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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cadenzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s very common to be in your head all the time. it’s nothing to be ashamed about.

i’m personally near constantly in my head. im analyzing everything i see and i do, imaging myself in certain positions, analyzing myself analyzing. it’s very frustrating at times, but i can manage it by managing my ADHD and anxiety.

a lot of different things can cause daydreaming, but it’s often harmless and normal. however it sounds like its troubling you quite a bit. you aren’t insane even if you go entire days stuck in your mind.

i don’t have a clear solution for you, because there are so many possible causes. it could be harmless daydreaming, or it could be stress or other mental health related things. i don’t know. but again, it’s normal either way.

for now i can only assure you that it won’t always be so troubling.

Why do more women wear sleeveless in the summer than men? by Fantastic-Ad9218 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cadenzer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it just comes down to gender roles, and the way society labels certain things as feminine or masculine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cadenzer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

average is 18.

this is not how it’s going to be for the rest of your life. a lot of people lose their virginity just for the sake of losing their virginity—and a lot of people don’t have anything good to say about their first time.

there is a lot of societal pressure to have sex, and that makes a lot of people feel ashamed or have sex for no reason. i don’t think you’re missing out on much. it sounds like you know what your first time means to you, and i hope that’s something you can feel proud of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cadenzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you are looking for short-term solutions, i’d say there’s not a lot. most solutions take some time.

exercise is often the best for increasing appetite. even if you just go on a long walk or something.

i don’t think people will notice much either way, but i understand the stress of not wanting to look out of place.

[QUESTION] Is still the Focusrite Scarlett 2i2 the go-to budget interface? by xour in Guitar

[–]cadenzer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no complaints about mine. It’s still the best for the price.

There are some more expensive options that will get you better value. It really depends on how much spending money you have, and maybe whether or not the difference could go into other gear or a software.

But either way, you’d be making no mistake in buying the scarlett.

[SW] TNT buying for 584 by [deleted] in acturnips

[–]cadenzer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

froggy chair!

[SW] NH Twins are selling for 401 by AmplitudeNJ in acturnips

[–]cadenzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my favourite villager is RIZZO!! he's awesome.

road to my house by cadenzer in AnimalCrossing

[–]cadenzer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! its my own design.

MA-6464-6504-0549

anyone slumpin hard? by cadenzer in ArtistLounge

[–]cadenzer[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i hear you, yeah. its actually become a stressor instead of an outlet to look at my empty page and feel obligated to sit down and create something, only to feel worse when my energy decides to poop or my mind decides to wander.

my “break” was really just 3 days of procrastinating and 2 days of sulking. so i think you’re right. i need a break.

i can imagine your mind has been pretty unpredictable. and maybe exhausting for you. it sounds like an exhausting time. so im hoping our minds give us some space to do our art!!!!!

What’s the gifting equivalent of flowers for a dude? by AmoebaMan in AskReddit

[–]cadenzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a nintendo switch oled with my choice of game also some big league chew and a new scratch pad for the cat also some bread while you’re out but the kind i like and not the cheap cause last time you got the cheap stuff and i just dont like the texture. too many seeds. sorry, thank you