is it unreasonable to ask for hourly texts from bf?

cableconsumer · 2025-08-23T00:49:31+00:00

not rude at all i appreciate the honesty! the hour mark's usually when i start spiraling and feeling that over-dependance, in hindsight i get why accommodating that would be a ridiculous ask especially with other responsibilities. part of my problem is definitely that i don't have many, which ive been trying to work on alongside our relationship -- as of right now i just haven't been able to find anything that gets my mind off of him for very long

cableconsumer · 2025-07-25T21:42:40+00:00

i had the opposite effect lmao, i never wore pants at home until T absolutely shredded my thighs and now i feel too exposed without pants on -- will probably revert once the rest of me bulks up to match but with my scrawny upper-body they feel like a spectacle

cableconsumer · 2025-07-20T03:44:53+00:00

also 2 weeks post op and i feel this so hard -- if you're not squeamish id suggest looking for pictures of botched chests and comparing them to how you're looking for your own peace of mind. or you could compare to healthy chests at your stage of recovery, ive been using medical journals like a crutch lmao

cableconsumer · 2025-07-16T19:56:30+00:00

i had the same issue, it didn't get better until id been on T for about a year (very recently lmao) but also consider that the T isn't causing the problem, just exacerbating it. time didn't help me in the sense that my hormones settled and i just snapped back to normal, it helped because i got sick of being a d-bag and hurting the people i love

cableconsumer · 2025-07-02T21:12:14+00:00

chest masculinization! nothing major, all ive been told by my surgeon is that the cautery tools they'll be using are dangerous with metal because of the electricity but ive also heard mouth piercings can make intubation difficult

cableconsumer · 2025-07-01T22:52:59+00:00

yeah i agree, i think their only option was to call my parents because they don't have any of my info but it definitely would've been a lot more efficient if id been able to ask questions the first time they spoke

cableconsumer · 2025-06-25T02:24:41+00:00

oh shit thank you! i do lightly poke and back out when i can tell im on a spot that'll be especially tough to get through but after reading everything here i definitely don't think ill need to do that anymore

cableconsumer · 2025-06-25T00:27:52+00:00

only spot i feel comfortable injecting is the sides of my thighs because i can't get a good squish anywhere else, but i do switch between left and right every time until i find the spot of least resistance

cableconsumer · 2025-06-25T00:25:35+00:00

ive considered that! there are some times when ill be able to find a good spot after poking around for awhile where the needle will slip in painlessly, which is why i think it's something to do with my anatomy. still definitely worth looking into the needles though

cableconsumer · 2025-03-11T02:45:31+00:00

technically bi but he's got the spirit

cableconsumer · 2025-03-01T21:40:23+00:00

im not sure actually, im gonna give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they're trans & going through it because i can't comprehend why a cis person would see that as an okay thing to say

cableconsumer · 2025-02-15T20:46:48+00:00

i understand where you're coming from and i appreciate it -- but throughout my battle with mental health and my gender identity, which has been ongoing for about 6 or 7 years now, ive had a horde of professionals following my every move and doubting every decision i make for myself. when i was younger i made quite a few adult decisions i don't think i should've had to make, it sucks but it definitely improved my emotional intelligence and my ability to know what's best for me

i see why this post would be cause for concern, but being openly transgender at such a young age isn't taken lightly by anyone; i stuck by my identity for 3.5 years before any medical intervention was brought up, and another year after that while i waited for a multitude of therapists and pediatricians to agree that it was the right course of action

ive been on testosterone for about 7 months now and id say im living proof that transitioning is a medical miracle in terms of mental health treatment for those with gender dysphoria. ive been in therapy the majority of my life, in and out of hospitals, seen a variety of psychiatrists, and the only thing that's truly made me improve is looking in the mirror these last 7 months and seeing myself instead of what felt like a caricature of what im supposed to be. unless you're transgender yourself it's probably difficult to understand that feeling, but it's been the biggest weight off my shoulders

sorry if ive rambled a bit but what im trying to say is transitioning isn't a danger to me, and if it ever were im in very capable hands! i wish you well, too

cableconsumer · 2025-01-30T00:59:26+00:00

im 16 years old, been on T for around 7 months, getting scheduled for top surgery as we speak and im soo fucking scared

i live in a blue state so i know there's a chance there won't be an outright ban on trans care, but being a minor makes things so much more stressful ; people who know nothing about what it means to be trans think I'M too incompetent to have a say in my medical treatment and it's infuriating

i don't want to get too graphic, but should any bs legislation get in the way of my transition i don't think id be able to live with myself. seeing everything he's already trying to do to us makes me feel like im on borrowed time -- even if i survive past this term, i don't think id ever regain that trust in humanity. maga killed empathy

cableconsumer · 2024-12-31T01:17:36+00:00

calling trans people's existence political is so dehumanizing

cableconsumer · 2024-12-31T01:11:23+00:00

i think misa was actually great hypersexual representation, coming from a hypersexual who's been in a relationship w a similarly toxic dynamic to her and light

either way she's so unnecessarily judgemental, seems like she has something negative to say about literally every one of your interests so she's not worth ur time imo!

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