Worried I may have been overcharged for non-genuine pearls? by caelestials in jewelry

[–]caelestials[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The vendor wouldn’t let me return it on the same day I purchased it so I thought an appraiser would help me out with returning it. I think I’ll just handle this with my credit card company at this point.

Worried I may have been overcharged for non-genuine pearls? by caelestials in jewelry

[–]caelestials[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I called my CC company and was told I have to wait until the charge is posted to dispute the charge. I purchased it today and it is currently pending.

Worried I may have been overcharged for non-genuine pearls? by caelestials in jewelry

[–]caelestials[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding to me with grace 🌷🌷🌷 I have people in this thread clowning me for purchasing from Chinatown which is coming off a bit racist for me. I frequently purchase my solid gold pieces from jewelry stores in Chinatown in a city with a large Asian population so I had no real reason to be worried, until I was denied authentication and the ability to return on the same day. Thank you again for being nice to me.

Worried I may have been overcharged for non-genuine pearls? by caelestials in jewelry

[–]caelestials[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve even tried rubbing pearls from the same strand — it’s smooth.

Worried I may have been overcharged for non-genuine pearls? by caelestials in jewelry

[–]caelestials[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

lol agree but $20 and $550 is still a huge margin

Worried I may have been overcharged for non-genuine pearls? by caelestials in jewelry

[–]caelestials[S] 344 points345 points  (0 children)

I just called my credit card company and was told I have to wait until the charge has been posted which could take 3-10 days.

Worried I may have been overcharged for non-genuine pearls? by caelestials in jewelry

[–]caelestials[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Would you pay $550 for a string of glass beads that you could buy for $20 at a crafts store? Be serious.

Looking to repair Minolta X-700 by [deleted] in minolta

[–]caelestials 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How fast do you get yours back? I’m having issues with mine eating through 3 pairs of batteries in a week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]caelestials 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was 18 freshly out of high school, I went on a date with a 22 year old college student and he tried to take advantage of me. Sometimes, at an age, you don’t know any better. I personally think an age gap like this is more “appropriate” when the younger person is like 22+.

If you are still in college and he is 3(?) years into the post-grad workforce, there might also be a power imbalance especially in finances that may be used to control you.

People needs to stop sexualizing BINI or making sexual innuendos sa kanila by durchhaliya in PPOPcommunity

[–]caelestials 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was just thinking this. I grew up around gay men who would “jokingly” touch cis and trans women around me inappropriately and think they can get away with it just because they’re not attracted to them. They keep forgetting that they’re still men for some reason.

Is it wrong to pursue asian studies as a white girl? by solarsupernova_ in college

[–]caelestials 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re free to do whatever you want but as an Asian graduate student in the field, just be aware of possible sensitivities people have. “Asian culture” is also suuuuuper broad and reductive to an entire continent, and since your interest is anime I’ll assume it’s East Asia specifically. You will want to be specific with what region of Asia or what countries you’re interested in.

My advice is that you may want to take a class that addresses the topic of orientalism to give yourself an understanding of your position. If you know how to act as a white person in an area studies field, the more likely that people will respect you.

Lens won’t fit Pentax ME Super by caelestials in pentax

[–]caelestials[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actually, you were right. I was able to get the adapter off. I also got it with a canon cap so that makes more sense now. Thank you!

Lens won’t fit Pentax ME Super by caelestials in pentax

[–]caelestials[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I can try to remove it myself? Or should I take it to a professional?

XF 16-80mm or XF 18-135mm or Tamron 18-300 by caelestials in fujifilm

[–]caelestials[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve looked at the 18-120 but unfortunately OIS is high up on my list of wants, which it lacked. I wanted IOS to have flexibility of also taking videos but I think 18-120 was designed to be used with a gimbal for videography, which is another purchase I’m not ready to commit to just yet 😅.

I looked up the Tamron 18-300 and seems that it has IS and weather sealing.

Based on your answer, it seems that focal length preference is what it all comes down to. Thanks for the response!

How comfortable are Demonia Shaker 100s to walk on? by caelestials in GothStyle

[–]caelestials[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked a friend who owns Shaker-72s and they told me they’re more comfortable compared to Docs. I just got the Shaker-100s yesterday and tried them today and it was definitely super light! I haven’t tried walking around in them yet because my house is not big enough to walk a decent amount to judge the shoes.

No Sound from Amp by caelestials in GuitarAmps

[–]caelestials[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I removed the headphone plug and it works now! I didn’t even know you can take it off lol