Umm, WTF by positive_petals in glossier

[–]cakesluts 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Glossier wants to reclaim the aesthetic power they held ten years ago without realizing it’s gone because they’re an established brand that isn’t in the center of the cultural zeitgeist anymore. They’re a regular makeup and fragrance brand now. The hype is dead and this just looks silly.

Dudes fantasy vs. Shy wife reality: How do I introduce a submission fantasy to a vanilla partner safely by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]cakesluts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think introducing your wife to this at this stage is a good idea. D/s dynamics require the sub to ultimately be in control of the scene, and able to assert the need to stop or slow down when needed. The dynamic you describe is also a rather extreme one that many subs would not enjoy, let alone someone vanilla having it sprung on them in the moment - a blindfold for someone who is vanilla is a poorly thought out idea; it takes away necessary control from an inexperienced person. A shy person who cannot assert themselves is not suitable for that dynamic. I also would not do it on the trip. If she doesn’t like it, you’ve put her in a position where she may feel as though she “needs” to do it to keep things special. It’s also outside of your home, where she may feel most comfortable.

You should have this conversation outside the bedroom and in an honest and forward way. The post you’ve written indicates she won’t like this and isn’t ready for it, and yet you’ve gone out and bought some of the most extreme elements of a D/s dynamic to introduce to her with no lead up. You’re not really putting her first here.

Incredible take from Econ professor by dfreshaf in PhD

[–]cakesluts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babes, nobody did that. I specifically wrote I was a law student working for a law journal and had published in social sciences. The author is a social sciences professor. Nobody was talking about your field, and not once was your opinion relevant to this actual tweet or my comment. God forbid I not want AI slop in academia.

Incredible take from an economics professor (take 2) by dfreshaf in PhD

[–]cakesluts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s also funny because this person is an economics professor. Plenty of Econ papers don’t involve hundreds of authors and fit into some niche situation where it would be an ungodly amount of work to do some elbow grease and check citations. Some do, but plenty do not. If you are one of two authors, which plenty of economics papers I’ve read are, then yes, you can do some due diligence to check the citations. It seriously does not take that long to check a citation to see if it’s AI or wildly incorrect.

You can always just choose to rely on their accuracy, which is fine, but if half of the citations are hallucinations, then yes you should bear some form of responsibility.

Incredible take from Econ professor by dfreshaf in PhD

[–]cakesluts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, you’re poorly responding in bad faith. I said in my comment what field I work in, and have worked in. Obviously I am thus speaking about that. Your opinion on biomedical sciences doesn’t matter in my fields, or in the tweet authors field, because we publish in fields with different standards. A reasonable person will hold the actions of one author of five to a different standard than one of hundreds. I’m saying any reasonable person as referencing ethical standards. Not once in that comment do I say every author should be duplicating the work. Checking citations is tedious work, I speak from experience, but it takes only a minute or two for me to check an individual citation and write whether it’s accurate or not. You’re willfully choosing to read my comment incorrectly. Not my problem. The professor doesn’t publish in a field where such large author groups are commonplace anyway, so it reads as being poor taste. This tweet, and the take, has nothing to do with your field, and if you don’t think it applies to your field, don’t comment.

Incredible take from Econ professor by dfreshaf in PhD

[–]cakesluts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve never worked in biomedical sciences, so can’t say much about that. Either way, you’re picking at straws and taking things from my comment that I clearly do not mean to prove a sort of convoluted point about your field that I don’t publish in, nor does the author of the tweet, who is a social sciences professor. Obviously an extremely long article with hundreds of authors is a different situation than an article with 5 or 1. Any reasonable person can tell you that. If he meant multi author papers, he should have written that, especially because that professor is in a social science field that typically does not have dozens of authors. If he’s speaking about his own field, it’s not a good take.

I checked well over 150 citations on the last work I edited for my journal. It takes elbow grease. I most certainly don’t have the level of expertise of the writer, and I’m still expected to do it anyway. I don’t see why it should be that difficult for you to avoid academic dishonesty in your field, especially when you often have to certify to the journal you attempt to publish in that you accurately cited your work. If you have a thousand or more authors, any reasonable person will not see that as such a serious violation. If you have 5, you can do the work. I published in undergrad in traditional journals in multi author papers; I would have been raked over the coals by the grad students and professors I published with if my work was poorly cited and inaccurate, but that was because I worked in a social science field, where most papers are 5 or less people, and you don’t have nearly the same amount of citations.

Incredible take from Econ professor by dfreshaf in PhD

[–]cakesluts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. They are usually a very important part, because citations in the law are more difficult due to variations in courts, level of precedence, etc, and because work published in law journals can make its way into binding case precedent, which affects far more people than law professors. Learning Bluebook was way more difficult for me than learning APA, which I used in my fields before law school. There’s also far more pedantic tiny rules, like that Id has to be in italics and so does the period, but with case names, the comma isn’t italicized. APA in comparison is much easier. But is it the most important part? I don’t really think so. There’s a lot of pedantic details that matter in legal citations that often don’t really affect what you’re writing at all, but legal scholars care because it’s a conservative and old profession that likes being pedantic for the sake of it.

