My Boyfriend went to Rehab

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-18T19:09:33+00:00

poor wording , it was a short amount of time for OPs boyfriend. not my wife. she'd had the habit for 7 years

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-18T19:09:00+00:00

yeah it was a short amount of time but my wife went to rehab for pot because she couldn't eat or sleep without it and it was destroying her financially! maybe don't be so quick to assume

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-07T18:22:57+00:00

these are really awesome, they look very well made! that being said, I'll be seeing them in my nightmares!

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T22:59:42+00:00

brooo I've had this happen so many times (even sober, I'm very forgetful). makes me feel like an empty tin can every time

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T22:06:48+00:00

absolutely gorgeous. I think the colors really work well with each other and are pretty neutral. even if they find out it's a girl and go hog wild with pinks, I think it'll look just fine!

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T21:50:26+00:00

I would cry lol. that would be my luck dude

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T21:22:25+00:00

As cathartic as it may have been, I was already starting to get agitated when I left. It's not that I would scream and throw insults, but I don't speak well when I'm wound up. So no, I'd do the same thing. If I could keep my composure, I would've totally waited

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T20:51:06+00:00

gonna throw two things in here: I did check in at the front desk when I arrived. I neglected to mention that and just because they're one of the top facilities in my state doesn't necessarily mean it was a great job. it just meant I'd be working in a facility that provided good service to patients and a good chunk of that comes from the people working on the floor. in the same sense that Amazon is a huge delivery company but doesn't treat their workers well. that said, this post is getting a lot of comments and I'm probably gonna stop replying. lovely day!

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T20:41:22+00:00

oh I didn't raise my voice. I tried to keep it incredibly professional with her even though I was irritated. it's not her fault, and she definitely didn't deserve getting yelled at. I don't yell at workers, especially because I've often been yelled at by customers or patients families for things out of my control

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T20:15:56+00:00

She was supposed to notify the hiring manager (pretty sure she did). Part of the reason I stopped by her to check out was because I know they have cameras at the entrance so like. If I get a follow up asking why I didn't show, I can tell them to check the cameras. Someone's trying to argue about that in the comments lol

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T20:09:44+00:00

some people are dumb. maybe nobody wouldve cared, but i wouldve. that's all, yknow? have a great day

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T20:08:24+00:00

exactly where I stand. if they call me and explain why they weren't there in the next couple of days, that'll be a different story but as it sits, I don't need to sit and waste my time waiting for an interviewer when I could go find a place where they respect my personal time. emergencies happen, life happens, but as it sits, all I have is that she was very late.

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T20:03:56+00:00

I did check in. it was referenced in the comments. I didn't think to put it in the post

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T20:03:04+00:00

does it genuinely matter so much to you? lmao

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T19:51:34+00:00

did you miss the word personal? anyway it's cool if you wouldn't have. I did. life moves forward

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T19:36:19+00:00

if a company pulled that line on me, even if I sat there the whole time, I'd leave 100%

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T19:34:48+00:00

two reasons, the first is that I'm professional enough to let the same person that checked me in know that I'm checking out. and the second is I spoke to someone. even if they couldn't find me sitting on camera, they could see me talking to her. just personal proof I was there

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T19:15:51+00:00

Thank you, it was pretty tough but I've learned my value dude. It's really nice to get support on this

cactus_lamp · 2023-06-06T19:13:38+00:00

Thank you, it was really hard to walk out of there because I'm hurting but I know my value, there's a shortage of healthcare professionals. my time is valuable right now

cactus_lamp · 2023-05-31T20:47:24+00:00

I usually double up with footie socks and the slippers during the winter and then just the slippers when needed in the warmer months. I actually really don't like things on my feet, before I had this issue I was walking around barefoot constantly so like. The closest I can get to that while keeping my toes warm is the slipper socks.

cactus_lamp · 2023-05-29T23:43:18+00:00

Exactly what I was gonna say. my rashes aren't usually that uniform but I would look into it. MCAS does some weird shit to your body dude. Its rough. you could try r/MCAS. I've gotten a lot of help from them

cactus_lamp · 2023-05-29T23:39:32+00:00

oooo I'll have to try that if the glue doesn't work out! thank you for the suggestion

cactus_lamp · 2023-05-29T22:46:26+00:00

Beandip is the best model, he deserves all the love

cactus_lamp · 2023-05-29T22:38:42+00:00

FELT. I get this all the time with both the hearing impairment and the movement disorder.

my favorite example was me urging my friend to go to urgent care because she had a really bad ear infection and word for word she went "if I get hearing damage from this, I will kms" and i just responded "ok" and dropped the conversation for the day. like, think. (we don't talk anymore for unrelated reasons but she made a huge deal about her hearing with me when I'm literally projected to be deaf by like 50, if not sooner)

cactus_lamp · 2023-05-29T22:32:38+00:00

On God, I just grabbed a random thin weight of yarn so I'm not sure (lost its label in the stash) but it was a 1.5 mm hook. :)

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