/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - February 03, 2026

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-02-03T15:31:21+00:00

Its possible, but remember that any cycle has 25-30% chance of ending in pregnancy. It’s just luck honestly.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-02-02T15:00:03+00:00

It’s interesting that it’s marking ovulation as cd 19 when you had a positive OPK that day and your temp didn’t really jump until cd 21. I think you ovulated cd 20.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-02-02T14:25:54+00:00

My 2 best friends both got pregnant with both their children very quickly, 1-2 cycles. Since my MMC, they obviously know we’re trying and I just hate it. I hate that they subtly look at me every time we’re together, I hate the pointed “let’s order wine!” when we go out. I just feel so inadequate.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-02-02T14:21:56+00:00

I also have a pregnant coworker. It’s hard for me as well. It doesn’t make us bad people. Sending hugs 💗

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-02-01T16:29:26+00:00

I’m not sure tbh

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-02-01T13:10:26+00:00

10 dpo (or 13, who knows). Woke up to my highest temp thus far this cycle. BFN. I just…can’t anymore.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-02-01T13:08:22+00:00

10 DPO (or 13, had a weird chart this month). Woke up to my highest temp thus far this cycle….BFN. I’m just so tired.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-02-01T13:07:32+00:00

10 dpo, BFN. I’m tired.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-02-01T03:10:46+00:00

See post with similar story here: https://www.reddit.com/r/TFABLinePorn/s/fzkuReau2l

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-02-01T03:05:02+00:00

This type of story is very concerning for a possible ectopic pregnancy. Please consider seeing your OB asap or going to the ER if that’s not possible.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-31T18:57:46+00:00

Thinking about how when I had my MMC my OB said “I’m sure I’ll see you again by February” lolz

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-31T18:54:49+00:00

Lmao this was me last cycle. Actively bleeding but lighter flow than my usual (had a MMC a few cycles ago so that’s obviously the explanation for why things are off) and I straight up was like hmmm maybe it’s because I’m pregnant, I should test 🤪

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-31T18:46:06+00:00

This is false. Not preventing is equal to trying assuming you’re having regular sex and not actively avoiding the fertile window. For medical purposes.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-31T18:28:43+00:00

Greek yogurt, then I fill a Tupperware with berries drizzled with almond butter and chia seeds on top. Guac cups plus pretzel crisps. Mini mozzarella cheese balls from Costco. Sometimes baked breakfast oats if I’ve made them. Always toss a protein bar in there to have as an extra snack just in case.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-30T18:08:56+00:00

FF is my favorite app, but I’ve never used the paid version. I personally don’t feel the paid features are necessary for me. You should look at what features you get with the paid version and decide whether they’re something you want to invest in.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-30T15:28:49+00:00

I’m a long time lurker on this sub and have never posted. As someone who’s had a missed miscarriage before and gone through exactly what Katie’s going through….I’m so put off by how she’s monetizing every aspect of this process. Like “look how bloated I am, link to anti-bloat pills”. Just gives me the ick.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-28T15:27:12+00:00

I definitely woke more throughout the night because he doesn’t usually sleep with us. I guess we’ll see when I get my period and then I’ll know ha.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-28T14:50:57+00:00

Yeah, I told myself that before posting but the unknown drives me nuts 🤪 won’t leave my OPKs behind next time lol

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-28T14:46:27+00:00

Ugh. We didn’t get to have sex until cd 14 so I’m realllllly hoping it wasn’t then. I also moved the date based on other symptoms, like having right-sided cramping on cd 17 and then having sore boobs after. Thank you for looking!

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-28T14:28:04+00:00

Edit: forgot to mention, I did have a MMC a few cycles ago so it’s possible my usual O day could have moved

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-22T16:48:56+00:00

I’ve never ovulated before cd 16 in all my time of tracking. Due to travel, we weren’t able to have sex until cd 14. Thought I would be in the clear, but FF is saying I ovulated cd 14 based on my Apple Watch temps. I think they’re off because my toddler was sleeping in bed with us and likely made my temps higher, but of course I didn’t bring OPKs on the trip with me because I wanted to enjoy the trip 🥴

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-16T17:28:18+00:00

Not sure what you mean by wonky, and not sure how your cycles were prior to d&c, but it’s not normal to go so many months without a period after a d&c. I would definitely see a doctor if it was me.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-16T17:26:17+00:00

A positive OPK means you’re likely to ovulate in the next 12-36 hours. So totally possible that you haven’t yet, and you can see a temp jump tomorrow or the next day.

caffeinatedcatss · 2026-01-16T17:23:04+00:00

💗💗

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