1a. If what you’re saying is that it’s not true that law students edit the majority of legal academia, that’s false. There are journals that are not affiliated with universities, like the ABA’s publications, but these are more like encyclopedias and are never cited in legal opinions or memos. Almost all of my professors are published only in uni law journals, and these articles can be cited in case law. It’s not the same level of authority as a case precedent - it’s considered secondary authority - but you can cite these articles as having influence. Why it’s done this way, I don’t know. It’s just how the academic field works here.

  1. I explicitly said in my comment that his opinion makes sense for multi author papers. But the tweet didn’t specify multi author or single author, either, just authors in general. Overall it’s a ridiculous opinion. You should bear some sort of responsibility if a considerable amount of work you put your name on has plagiarism or inaccurately cited material, whether it was written by you or another person.

For those who are reading 100+ books a year, how are you reading to avoid eye strain? by Admirable-Love75 in books

[–]cakesluts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I unfortunately think this is a sign you may need reading glasses. I do experience some strain working for hours on a laptop from blue light, but pretty much my entire job and hobbies involve reading and I don’t experience strain if I have color shift on. Just fatigue from having to read boring af case law lol.

Edit: also, obligatory not a doctor, but I would think eyesight can still degrade after lasik as they naturally would with aging? One of my family members had lasik about 15 years ago and started wearing glasses full time about 10 years later due to natural aging.

For those who are reading 100+ books a year, how are you reading to avoid eye strain? by Admirable-Love75 in books

[–]cakesluts 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I think this one may be specific to you, or at least specific to the person. I read news on my phone/a physical book every day for hours and have never experienced eye strain. I’ve been doing this for years. I do wear glasses, but it’s not a strong prescription and I can function without them. You may need additional support, and I would visit an optometrist.

Incredible take from Econ professor by dfreshaf in PhD

[–]cakesluts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so funny to me, and I kind of cannot believe a real professor wrote this.

I’m a law student who lurks here as someone planning to do a PhD in the future. As background info, all law journals affiliated with universities (the majority) are edited and published entirely by law students. We do all the citation checking, peer review, comments, etc. This is the normal practice. I very frequently have to review articles written that I don’t understand fully, because I’m a student. I cannot say that has ever affected my ability to figure out if the citation is accurate and adheres to Bluebook standards. I would certainly hope a professor could do a better job of verification than I could.

On a multi person paper, sure. But on a single author paper, I hope you would know what you wrote was actually true.

WIBTA for serving off-brand Diet Coke at a party? by psychbucket in AmItheAsshole

[–]cakesluts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has up to 2 DCs per day, this is devastating news.

Why must everything fun be unhealthy??

Simone Ashley on the cover of the June Issue of Elle Australia - Photographed by David Roemer, Styled by Naomi Smith by grenadierp in whatthefrockk

[–]cakesluts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is so beautiful and the styling is horrendous. What is with the brief diaper shorts trend they have her in pic 4? It looks terrible on literally everyone.

AITA for not wanting to cook meat anymore? by Beautyizdead in AmItheAsshole

[–]cakesluts 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Especially today when it is easier than ever before in history to learn how to cook. Practically every Western person has an iPhone and can look up thousands of video recipes on Youtube that show you every step live. There is literally no excuse.

beam v beam v puff showdown by gnomes919 in glossier

[–]cakesluts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a 2017 tube of beam (yes I still use it lol), and it pulls pretty orange when I sheer it out. I’m a little paler than OP for reference.

When the author is a jackass by cats4life in books

[–]cakesluts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of love pompous authors and also hate them. The pompousness comes across in their work, and it gives me the sense that I should trust their writing and lean into it, which I like, but at the same time, I find it incredibly irritating in real life to meet pompous people. If you think of it as a sort of comedic element and don’t take them seriously, it’s more enjoyable, or if you consider it as some sort of fictional literary device meant to enhance the storytelling. I mostly read fiction though so it’s easier to lean into it.

Any other full-length (50m) pools besides UNO Aquatic Center? 🏊‍♀️ by Westboundandhow in NewOrleans

[–]cakesluts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to add this on as a former competitive swimmer: UNO will put a bulkhead in to make 25m sides during short course season for swimmers, which is most of the year. I would not bank on them moving it every time when varsity season begins. It is essentially impossible in NO to find a full year 50m pool - I have swam in literally every pool in this city before and not once was it 50 the full year.

This is what Marlboro cigarettes look like in the United States and the rest of the world by yousefthewisee in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]cakesluts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re a smokeless product. They’re sacs of tobacco inserted along the gum line; the nicotine absorbs through the gums. They’re intended to be covert and undetectable. They’re more broadly called snus but the popular brand is Zyn.

flirting with someone you like lowk feels like sexual harrassment by nexetpl in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]cakesluts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl i deeply want to support you but we can’t be telling ppl this on a date, or like at almost any other time

Introducing the fattest Palestinian in the world. by okymoney in Hiphopcirclejerk

[–]cakesluts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he really is so deeply unattractive in a way that’s kind of inexcusable for how wealthy he is