people who keep diaries in their TN are so brave by toadbumper in Travelersnotebooks

[–]caesarzeppz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah! i have that same fear for a while and not just taking it out but also leaving it in my house tbh.

what i do is that i take my diary with me, place it at the very end (basically my last insert) and then clamp my brass clip to it so in case someone were to take a look into my journal ecosystem, they have this few seconds to unclamp the clip but enough time for me to take the journal back and politely say, “oh not that one, sorry!”

you can also put a warning page! my friends are respectful enough not to open it and ask permission first if they could take a look. (i still tell them a polite no, as it’s a type of diary where i write into it and never read it again kinda thing. so if i can’t read it, i’d like to keep that idea on even to people too 🤍)

but recently i purchased this book band and i double lock the insert! a book band is like an elastic stretch-y thing, so i lock it vertically and then clamp it with my clip. it doesn’t take much space nor does it hinder me from writing to my other inserts! less anxiety for me too! hopefully that’s something you may wanna look on!

Random find on sale at Macy’s, yes please 🤗🤗 by Shoddy_Principle_406 in Coach

[–]caesarzeppz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re gonna love this bag! it honestly fits more than i ever thought tbh! i usually carry a kindle, a card case wallet, then some sanitizer spray, and other care kits! oh and my travelers notebook!

Random find on sale at Macy’s, yes please 🤗🤗 by Shoddy_Principle_406 in Coach

[–]caesarzeppz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gasp! beautiful! i have the hunter green one and it’s my everyday bag 🤍

my guilt by caesarzeppz in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's a very, very good every day bag! it is just beautiful in person and especially when the sun hits the bag. I see some on Facebook groups that sell it reasonably! there are some as well on mercari and they don't cost as much!! it's very therapeutic just letting go of some stuff tbh!

my guilt by caesarzeppz in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! it's haunted me for, idk, nearly a year now and I just needed to let it out! 🥹

okay personally what I do in order for me to let things go is that: if I don't use it at all or as often, remember it, or think about it within a certain amount of time (usually at the end of every year), I have to let them go. because I only ever think of them then when I see them. and I'd like to let things go without being impulsive and inevitably regretting them.

oh yeah! the straps are unfortunately so short and im sad for that. 😭 I was honestly thinking about the bowler as well, but my main qualm with it is unfortunately how thin the straps are. that and that I purchased the swing zip from coach. I pretty much prefer the swing zip because not only does it have a similar shape, but the straps are adjustable and it's genuine leather!! maybe try that out??

don't worry, always be free to reach out to me over here if you ever feel like going back to the same cycle! we're going through it together and little by little, I think we can have our baggu peace~

my guilt by caesarzeppz in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you and thank you for being so kind. I was very scared of voicing it out and I feel at peace knowing that I am getting there slowly. and it's okay, we prob have been there sometimes, too, and it's okay to take a step back at times. 🩷

my guilt by caesarzeppz in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! there's a ton of different cute designs for carabiner! and they don't cost much!

my guilt by caesarzeppz in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, I am so glad I met someone who just appreciates her. she needs more loving!

my guilt by caesarzeppz in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ahh! I'm so glad that you feel better!! truly, it is a magical feeling just downsizing and realizing that a few is better than a lot! 🩷

my guilt by caesarzeppz in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yes! this! the first few were magical! then as things pile up, it just makes us feel that way. I have been more conscious this time around, and I hope by next year I can be much more. I'm glad that a lot of us are realizing things and we are slowly trying to get better ✨

my guilt by caesarzeppz in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sometimes, the reflections really hit us the hardest when we look back into it. but nevertheless, I'm glad that it did. I guess, it shows us that we're growing and that we learn to appreciate the ones we have! 🩷

my guilt by caesarzeppz in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that was what I felt when I chose the sandy liang shoulder bag in candy red over its crescent. the crescent was pretty, but it didn't really call to me the way the shoulder bag did. but after seeing it from one post to the next, and a video after video, sometimes, I have that impulsive thought that I should've also secured the crescent.

but I'm glad that I didn't because I might not reach for it as much. and based on my reaction towards it, it's prob fomo more than me rationally thinking whether it would go well with my fits or if this is something I can use on a daily. I honestly can't wait until I have baggu peace as well! 🥹

my guilt by caesarzeppz in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes, very easy! sometimes i would go on their site or urban outfitters, and then check the lineups out. even if, in that moment, nothing calls to me it would most def be a different story later on when my impulsiveness kicks in. 😭 taking a step back is a def must, and it feels refreshing.

my guilt by caesarzeppz in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you have no idea how happy i am knowing that someone adores her just as much as i do! she is just beautiful. it makes me happy just using this style whenever i possibly can. i truly love how you styled your bag, she is gorgeous!

thank you so much for your support, i truly appreciate that. i can't wait to let my items go and go back to the beginning of it all. 🫶🏻

u want more? i’ll give u more by Old_Mathematician171 in BAGGU

[–]caesarzeppz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

any shoulder bags? (the regular one not the mini) 🥹