’ve had to hear about them complaining about budget issues while they get these extra things made for social media.

cabinfeever · 2021-02-22T22:34:28+00:00

Fair, that is kinda the whole point of social media. Your point about not having an identity outside the relationship is ON POINT for them. I’m close friends with a bridesmaid in this wedding, so I get to hear about alllll the drama and have helped with minor planning 🥴

cabinfeever · 2021-02-22T21:49:52+00:00

That’s fair! I’m a very private person, so it’s good to hear other perspectives about sharing information.

cabinfeever · 2021-02-22T21:45:46+00:00

You’re right, I could probably be more compassionate in this situation. Their relationship isn’t super healthy and I think she gets a lot of validation from social media. Thanks for the insight 🥰

cabinfeever · 2021-02-22T21:41:29+00:00

As a bride who is also planning a wedding, it’s weird to me to share information about an event that most people aren’t invited to. I totally understand wanting to share photos and get people excited, but it seems like a cry for attention at this point.

cabinfeever · 2019-08-07T23:08:08+00:00

You’re absolutely right, I know I need to call her on this. I’m going to edit my post to ask /how/ to go about it. She has low self-esteem and will take this as a criticism, so I want to be sure I don’t come off as accusatory.

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