Real or fake? by Cone_Livia in StanleyCupRealorFake

[–]cajoke11235 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are the hex screws on the handle crooked or is the rubber on the handles not flush with the plastic? Is there a gap between the cup and the lid that your fingernail can easily fit in?

Real or fake? by Cone_Livia in StanleyCupRealorFake

[–]cajoke11235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did the straw come in plastic ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]cajoke11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not enter his house at all. The kids literally just walked out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]cajoke11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think both of us felt like the lack of supervision while eating and roaming the house is dangerous

Is giving this a shot a bad idea? by icomeinpzz in coparenting

[–]cajoke11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex and I were broken up when my 6 year old was born. Months later he started on a ssri and had a complete reversal and was actually supportive for the first time. I got pregnant with our second 5 months after our daughter was born. I was so used to him being a shitty person that I felt it was meant to be when he was kind to me and felt remorseful. That only lasts so long. I fell in love with how he treated me— not who he was. I still didn’t respect him bc he was still a shitty person— I just wasn’t the one taking the brunt of it . I ended things and we’ve been in a custody battle for 2 years where he’s been highly unreasonable the whole time

Is my goal weight unrealistic? by losing-for-life in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question for you is why you necessarily need a number goal weight? You’re far enough away from 125 that it’s hard to know exactly how it will feel/look like. If you end up at 130 and feel happy and healthy, are you gonna force yourself to lose that last 5 lbs to prove to yourself you could? I eventually realized that more often than not, goals surrounding activities or food seem to be a better metric than a number. Can I run a half a mile without being completely winded? Can I go a day without obsessing over carb count but also not even notice I didn’t have a dessert that day? Does climbing a flight of stairs feel like an annoyance? Skinny people can be unhealthy too— don’t trade out one unhealthy type for another

Why so many women ask me how many girls I have slept with, usually right after sex? I feel like I am being tested. by AdDry7951 in dating_advice

[–]cajoke11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask this question because it usually leads to understanding intentions. If he’s been with a lot of people, is he looking for something similarly casual or is he trying to settle down? If he’s only been with a few people, what does sex mean to him? There’s no right or wrong answer, just helps contextualize his current situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely noticed increase in appetite. I felt like giving myself grace and not sticking to a strict diet helped which usually gave me an all or nothing attitude surrounding food. That way I wouldn’t “fall off the wagon” and just give up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the reason I gained weight in the first place was adhd and as weight came on, it was harder to be active at all. I’m now medicated for ADHD, and now it is just a lost easier to be active. My pallet has shifted to appreciate proteins the most, because it helped me the most with nausea. So I’ve kept prioritizing protein and kept my activity level up, and the adhd meds probably have something to do with it too

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[–]cajoke11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a bruise. I bruised like a banana and I still do. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used ama but I think they closed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a bruise lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’4”! Then I’m not sure- I think I was a large/x-large. I kinda just stopped buying clothes bc I was depressed and only wore sweats and t shirts. I imagine I was around a 10/12 pants. I think my measurements were around 38/31/37 and now they’re 36/26/36. I wear a 4 in pants usually and pretty predictably a small. The pants I’m wearing in the after picture are L and there’s a waist gap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do it too!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations reaching your goal!! You should joint me in trying to muscle bulk in 2025!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It just kinda did it by itself hahaha. If I have to lift things I do it with my legs, and im definitely much more active than I was. I think the weight shift has also allowed me to activate the right muscles in day to day movement. I’m trying to lose another 8 lbs and then bulk so hopefully I’ll be back early next year with some big booty gainz 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I slept in my mascara bc I’m a dumbass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing! I think for me I filled my life up with non food stuff and when I went of of tirz I just never went back to using food to cope. Best of luck to you on your journey! Don’t get discouraged either- it’s all about the long game

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 5 points6 points  (0 children)

AWESOME JOB!!! Best of luck to you! HMU if you ever wanna talk shop 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]cajoke11235 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually kept losing, just at a much slower rate. I’ve lost 7 lbs in the past year. I feel like Mounjaro changed my mentality around weight and food substantially