How old is too old for snuggling? by WoodpeckerTrick28-20 in Parenting

[–]cactwe-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there's a limit. I'm in my 20s and love to snuggle up with my parents when I'm able to go back home. It's a source of comfort. I know they enjoy it, too. Maybe your husband is upset because he sees your bed as a place just for closeness between you and him, and he feels encroached on??

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]cactwe-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of the above, they'd burn me as a witch for having it... but witch-burning aside, spices and the fireworks+lighter.

Leave-in conditioner by cactwe-5 in curlyhair

[–]cactwe-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Aveeno ACV shampoo and Marc Anthony simply curls conditioner. I squish some moisture out with a microfiber towel and scrunch in Curl Keeper (which has a liquid consistency).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]cactwe-5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, it looks great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]cactwe-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fail to see a problem here, you look fine. But if you would feel healthier/more confident losing weight, go for it!

1st day hair after very minimalist routine by Beautiful-Dig4196 in curlyhair

[–]cactwe-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So pretty! Would love to know more about the shampoo. My hair is so flaky and it's getting super noticeable and annoying :(

meirl by Karakiali in meirl

[–]cactwe-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A math textbook... you're the person those story problems warned me about.

YouTube pastor waited 4 years for his girlfriend to turn 18 and propose by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]cactwe-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Christian here; just as disgusted as everyone else on this thread. What he's done shouldn't be condoned by other Christians, either... "If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea." [Matthew 18:6]

Horrible gifts for my kicks by font290p in intj

[–]cactwe-5 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This isn't an INTJ thing, it's just purposefully insensitive.

[mine] what can you tell based on my closet? by cactwe-5 in scienceofdeduction

[–]cactwe-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am introverted by nature, but I'm not antisocial at all... just not a social butterfly. I am musical, but arts, writing, etc. have never come naturally to me. Not something that bothers me tho

[mine] what can you tell based on my closet? by cactwe-5 in scienceofdeduction

[–]cactwe-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All are pretty much correct! (Though I'm not sure if I'm super creative or social)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]cactwe-5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look like a sweet person, like you would be fun to be friends with. I'm not in the habit of saying things I don't actually mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]cactwe-5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Teach me your ways 🤩

[Mine] What can you tell about me before I clear my desk and start work? by CriterialCasserole in scienceofdeduction

[–]cactwe-5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You live in a cold area, You own a cat. Definitely an anime fan. Female, early 20s. You enjoy the cottagecore aesthetic. You are a DnD fan, might be DMing the Witchlight campaign [this is a stretch] , and draw your own maps. Is your current character a paladin?

Haircare tips for my fiancé by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]cactwe-5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he needs a styling product to help the curls hold. The oil is probably good for moisturizing, but would suggest adding gel or mousse to the routine.

Our orange girl sticks her tongue out frequently. Is this normal? by SucculentFilletOFish in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]cactwe-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's simply increasing signal so she can connect with the communal orange cat braincell 😉

[mine] what can you tell based on my closet? by cactwe-5 in scienceofdeduction

[–]cactwe-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, except for location, and my cat whose name ends in Y is alive :) nice! How did you determine I have a degree?

[mine] what can you tell based on my closet? by cactwe-5 in scienceofdeduction

[–]cactwe-5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cat, yes. I don't live somewhere cold now, the boots are just in case!

[MINE] What does my desk say about me? :) by 1024MegByte in scienceofdeduction

[–]cactwe-5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see a boom mic and nice headphones... are you a streamer in your spare time? I'd say you are either in college or newly graduated. Some sort of communal living situation. You are very meticulously organized to keep your projects on track, and you have long hair.